Feb 11, 2016 1:38 PM GMT
Ok so there is this really hot guy in my gym , he's a lot older than me (about 30-40 I'd say ) and I'm just 18. I really want to know if he's gay but I'm afraid to talk to him. He gives me the occasional nod of the head and held the door open for me a few times coming out of the changing room , I'm not sure if he's just really friendly or what? He goes 3 times a week and two of those times is with his gym buddy who looks late twenties I'd say so I don't know how they'd know each other. He is also always there on a Friday on his own , when im there too. Last Friday I was going to ask him to spot me but I chickened out as when I asked him how many sets he had left he kinda looked up from his phone and just said "two" in like a non interested tone of voice , I don't know if it was nervous voice or like get away from me voice . He also has a tattoo around his bicep and has shaved legs but a nice trimmed beard , not sure that's a gay thing or not? I will probably see him again tomorrow at the gym , should I ask him to spot me ? And what way should I go about it without coming across as creepy . He also seems to be really nice he puts all the weights back when he's finished , puts his ore workout packet back in the bin etc.. But I'm just afraid of rejection. Please some advice guys thanks 

