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  • XYlover69

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    Jan 30, 2016 1:08 PM GMT
    OK, I've been on this site for YEARS. Have had up to 50 people (I assume all guys, but who knows) in communications back and forth with me. Have not met ONE person through this. Am I the only real actual person on here? I realize I'm ugly as sin, I get that (confirmed by the lack of actual meetups with flesh-and-blood humans). Have had e-mailings with a dozen or more guys with WASP profile pics, yet within 24 hours I find out each is living with his mommy in Nigeria..., or living in Romania with thousands of dollars in medical bills needing to be paid before they'll let him out of the hospital, etc. etc. Thought I had a "sure thing" with a guy who lives 10 miles away from me — but after I wasted a day on a CHAT site, at his request, shooting the shit with him (I was glued in front of the computer all day, since I didn't/don't have a cellphone), he flaked out and said he was intently watching Bambi or something on TV, totally different than the person who several hours earlier was telling me what he wanted to do to me.... Am I in the Twilight Zone? You posers can all go FUCK YOURSELVES. I'm wondering if the fraud assholes are 99.9% of those on this site, or lower and just 95%?
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    Jan 30, 2016 1:10 PM GMT
    Hmm? I didn't join this site with the intention of meeting anybody... Isn't the point of it to discuss fitness and such?
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    Jan 30, 2016 1:35 PM GMT
    XYlover69 saidOK, I've been on this site for YEARS... I'm wondering if the fraud assholes are 99.9% of those on this site, or lower and just 95%?


    this said by a soc account with 5 posts?
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    Jan 30, 2016 2:22 PM GMT
    pellaz said
    XYlover69 saidOK, I've been on this site for YEARS... I'm wondering if the fraud assholes are 99.9% of those on this site, or lower and just 95%?


    this said by a soc account with 5 posts?

    Him only having 5 posts doesn't make him a sock account.
    He's been a member since 2012, so he very well could have tried meeting people for years by perhaps individually messaging them,,, Most people on this site don't actually participate in the forums.


    Anyway, OP. U wasted an ENTIRE day glued to your computer on a chat site? ew.

    Why not just go to gay bars where you know there will be other gay men of varying ages and chat people up vs sitting on your ass all day in front of a computer bitching about not meeting anyone?

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    Jan 30, 2016 3:44 PM GMT
    ^ gay bars are disgusting
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    Jan 30, 2016 3:46 PM GMT
    javelin7 said^ gay bars are disgusting

    oh ok. If u say so......
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    Jan 30, 2016 4:25 PM GMT
    theantijock%20engage%20stalker%20reducti

    XYlover69 said...(I was glued in front of the computer all day, since I didn't/don't have a cellphone)...

    read that back to yourself 20 times and see if your problem doesn't start coming into focus. Here, I'll get you started...

    XYlover69 said...(I was glued in front of the computer all day, since I didn't/don't have a cellphone)...

    XYlover69 said...(I was glued in front of the computer all day, since I didn't/don't have a cellphone)...

    XYlover69 said...(I was glued in front of the computer all day, since I didn't/don't have a cellphone)...

    XYlover69 said...(I was glued in front of the computer all day, since I didn't/don't have a cellphone)...
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    Jan 30, 2016 5:32 PM GMT
    Ugh, lazy troll is unoriginal
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    Feb 01, 2016 2:27 AM GMT
    You kinda look like James Hetfield from Metallica. The beard looks great in your profile picture. Get a good haircut and work out for a couple months; otherwise your hair could look pretty good with some gel and maybe a nice dress coat for a more polished look. Ditch the t-shirts, a more refined look would do you good. If you like music, take some style tips from your favorite musicians. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 01, 2016 2:32 AM GMT
    As to THIS site, RJ is not principally a dating site. A few relationships have been started here, but not all that many.
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    Feb 01, 2016 2:38 AM GMT
    I have never looked at this site to be a dating or hookup site. Not sure where you got the impression that it was. That being said, I've met several guys on here over the years but I just let it happen naturally. Sometimes when you're trying too hard things evade you. I would also urge you to post some current photos and leave the 11 year pics out completely. Also, most guys prefer someone who takes care of their body so working out would help immensely.