AMoonHawk saidI've never understood why people want to video themselves having sex. Do they think they are that great? Do they use them to look for how to improve their love making? Training videos?
Well, I made the mistake of taking some digital snaps of myself naked with a hardon. It was at the request of my BF in 2001. He was away doing work in NYC for 6 weeks, and wanted some of my images to "stimulate" him, shall we say. He even told me how he wanted them posed. I figured better they be of me rather than of someone else.
And I took the precaution of not including my face. Plus I asked him to absolutely swear to me he wouldn't share them with anyone else, ever, nor even show them. And then I emailed them to him.
After about 7 months later when he had returned home, but we were hardly seeing each other anymore, I went to a gay porno site. And there were my pictures online! They had no captions, fortunately, or at least the ones I saw on that particular site didn't.
I immediately phoned him. He contended that he hadn't broken his promise to me. I asked then how did my pics get online. He said another guy he gave my photos when back in NYC must have done it. Well, then you DID break your promise, I answered.
No, he said, because he had made THAT guy also promise to keep them private. So it was this OTHER guy who was at fault, not himself.
And I couldn't get him to back down from that total illogic and admit his mistake. Well, I suppose I shared some fault myself for ever having put that kind of unguarded material in someone else's control in the first place. Now I don't send dick pics to anyone. And as others here have advised, you guys probably shouldn't, either.