Dirty Talking?

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    Jan 16, 2016 1:11 PM GMT
    Hi fellas,

    Do you find this a turn on when from a stranger or offensive?

    It probably works best in a relationship, maybe?

    I've received a barrage of crude slang from some including; "I could so fuck you" or "Get down on your knees and suck my cock"

    Sometimes I'll just say "Fuck off" when it clearly isn't reciprocated.

  • HottJoe

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    Jan 16, 2016 3:07 PM GMT
    Do you mean online?? I normally don't open emails unless I already know the sender. I don't care that much about what strangers project onto me... No offense!!

    Irl, people don't often catcall me out in public. I may turn a few heads, but generally people are subtle.icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 16, 2016 5:41 PM GMT
    Online and a few times when out and about (when seduced).

    Some men behave little gentlemen others are crude and crass, but maybe as banter it can be funny sometimes.

  • Destinharbor

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    Jan 16, 2016 6:45 PM GMT
    I think a lot of dirty talk comes from guys with lots of experience with porn but little experience with real people. Pre-partnered days I hooked up with a guy in from out of town for a convention. When we started talking I realized this guy was in a pretty major EDC job in a serious city. And I knew a lot of people he knew. But once we started going to it, he knew nothing about sex other than "Oh yeah-- gimme more of that fat cock-- etc, etc." I tried hard to not laugh out loud because he was so earnest but it was funny and I've laughed a few times just thinking about it.
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    Jan 16, 2016 9:10 PM GMT
    That's interesting Destinharbor. One charade.

    When crude slang is used with sex, the sex is usually fast and aggressive. icon_eek.gif