seekingyounger saidI see this on many a grindr profile. Why do guys need to preemptively state this instead of just ignoring my message if they're not interested? It's on every third or fourth profile, and it really hurts. Sometimes I message a young guy, and he'll outright tell me "sry too old" Why do guys reject people based on age?
You could try dating someone with a "daddy fetish", but you're looking at a pool of individuals who aren't "right in mind", for a lack of a better phrase, and they'll certainly objectify you in ways as to overlook your personality... There's a lot of RJers who are like this and are not the type that simply uses people. But you should know that no matter what a person with a "daddy fetish" feels about you, people in general will judge you harshly for dating this person. I do sense though that you want someone more right in mind that just so happens to notice you, or at least be somewhat receptive to you. After all, a person with a "daddy fetish" is a turn off when compared to someone more normal. (Of course that doesn't stop some RJ members from using said "daddy fetish" as affirmation that older guys are still somehow attractive in spite of their personalities. When someone has a "daddy fetish", some of whom that also admit to incest and molestation, can said attraction ever be considered valid, let alone be used as affirmation?). Like most gay men, you have deficiencies in personality that simply won't lend itself to being noticed by the demographic you're after, but a person with a "daddy fetish" will overlook such and they're available in sufficient quantities everywhere, but understand that if you date them, it doesn't magically make you attractive nor free you from the judgement of others.