What to do when you are TOO hot and out of everyone's league?

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    Feb 01, 2016 2:25 AM GMT

    I cant imagine having a life of posing like this, I guess that comes with being a model type. When you are this hot, I wonder what type of guy, this guy (I assume is homo) goes for? Hmmm, this guy doesn't smile in any of his pics, why don't hot guys of this caliber, smile?

    Introducing my new, out of my league, man crush, 'frandullon86'

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    https://www.instagram.com/frandullon86/


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    Feb 01, 2016 2:30 AM GMT
    ELNathB said
    I cant imagine having a life of posing like this, I guess that comes with being a model type. When you are this hot, I wonder what type of guy, this guy (I assume is homo) goes for?

    Introducing my new, out of my league, man crush, 'frandullon86'

    Maybe I can hire him? icon_razz.gif


    They usually connect with other models/actors/whatever that they meet professionally. (E.g., the ABC news anchor dating the other ABC newsman)
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    Feb 01, 2016 2:53 AM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    ELNathB said
    I cant imagine having a life of posing like this, I guess that comes with being a model type. When you are this hot, I wonder what type of guy, this guy (I assume is homo) goes for?

    Introducing my new, out of my league, man crush, 'frandullon86'

    Maybe I can hire him? icon_razz.gif


    They usually connect with other models/actors/whatever that they meet professionally. (E.g., the ABC news anchor dating the other ABC newsman)




    Check out his Instagram the show me pages, he obviously knows and aware of his looks but does that translate into basically being 'stuck up'? Or is that something HE THINKS other guys think about him until proven otherwise?

    We have seen guys of his beauty take their own lives because their outside happiness never matched their inside sadness. Its like some people can be extremely wealthy while being extremely unhappy, while some poor people are very content being poor.

    Me being outgoing me, if I saw him in a club, I would approach him anyway even though he would probably ignore me cause you never know if the above scenario applies to some guys like this, he may grow tired of the pompous beautiful people he surrounds himself with, sort of like someone born into wealth would feel, much like Harry, prince of Whales.





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    Feb 01, 2016 3:18 AM GMT
    Stupid tattoos are a boner killer for me. He's all yours. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 01, 2016 3:30 AM GMT
    I don't know about TOO hot but he has a sexy-ness about him. That face he makes in his pics gives the impression that he's constipated.
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    Feb 01, 2016 4:03 AM GMT
    If I had a nickel for every time some RJer makes a big deal about an above-average body who happens to share some of his own facial features - in this case the gay beard... icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 01, 2016 4:06 AM GMT
    xrichx saidStupid tattoos are a boner killer for me. He's all yours. icon_lol.gif


    Oh please, as if he would ever give you a shot.
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    Feb 01, 2016 4:11 AM GMT
    The phrase, "to each their own" constantly comes to mind when reading posts of what others think is hot/not.
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    Feb 01, 2016 4:16 AM GMT
    Usually truly hot guys conjurate among themselves.

    There is no shortage of them here in Miami and they usually hang in packs. Every now and then I get to bang a hot one and sometimes I want to question why....but then I think...

    GODDAMN IT, I'm a MUTHERFUCKIN HOT POCKET AND I DESERVE THIS!!!icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • theonewhoknoc...

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    Feb 01, 2016 5:06 AM GMT
    oh chulo, we know you get DP'ed by 4/10's icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 01, 2016 5:29 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidI don't know about TOO hot but he has a sexy-ness about him. That face he makes in his pics gives the impression that he's constipated.




    one pic, I found a smile icon_cool.gif

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    Feb 01, 2016 5:34 AM GMT
    Chulometta said
    xrichx saidStupid tattoos are a boner killer for me. He's all yours. icon_lol.gif


    Oh please, as if he would ever give you a shot.



    exactly, icon_smile.gif

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    Feb 01, 2016 5:37 AM GMT
    Chulometta saidUsually truly hot guys conjurate among themselves.

    There is no shortage of them here in Miami and they usually hang in packs. Every now and then I get to bang a hot one and sometimes I want to question why....but then I think...

    GODDAMN IT, I'm a MUTHERFUCKIN HOT POCKET AND I DESERVE THIS!!!icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif



    TAP that mr icon_razz.gif

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    Feb 01, 2016 5:49 AM GMT
    ELNathB said


    exactly, icon_smile.gif

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    I loooovvvveeee this pic. He's so gorgeous. I wish I could share the bathtub. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
  • MarvinMartian

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    Feb 01, 2016 5:50 AM GMT
    This chap? Out of whose league? Not hot.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 01, 2016 5:58 AM GMT
    Birds of the feather flock together.icon_biggrin.gif

    Or they try to exchange their goodies for something else that the market can offer. A BF with a Ferrari, big house here and another one on the Riviera or whatever.

