Double standards-men &women

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    Jan 25, 2016 3:07 PM GMT
    I can't sleep and I haven't posted here in years. i thought of what life would be like in someone else's shoes.. As in if I were a woman

    Since there's not much guidance when it comes to gay dating / courtship and it seems like most guys here are single... If you were a woman would you behave any differently than you would as a gay man?

    Stupid question but I'm hoping for a thought provoking discussion

    I am just naturally not feminine and when I do come out of the closet to people I meet, they don't see it .. Or they discount it. Don't belong here or there but if I were a girl, I'd totally behave like this

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  • HottJoe

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    Jan 25, 2016 3:18 PM GMT
    Sounds like you're repressed. Let your fem side out!
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    Jan 25, 2016 11:25 PM GMT
    We can only hope it's years before your next post.
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    Jan 26, 2016 1:16 AM GMT
    Yes? Sure? I mean, I would be a different person, right?

    Also, I don't go around slapping people's asses and stuff like in that gif. At least not since the court order.
  • Apparition

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    Jan 27, 2016 3:13 AM GMT
    gay men dont get pregnant, and are usually a lot less likely to be raped or harassed. straight men are basically all pigs due to the desperation to have sex and lack of willing partners on a whim without a lot of work that society seems to make them go through so they act differently than gay men who can get laid at will (depending on their standards...dropping them increasing probability immensely...which doesnt work with straight men as linearly...for instance an okay looking 25 year old guy late in the bar says who wants to fuck me follow me home...will...a straight guy will go home alone).

    women thus act differently. women are also so much more judgemental than straight men and even more than normal gay men (queens may vary). women just assume all men are idiots and blame the women in their lives so there is that socialization that would be different. ( man pushing stroller with baby uncovered in cold, pink outfit with orange mixed plaids and green paisley...woman in park thinks "I cant believe his woman let him go out of the house like that!" disregarding the man as an idiot)
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    Jan 27, 2016 3:49 PM GMT
    Painted said... I were a girl, I'd totally behave like this

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    +1
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    Jan 28, 2016 11:35 PM GMT
    Who knows! It is very difficult to imagine an alternate reality. Being a woman, my challenges would have been different, societal expectations would have been different, my upbringing would have been different and all these things shape us into who we are. Just like being a gay man has played a pivotal role in shaping me into who I am today.