I hired my first escort

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    Feb 09, 2016 2:03 AM GMT
    So I hired my first escort. I really enjoyed the experience. The guy was nice, clean, easy to talk to, and didn't rush me or pressure me. I was in the mood today and was getting tired of dudes online playing games going back and forth for hours sending me messages. I recently had a dude who apparently loved having sex with me message me yesterday. I don't believe him because he hasn't contacted me since October. He claims we spoke on the phone very recently but its not true. Basically I got tired of the games. I know all gay men go through this because gay men seem to like playing games. Personally I feel my weight is the main issue. I get it. I'm the vast majority of guys back up pick. The guy you call when the dude you want flakes on you. I don't blame these dudes for not wanting me first. I'm fat. My body disgust most gay men. Instead of whining I've decided to just pay for sex until I have a body that more gay men will want and act right to get. Honestly a year ago I would have been ashamed or thought less of myself. I'm sure some of you think less of me but those guys would think less of me if I cured cancer so their opinion has little value. Honestly I'd rather pay than have another dude text me "hey man" or "wassup" weeks later as if I can't figure out how low I am on his list.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:30 AM GMT
    Wow I was at least expecting some shade
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:41 AM GMT
    You got a fair number of views. ;)

    Enquiring minds want to know, but they apparently don't want to share. As RJ goes I'm pretty sure that's a win.
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    Feb 09, 2016 9:21 AM GMT
    I don't think there's any shade here - as long as you enjoyed the experience then it's all good. Nothing wrong with paying for a service in my opinion!

    Did you go for a total god, or more of a guy next door type?
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    Feb 09, 2016 12:09 PM GMT
    No judgement here. I respect your candor.
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    Feb 09, 2016 2:32 PM GMT
    be careful with your emotions. for sure safety too. but a positive it might give you a new reference if you look for that type of thing.

    i really think there are guys out there.
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    Feb 09, 2016 2:55 PM GMT
    Pics?
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    Feb 09, 2016 3:29 PM GMT
    I do hope you got your money's worth!
  • Destinharbor

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    Feb 09, 2016 3:41 PM GMT
    Glad you had fun. The one time I hired an escort, I found myself clock watching to get the hour over. I've had one-night-stands off the internet that we laughed and got fun-crazy but the escort just was just cute with a good body. I need some human connection and just didn't feel it with pay-for-service. But I've got no problem with it. Good luck getting fit!
  • Fireworkz

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    Feb 09, 2016 3:45 PM GMT
    Good for you.
    At least you get exactly what you want. Did you enjoy it?
  • badbug

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    Feb 09, 2016 4:01 PM GMT

    I was just going to talk about how i am too cheap to do something like that so i didn't bother posting.

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    Feb 09, 2016 4:04 PM GMT
    MrFuscle saidWow I was at least expecting some shade

    They're probably saving their shade for those who admit to being an escort, rather than for those who pay for an escort's services.

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    Feb 09, 2016 5:51 PM GMT
    anotherphil saidYou got a fair number of views. ;)

    Enquiring minds want to know, but they apparently don't want to share. As RJ goes I'm pretty sure that's a win.


    Lol i guess you are right. Not all attention is good attention. Especially online.
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    Feb 09, 2016 5:54 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI read your post earlier.

    I didn't know what to say. But I'm really awestruck by your candor.


    That means a lot coming from you. Your candor has caused me to confront a few of my assumptions and led me to being a little less judgmental.
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    Feb 09, 2016 5:57 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidI don't think there's any shade here - as long as you enjoyed the experience then it's all good. Nothing wrong with paying for a service in my opinion!

    Did you go for a total god, or more of a guy next door type?


    The guy next door who happens to be a gym rat but isn't crazy ripped. RJ can be an odd place. Sometimes shade comes flying at you for the oddest reasons lol.
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    Feb 09, 2016 5:58 PM GMT
    pellaz saidbe careful with your emotions. for sure safety too. but a positive it might give you a new reference if you look for that type of thing.

    i really think there are guys out there.


