Why do all the good guys live so far away from me?

  • Wendigo9

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    Jan 22, 2016 4:56 AM GMT
    I've been on RealJock for quite some time now and have made alot of new friends, not trying to sound ungreatful but little to none of them are anywhere near me. How is it the coolest, nicest, and downright awesome men are never in the same town/city? Anyone else here see or feel that way too?
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    Jan 22, 2016 5:01 AM GMT
    Where the hell is St. Catharines?   icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 22, 2016 5:12 AM GMT
    Yep, same here! I haven't been here long, but Rarely do I get to chat with Connecticut guys icon_neutral.gif I hope I will make some good friends here; regardless.
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    Jan 22, 2016 5:15 AM GMT
    Wtf is a St. Catharines?
    Move to Toronto.
  • Karl

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    Jan 22, 2016 5:15 AM GMT
    Because you ignore those who live near you.
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    Jan 22, 2016 5:36 AM GMT
    It's just physics.
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    Jan 22, 2016 5:38 AM GMT
    Concerted effort on their part?
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    Jan 22, 2016 6:18 AM GMT
    I lived in St. Catharines when I was in CANADA. Pretty city with the escarpment banks.
    Traveling is a good thing now days!

    I loved Niagara Falls
  • Fireworkz

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    Jan 22, 2016 12:24 PM GMT
    It's the first law of dating.
    Everyone you like is unavailable or lives far away.
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    Jan 22, 2016 6:33 PM GMT
    The grass is always greener on the other side.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jan 22, 2016 6:50 PM GMT
    BP201 saidWtf is a St. Catharines?
    Move to Toronto.
    It is a city of almost 150,000 on the Welland Canal between Hamilton and Niagara Falls. There are other large cities in Ontario, Canada besides Toronto.
  • tazzari

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    Jan 22, 2016 6:58 PM GMT
    No!They all live a long way from me!

    Maybe it's the law of the universe. However that may be, best of luck to you - it can happen!
  • bro4bro

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    Jan 22, 2016 7:59 PM GMT
    It's hard to find a guy you truly connect with.
    It's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
    There are probably more needles than you realize...
    But there's a shitload of hay in between.
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    Jan 22, 2016 8:37 PM GMT
    And when you do find them where you are, they probably don't want you!
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    Jan 23, 2016 12:39 AM GMT
    Meanwhile, over in Toronto (nsfw):

    http://40.media.tumblr.com/c3bdeeb0c3da2006d9d36c8591acb777/tumblr_nhisc8p4s81rlsa1yo1_500.jpg
  • FRE0

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    Jan 23, 2016 3:26 AM GMT
    Wendigo9 saidI've been on RealJock for quite some time now and have made alot of new friends, not trying to sound ungreatful but little to none of them are anywhere near me. How is it the coolest, nicest, and downright awesome men are never in the same town/city? Anyone else here see or feel that way too?


    The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
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    Jan 23, 2016 4:30 AM GMT
    Canada has the hottest guys on the planet. Look harder.
  • Import

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    Jan 23, 2016 5:33 AM GMT
    strongbull saidCanada has the hottest guys on the planet. Look harder.

    Oh because you're the authority on what country has the most hot guys?

    bitch......... please icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
  • Wendigo9

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    Jan 23, 2016 4:34 PM GMT
    Sulla saidAnd when you do find them where you are, they probably don't want you!

    Coming from a guy who's to afraid to word/pic his profile. . .
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    Jan 23, 2016 5:11 PM GMT
    Wendigo9 saidI've been on RealJock for quite some time now and have made alot of new friends, not trying to sound ungreatful but little to none of them are anywhere near me. How is it the coolest, nicest, and downright awesome men are never in the same town/city? Anyone else here see or feel that way too?


    No but I live in Houston. Its huge city with a lot of transplants which ensures a nice diversity of guys.
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    Jan 23, 2016 5:12 PM GMT
    Fireworkz saidIt's the first law of dating.
    Everyone you like is unavailable or lives far away.


    Hmmmm seems like the first line of dating when you aren't ready.
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    Jan 23, 2016 8:01 PM GMT
    I felt that way living in New York City AND Miami Florida.

    If the problem's me, it might be you too.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 23, 2016 8:03 PM GMT
    Absolutely have made some amazing friends from RJ over the years, many on Facebook now, even though they may departed RJ. Great site and lots of "room" for friendship development.

    Some may be far away, but I certainly value them all!

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    Jan 23, 2016 8:04 PM GMT
    Import said
    strongbull saidCanada has the hottest guys on the planet. Look harder.

    Oh because you're the authority on what country has the most hot guys?

    bitch......... please icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Sensitive? Not a scientific assessment for sure. But there is a plethora of fine Canadian men on RJ.
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    Jan 24, 2016 2:35 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI felt that way living in New York City AND Miami Florida.

    If the problem's me, it might be you too.

    The city he's in is 150k. You lived in two of the biggest most diverse metropolitan areas in the country.