    If you disregard the aesthetics for the moment, and keep on watching the guys you'll soon discover that those who somehow managed to put the 10,000 hrs into something, and are now at the top of their league tend to be disproportionately attracted to other dudes who have done the same, possibly in a totally different field.

    Success makes men very attractive.

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    Feb 01, 2016 6:37 AM GMT
    Hmmm, this just popped into my head icon_razz.gif



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    Feb 01, 2016 9:41 AM GMT
    I think he's hot, but I don't think he's TOO hot and out of everyone's league.

    I don't think anyone's out of my league though. I don't believe in leagues. You never know what someone will find attractive and you should never devalue yourself by putting a number on your worth!
  • interestingch...

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    Feb 01, 2016 9:56 AM GMT
    I know a few hot guys, gay and straight that find it difficult to approach guys because of insecurity or because they are humble types, I personally think i'm average looking but it always surprises me at the extremely hot guys that are interested in me, model types I mean and some half my age which I must say is very flattering, I think I just have something, maybe charisma or maybe its the chemistry, who knows but I don't fit into any kind of mould so maybe thats whats attractive, so no I don't think anyone is out of anyone else's league and if I saw that guy out somewhere and was interested in him then wouldn't think twice about saying hi and seeing where it leads, don't let looks put you off approaching anyone.
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    Feb 01, 2016 10:24 AM GMT
    I don't really think in terms of leagues and I think people who think in that way are insecure about themselves to a certain degree.

    He is very hot and I would certainly like to be in bed with him if the chance is presented and if he is interested too.

    As far as relationship goes, there is a lot that goes into it than just looks.
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    Feb 01, 2016 11:06 AM GMT
    well TBH, dating a REALLY hot guy, like the one in the pic above -altho not really my type-, might not be so great after all. especially if you are out of his league. cheating becomes much easier when you're a hottie.

    my bf is actually very hot, i reckon prolly a 9/10 (or a 8,5) athletic physique, muscly, tall, good skin, blonde, pale blue eyes, cute, manly and he sexes like a 10. it is breathtaking.

    & he makes me feel damn insecure because i cannot find a single flaw in him & has the perfect job. it's not jealousy.

    it's just that an ominous thought comes to haunt me every now and then. it's really idiotic but i i kept thinking he might just wake up one day and realize that I am totally out of his league and dump me.

    altho he claims i'm hotter than he is. which is utterly untrue and only goes to show his self-esteem is kind of low.
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    Feb 01, 2016 11:29 AM GMT
    patito said
    altho he claims i'm hotter than he is. which is utterly untrue and only goes to show his self-esteem is kind of low.


    I think a good relationship is where both partners feel like they are lucky.
  • venue35

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    Feb 01, 2016 12:26 PM GMT
    well he is hot for sure..could also be very photegenic and when you see him in front of you the fantasy you had becomes a let down or vice versa. I have seen guys who are incredibly photogenic and in real life they are just normal looking. Other guys who aren't photogenic can be very goodlooking in person. It depends.
  • charlitos666

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    Feb 01, 2016 2:23 PM GMT
    Nice body, weird face. Next
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    Feb 01, 2016 3:14 PM GMT
    PulseFit said
    patito said
    altho he claims i'm hotter than he is. which is utterly untrue and only goes to show his self-esteem is kind of low.

    I think a good relationship is where both partners feel like they are lucky.

    Agreed. And don't automatically assume the hunk is stuck-up. I've had some ask to date ME (the anti-hunk), or who immediately accepted my offer to go out together, because I had other qualities that appealed to them in lieu of looks. Things like humor & personality are almost always popular with guys. And of course being financially independent and settled, not a dependent drifter.

    But many of them would also say they had a couple of problems in dating. One was not being asked, other guys being intimated by them, insecure about their chances, not wanting to be turned down. Well, I was turned down often enough that I have pretty thick skin. If a hunk doesn't want me, fine, rejection doesn't destroy me, I move on and try someone else. But I was surprised how many said "yes" right away, maybe you would be, too.

    Their other problem is that guys would see them as "meat" and little more. Hunks without brains, or thoughts, feelings or any complex human emotions. A lot of them just wanted an intelligent, meaningful conversation for once.

    That's where my ability to talk on many topics helped, not just about this weekend's sports games. Although as my late Mother used to say of me: "Jack of all trades, master of none". But at least I could kick off the chat, look interested and let him demonstrate his particular interest and expertise, be able to follow along a little, let him inform me. Under-appreciated guys really love that.

    So hunks also need to be understood, and cultivated in ways that often aren't what people generally would assume. Do that and you can have your pick of them. icon_biggrin.gif