What do you consider sexy?

  • athlftlguy

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    Feb 05, 2009 11:30 PM GMT
    So apart from the obvious...good looking...physique etc. What other attributes form a general consensus around 'sex appeal?'

    For me, any guy with most if not all of the following attributes...would make me lose myself!!

    1. Having an attractive, physical appearance.
    2. Being confident.
    3. Being friendly and outgoing.
    4. Having a good attitude about life and the world around you.
    5. Being positive, never criticizing others.
    6. Being a good dresser.
    7. Being smart, insightful and current on world events.
    8. Taking a genuine interest in other people.
    9. Selflessness.
    10. Having a good sense of humor.
    11. Being social.
    12. Ability to interact with a diverse array of people and personalities.
    13. Ability to bring out the best in everyone.
    14. Balance.
    15. Being open minded.
    16. Being in great shape...and having abs to die for :-)
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    Feb 06, 2009 1:51 AM GMT
    I could endorse most of your list. Item 6, being a good dresser, hasn't worked for me with my last 2 partners, but not a war-stopper for me. I'd add to your list something important to me, a euphemistic term I'd call having a "big heart."
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    Feb 06, 2009 1:52 AM GMT
    Eye contact can be all consuming...
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    Feb 06, 2009 5:53 AM GMT
    26mileman saidEye contact can be all consuming...


    Look deep into my eyes................

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    Feb 06, 2009 6:51 AM GMT
    LOL. Awesome thread.

    Numbers 2, 3, 7, 8, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15 are things i definately look for in a person.

    Doens't hurt either if they look good but personality can so much futher.
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    Feb 06, 2009 7:29 AM GMT
    Sounds like you'd be dating Pollyanna.
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    Feb 06, 2009 7:52 AM GMT
    A man that can speak more than one language always gets me hot!
    Una persona que puede hablar dos lenguajes, se vale dos/ A person that can speak two languages is worth two (people).
  • Tyinstl

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    Feb 06, 2009 9:52 AM GMT
    Rejection is my ultimate aphrodisiac. If I'm turned down, for some reason that makes them that much hotter. Sometimes I beat off to the idea of being inadequate.

    Not really. But I like facial hair, nice shoulders and butts, and if a guy has a soul patch i'll probably get on my knees right then and there. Short, fit guys are also hot--they have a defiant masculinity that i find irresistible.
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    Feb 06, 2009 9:59 AM GMT
    Creative spirit get me going. nothing like a guy with soulful eyes who can play an instrument.
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    Feb 06, 2009 10:15 PM GMT
    ¡Hola Vaaliee505! Hi Vaalie505

    ¿Qué tal? What´s up?

    Así que ¿te gusta un tío que hable dos idiomas? So, you like a guy who can speak two languages?

    Hablemos jejejje

    Let´s talk hehehhe icon_lol.gif


    To OP
    I like magnetism... just whatever it is about a guy that puts my stomach into knots....
  • GQjock

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    Feb 06, 2009 10:55 PM GMT
    1. Having an attractive, physical appearance.
    Do I even have to answer that? mei oui[/i] icon_wink.gif
    2. Being confident.
    Yes, in a Big way. I love confident men
    3. Being friendly and outgoing.
    Okay, if you say so
    4. Having a good attitude about life and the world around you.
    Only if he's running in the Miss Universe Pageant
    5. Being positive, never criticizing others.
    Could I care less?
    6. Being a good dresser.
    Some style does help icon_cool.gif
    7. Being smart, insightful and current on world events.
    A definite prerequisite
    8. Taking a genuine interest in other people.
    Eh....
    9. Selflessness.
    Ditto
    10. Having a good sense of humor.
    Laughter is an aphrodisiac
    11. Being social.
    Not needed
    12. Ability to interact with a diverse array of people and personalities.
    Same as above
    13. Ability to bring out the best in everyone.
    Do we care about everyone?
    14. Balance.
    As in?
    15. Being open minded.
    Yeah
    16. Being in great shape...and having abs to die for :-)
    Why is this Last?
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    Feb 06, 2009 11:00 PM GMT
    GuerrillaSodomite said
    26mileman saidEye contact can be all consuming...


    Look deep into my eyes................

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    I'm scared to...
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    Feb 07, 2009 1:49 AM GMT
    well, will you look into my eyes?

    Go on icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:01 AM GMT
    MeOhMy said
    GuerrillaSodomite said
    26mileman saidEye contact can be all consuming...


    Look deep into my eyes................

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    I'm scared to...


    I'm not.

    *pokes RBY's eyes out*

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  • Buckle_Bum

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:03 AM GMT
    athlftlguy said
    1. Having an attractive, physical appearance.
    2. Being confident.
    3. Being friendly and outgoing.
    4. Having a good attitude about life and the world around you.
    5. Being positive, never criticizing others.
    6. Being a good dresser.
    7. Being smart, insightful and current on world events.
    8. Taking a genuine interest in other people.
    9. Selflessness.
    10. Having a good sense of humor.
    11. Being social.
    12. Ability to interact with a diverse array of people and personalities.
    13. Ability to bring out the best in everyone.
    14. Balance.
    15. Being open minded.
    16. Being in great shape...and having abs to die for :-)



    Wow, i have none of these qualities. icon_eek.gif
  • athlftlguy

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:30 AM GMT
    heck...think these are mostly things I strive for in my life. Almost I want to be what I find most appealing...not a bad thing I don't think :-)
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    Feb 07, 2009 4:14 AM GMT
    I think arrogance should be on the list. (Yes, I know confidence is on the list. But confidence is not quite the same.) We all know that a certain degree of arrogance is often sexy. Too much arrogance is not sexy. But the right amount is hot. It makes me feel, "I'll take him down a notch or two."

    Having said that, most of the time I'm not the kind of guy who chases other guys too much. If I don't get some sign of interest pretty soon, I may still look a bit if he's really hot but I'm not going to actively pursue him. So if a guy's too arrogant to be willing to show interest, nothing happens.

    And now I have to admit that people have on occasion told me I come off as arrogant, too arrogant to show it when I'm attracted to someone.
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    Feb 07, 2009 6:15 AM GMT
    YAY for lists!

    1. A guy who makes lists
    2. referst to the list during a date so as to be more efficient.

    HAHA, other than that, someone who will tease me when I do stupid shit, and be perfectly ok w/ me doing the same. Rediculously funny in a stupid / goofy way. Able to read at at least a sixth grade level, but preferably a 11th grade level. Um, yeha, I think that's about it.
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    Feb 07, 2009 6:18 AM GMT
    Sedative said
    MeOhMy said
    GuerrillaSodomite said
    26mileman saidEye contact can be all consuming...


    Look deep into my eyes................

    The hypno toad Pictures, Images and Photos


    I'm scared to...


    I'm not.

    *pokes RBY's eyes out*

    dietoaddydieka0.gif



    Ha! I'll just get technorganic bionic implants from Spiral and Mojo! Then you'll be sorry!
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    Feb 08, 2009 3:37 AM GMT
    I'm still fixated...ribbit,ribbit
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    Feb 08, 2009 3:45 AM GMT
    26mileman saidI'm still fixated...ribbit,ribbit


    Now you're in me power! Muuuuuuahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!icon_twisted.gif