    This is far better for my emotions. Houston is full of pseudo escorts who claim to give a fuck about you but always have there hands out. This is a business transaction. Nothing more nothing less.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:01 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidGlad you had fun. The one time I hired an escort, I found myself clock watching to get the hour over. I've had one-night-stands off the internet that we laughed and got fun-crazy but the escort just was just cute with a good body. I need some human connection and just didn't feel it with pay-for-service. But I've got no problem with it. Good luck getting fit!


    I chose an older guy because all the younger escorts seemed so full of themselves just from their pictures. I think this guy just likes people and likes sex so its he perfect job for him.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:01 PM GMT
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    anotherphil saidYou got a fair number of views. ;)

    Enquiring minds want to know, but they apparently don't want to share. As RJ goes I'm pretty sure that's a win.


    Lol i guess you are right. Not all attention is good attention. Especially online.


    For the record, I'm in badbug's camp on this one, and similarly wasn't going to respond just to say it doesn't affect me because I'll always be too cheap to run out of reasons not to consider an escort. icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:01 PM GMT
    Fireworkz saidGood for you.
    At least you get exactly what you want. Did you enjoy it?


    It was great. We were able to connect quickly which made the sex even better.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:02 PM GMT
    badbug said
    I was just going to talk about how i am too cheap to do something like that so i didn't bother posting.



    The way you have described your body I would think people would be willing to pay you for sex.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:05 PM GMT
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    anotherphil saidYou got a fair number of views. ;)

    Enquiring minds want to know, but they apparently don't want to share. As RJ goes I'm pretty sure that's a win.


    Lol i guess you are right. Not all attention is good attention. Especially online.


    For the record, I'm in badbug's camp on this one, and similarly wasn't going to respond just to say it doesn't affect me because I'll always be too cheap to run out of reasons not to consider an escort. icon_redface.gif


    I can definitely see that price is an issue. I have no problem having sex with guys who are more in my league. However so many guys in my league are chasing guys who don't look like them and I'm not wasting my time with fat asses who won't have sex with other fat asses unless the hot dude they are chasing suddenly flakes on them. Its a sad game and I am bowing out.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:08 PM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    badbug said
    I was just going to talk about how i am too cheap to do something like that so i didn't bother posting.



    The way you have described your body I would think people would be willing to pay you for sex.

    Lol, now that you're the guru on this subject, you should tell all us RJers what each of us are worth, just to give us something new to flap about.icon_twisted.gif

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    Feb 09, 2016 6:34 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    MrFuscle said
    badbug said
    I was just going to talk about how i am too cheap to do something like that so i didn't bother posting.



    The way you have described your body I would think people would be willing to pay you for sex.

    Lol, now that you're the guru on this subject, you should tell all us RJers what each of us are worth, just to give us something new to flap about.icon_twisted.gif

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    Lol, everyone is into something different, so prices may vary. Woodfordr is the only form reg I'd pay to sleep with. Not only is he hot but he's not too big and seems very nice and personable.
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:38 PM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    HottJoe said
    MrFuscle said
    badbug said
    I was just going to talk about how i am too cheap to do something like that so i didn't bother posting.



    The way you have described your body I would think people would be willing to pay you for sex.

    Lol, now that you're the guru on this subject, you should tell all us RJers what each of us are worth, just to give us something new to flap about.icon_twisted.gif

    icon_lol.gif


    Lol, everyone is into something different, so prices may vary. Woodfordr is the only form reg I'd pay to sleep with. Not only is he hot but he's not too big and seems very nice and personable.

    He's smart, too! But I think he's looking for a doctor.icon_question.gif
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    Feb 09, 2016 6:44 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    MrFuscle said
    HottJoe said
    MrFuscle said
    badbug said
    I was just going to talk about how i am too cheap to do something like that so i didn't bother posting.



    The way you have described your body I would think people would be willing to pay you for sex.

    Lol, now that you're the guru on this subject, you should tell all us RJers what each of us are worth, just to give us something new to flap about.icon_twisted.gif

    icon_lol.gif


    Lol, everyone is into something different, so prices may vary. Woodfordr is the only form reg I'd pay to sleep with. Not only is he hot but he's not too big and seems very nice and personable.

    He's smart, too! But I think he's looking for a doctor.icon_question.gif


    I doubt he'd actually agree. Yes he is smart. He's got all the right stuff. He's more husband material than anything else.