so many hot men, so many non connections

  • barriehomeboy

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    Feb 06, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    I'm overwhelmed, how do u spell that?, by the number of hot guys on this site. But we're all sitting home alone. Why is that? I
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    Feb 06, 2009 4:36 AM GMT
    We're too scared to make a real connection. It seems safer to chat to somebody you fancy once in awhile then forget about them later, or ogle at their half naked pics while you jerk off.
    Seriously, even just trying to make friends with anybody here is like pulling teeth. What gives you guys? icon_neutral.gif
  • JESIE

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    Feb 06, 2009 4:37 AM GMT
    take a chance

    thats all i can say
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    Feb 06, 2009 4:37 AM GMT
    I hate hot guys icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 06, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
    The travel costs are too high in this economy. Besides. Here in Austin, Texas nobody has good sex. Only passable mediocre sex.

    /ducks
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    Feb 06, 2009 4:56 AM GMT
    growingbig saidThe travel costs are too high in this economy. Besides. Here in Austin, Texas nobody has good sex. Only passable mediocre sex.
    I've always been interested in a ratings system. I'm certain my sex is mediocre. What constitutes good sex?
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    Feb 06, 2009 4:57 AM GMT
    Tip # 1: Smile: if you don't have a cucumber up your ass, no need to look like you have one up it.*


    *This statement in this frame of reference assumes having a cucumber up one's rectum would be 'unfavorable'.
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    Feb 06, 2009 5:00 AM GMT
    growingbig saidThe travel costs are too high in this economy. Besides. Here in Austin, Texas nobody has good sex. Only passable mediocre sex.

    /ducks


    I don't know what part of Austin you are in Growingbig, but sex is not mediocre in my part of Austin icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 06, 2009 5:03 AM GMT
    I'm not sitting at home alone, I'm typing this from underneath reedw's bed.............
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    Feb 06, 2009 5:05 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    growingbig saidThe travel costs are too high in this economy. Besides. Here in Austin, Texas nobody has good sex. Only passable mediocre sex.
    I've always been interested in a ratings system. I'm certain my sex is mediocre. What constitutes good sex?


    Good sex = participation. Not: Let me lie here hugging my pillow with my legs spread. No wonder I don't top that much. I don't even know if I can still screw someone while giving them a blow job at the same time anymore. Probably am still flexible enough. Once they assume stupid positions they don't get the good stuff. Not even a proper rimming.
  • beaujangle

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    Feb 06, 2009 5:31 AM GMT
    i think some hot guys are choosy ..............
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    Feb 06, 2009 5:52 AM GMT
    I'm a fool? Maybe your just lucky. I don't actively seek sex every time I'm horny.
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    Feb 06, 2009 8:06 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    growingbig saidThe travel costs are too high in this economy. Besides. Here in Austin, Texas nobody has good sex. Only passable mediocre sex.
    I've always been interested in a ratings system. I'm certain my sex is mediocre. What constitutes good sex?


    That feeling you get when, after that last deep kiss that made you both cum, you look into each others eyes, smile and then both laugh out loud.

  • Roshan16

    Posts: 47

    Feb 06, 2009 9:03 AM GMT
    I've been trying to find guy who cud atleast be a gud friend.................but no one even seems to be alive around here................don't think i'll get the love of my life like this....................

    by the way....anyone interested in a little friendship?
  • GQjock

    Posts: 11649

    Feb 06, 2009 11:05 AM GMT
    'cause I'm sitting in Miami icon_cool.gif

    and a hot guy contacts me in San Diego

    .... or Chicago or Manitoba icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 06, 2009 11:23 AM GMT
    All the hot guys live in Canada (see other thread)

    Hi charlitos icon_wink.gif
  • toybrian

    Posts: 395

    Feb 06, 2009 11:37 AM GMT
    Barrie, I agree with you on this..I see many guys that I email and am lucky to get a response...same as in the chat room...guys hardly talk to you or talk at all...have started talking to guys within 50 miles of me to see what happens...hope to get some response soon...thanks..
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    Feb 06, 2009 12:14 PM GMT
    hot guys know they're hot, and are therefore, assholes. i might be generalizing a bit though..haha
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    Feb 06, 2009 12:21 PM GMT
    For me its location on top of that I'm very pickyicon_confused.gif
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    Feb 06, 2009 12:26 PM GMT
    pattymcpat saidhot guys know they're hot, and are therefore, assholes. i might be generalizing a bit though..haha


    As Stanley Kowalski said, "I never met a dame yet that didn't know if she was good-looking or not without being told, and there's some of them that give themselves credit for more than they've got."

    Which is, perhaps intentionally, a bit internally contradictory, though probably still essentially true.

    And what's true of dames is also true of men, which Stanley doesn't say (though I bet he knows it).
  • Tiller66

    Posts: 380

    Feb 06, 2009 12:46 PM GMT
    Well there are not very many members around me.But I try to make as meny conections as I can.But I do a money problum like many in Indiana so traveling is not something I can do a lot of.I have made some good conections on here and do better here then on sites that are more local.But I really don't see this site as a hook up place(not that I would say no to a hook up)but some were to talk with a lot of like-minded people.
  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16311

    Feb 06, 2009 2:09 PM GMT
    Sitting home?! Where did that come from. I've never "sat home"!
    I'm social on this site for a number of reasons, the need for additional fitness information and to make new friendships at the top. RJ isnt' a hook up site primarily. If you are sitting home, I suggest you get some local activities to fill your time, or if you want dates, get in touch with some local gay sites.
    I would hope your time here would touch on another important point...
    improving who you are!
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    Feb 06, 2009 2:13 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidAll the hot guys live in Canada (see other thread)

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    Yeah, Canada seems to have a ridiculous amount of hot guys. What gives?
  • DiverScience

    Posts: 1426

    Feb 06, 2009 2:16 PM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidI've always been interested in a ratings system. I'm certain my sex is mediocre. What constitutes good sex?


    Clearly you need a full scientific study. Oh hey, look, I'm a scientist!
  • zakariahzol

    Posts: 2241

    Feb 06, 2009 2:17 PM GMT
    Because I live on the other side of the Pacific Ocean. By the way , I not sitting alone (I assume you mean having sex, having gay friend and gay bf). I have plenty of that just not guys from Real Jock.