Is sex with bodybuilders better?

  • Aidenz

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    Jan 13, 2016 1:09 AM GMT
    I've had sex with a number of guys but most of them had a pretty average physic or where rather slim. I can't say that I've had sex with someone who's exceptionally fit or muscular like a bodybuilder. I'm wondering if sex with someone who's more muscular is better or worse? Does it depend on what position you're in?

    I'm a top, never done any bottoming. I know that everyone is different in terms of love making but it's hard to get around the fact that everyone is physically different. I would like to know if I'm missing out on something. We see models that are muscular and slim and we're told that's sexy, but I've met guys with "average" physics and they seemed sexy enough to me.
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    Jan 13, 2016 1:19 AM GMT
    I think it depends on your attraction. If you're attracted to muscles, then it adds much to the excitement and arousal (given that the guy doesn't totally suck at sex).

    I love muscles and body hair, so I'm with a muscular, hairy guy, I'm already so turned on that he doesn't even have to do much. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    Jan 13, 2016 1:26 AM GMT
    It depends. A hard-bodied guy can be an incredible turn-on. But I had one experience with an (apparently) huge bodybuilder/martial arts type who kept propositioning me on-line for years. In person, those big muscles turned out to be soft and kind of gross. And his shriveled, roided-out genitals were useless and a complete turn-off. Needless to say, he turned out to be a big old bottom.
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    Jan 13, 2016 4:14 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidFrom my personal experience, bodybuilders tend to have this "it's all about me me me" attitude. And that typically bleeds over to their sex lives as well. If it's your thing to cater to someone's every whim during sex then have at it.

    I met up with a bodybuilder in SF in May last year. He was six around 290lb of muscle. He didn't have synthol injections in his chest but he had what a lot of more advanced bodybuilders inject which is called PMMA.

    PMMA is a synthetic resin produced from the polymerization of methyl methacrylate. It is often used as a substitute for glass in products such as shatterproof windows, skylights, illuminated signs, and aircraft canopies. Plastic surgeons use it as a butt and lip implant.

    This guy I met up with had this in his upper chest. It felt like a rock and wasn't pliable like the rest of his muscles. It kinda freaked me out.

    Honestly sex with bodybuilders hasn't been all that mind blowing for me. But to each his own.


    What about sex with you? Most people would consider a guy of your build a bodybuilder
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    Jan 13, 2016 4:21 AM GMT
    I have a friend with a bodybuilder's build and every time I great him hello and give him a hug he feels like a rock. I think I'd prefer something with a little give when you squeeze it.
  • Apparition

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    Jan 13, 2016 4:24 AM GMT
    if you close your eyes, having sex with a body builder is pretty much the same as a fat guy. You have to reach around more distance to hug or sleep while cuddling, there is more in the way to reach penetration, and they weigh a lot, so you are not throwing them around, or wanting them to climb on top of you.
  • Aidenz

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    Jan 15, 2016 8:02 PM GMT
    [quote]

    What about sex with you? Most people would consider a guy of your build a bodybuilder[/quote]

    First off. Who are these people cause I've often considered myself to be pretty slender and it's hard to pack on muscle. I am quite flattered. Secondly, other than masturbation, I've never had sex with myself so I have no way to know. Third, I'm talking about a guy who's ripped, the type of dude you see on sports magazines or at the gym benching 300+ pounds.
  • monstapex

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    Jan 18, 2016 8:05 AM GMT
    Aidenz said[quote]

    What about sex with you? Most people would consider a guy of your build a bodybuilder


    First off. Who are these people cause I've often considered myself to be pretty slender and it's hard to pack on muscle. I am quite flattered. Secondly, other than masturbation, I've never had sex with myself so I have no way to know. Third, I'm talking about a guy who's ripped, the type of dude you see on sports magazines or at the gym benching 300+ pounds.[/quote]


    Seriously??? You thought he was talking about you?

    I'm betting he was talking about Muchmorethanmuscle.
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    Jan 18, 2016 9:24 AM GMT
    No different to sex with anyone, muscles do not make the man. I've had sex with some big guys and they were no better than someone of a more average/slimmer build, though obviously there is the visual element that somewhat enhances the overall experience.

    I don't think position factors into it that much, I've fucked them in most positions and it was fine. Also in my experience big muscle guys TEND to be bottoms!
  • Fireworkz

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    Jan 18, 2016 6:51 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidFrom my personal experience, bodybuilders tend to have this "it's all about me me me" attitude. And that typically bleeds over to their sex lives as well. If it's your thing to cater to someone's every whim during sex then have at it.


    Honestly sex with bodybuilders hasn't been all that mind blowing for me. But to each his own.




    I haven't had that much experience but I concur here. Most of the ones I have had have been a disappointment.

    There is something attractive about all that build, firmness and strength that adds to the physicality but I find in my experience they have lacked passion.
  • hit_it_hard

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    Jan 19, 2016 1:21 AM GMT
    I've been fucked by several guys with big muscular, ripped bodies. All have been awesome. Seeing ripped abs and pecs up close while being fucked makes me cum even harder.
    However, I've not been with a steroid user before and don't like what these drugs do to a guy's body. Massive bodybuilders don't do it for me but a lean muscular hairless guy is as good as it gets for me.
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    Jan 19, 2016 1:26 AM GMT
    Aidenz saidIs sex with bodybuilders better?
    Short answer: Yes
    Long answer: Depends on which bodybuilder
  • shawn06

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    Jan 19, 2016 10:57 PM GMT
    Body builders make great bottoms. I think the only true power bottom I've ever hooked up with was someone who understood how to flex those muscles and that night we probably went at it like 4 times.

    As for anything else my experiences have not been as good. Often times they have been aggressive and into weird things or even have issues keeping a hard on.

    So my answer is yes and no, based on personal experience.