Brian Cody Bray, Gay teacher’s sex video stolen, posted to school site

  • metta

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    Feb 11, 2016 2:09 PM GMT
    Gay teacher’s sex video stolen, posted to school site


    - See more at: http://www.washingtonblade.com/2016/02/10/gay-teachers-sex-video-stolen-posted-to-school-site/
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    Feb 11, 2016 2:20 PM GMT
    Do not photograph, video, commit to paper, or store electronically anything you wouldn't want your momma to see. Yeah I've sent pics of my junk to guys on Grindr and Scruff but my face is NEVER in any. I've also had to tell hookups that no they couldn't video our encounter.
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    Feb 11, 2016 3:55 PM GMT
    We didn't have videos and digital pics in 1965 when I was a high school Junior, nor computers and Internet, of course, just 8mm home movies and still film cameras. And you couldn't get those images returned to you after processing if the material was judged to be pornographic. In fact, you might even be referred to the police. But we did have Polaroid still cameras, that nearly got one of my fellow students expelled.

    As a joke at a house party he let another guy snap some close-up pics of him holding his own hardon. They got passed around the party for laughs, and one pic got swiped.

    A few days later it appeared in the high school glass trophy case in a hallway. A number of students didn't even notice it at first, but when someone finally did there was quiet a commotion, girls squealing and guys laughing their heads off.

    That attracted a teacher, who was frustrated that the case was locked. He flagged another teacher to stand guard while he went to the athletic department office to locate the key. That's when I passed by. The second teacher was by now directing the students away from the trophy case, and trying to block it from view. Finally they got the case open and the picture was removed.

    Fortunately for the student his face and other identifying marks weren't visible. And we didn't have a Miss Balbricker demanding to have a "penis inspection" to discover the guilty party for disciplinary action, a la "Porky's". But his name was known among the students, because his party buddies couldn't contain the secret. I'm sure some teachers heard of it, too, but for whatever reason school admin took no action.

    And BTW, that glass case was for weeks afterwards regularly checked by the students, like had never been done when it just had dusty old trophies and team portraits, to see if any more "dirty" photos appeared. None ever did. And a lot of students got the message to not do stupid stunts like that themselves with Polaroid cameras.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 11, 2016 4:05 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidDo not photograph, video, commit to paper, or store electronically anything you wouldn't want your momma to see. Yeah I've sent pics of my junk to guys on Grindr and Scruff but my face is NEVER in any. I've also had to tell hookups that no they couldn't video our encounter.

    I have a feeling that people will eventually yawn at these types of scandals. I think the internet has proven that prudes are the exception rather than the rule.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 11, 2016 4:11 PM GMT
    I've never understood why people want to video themselves having sex. Do they think they are that great? Do they use them to look for how to improve their love making? Training videos?
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  • HottJoe

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    Feb 11, 2016 4:22 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI've never understood why people want to video themselves having sex. Do they think they are that great? Do they use them to look for how to improve their love making? Training videos?
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    Same reason people do community theater and tweet: vanity.
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    Feb 11, 2016 4:40 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI've never understood why people want to video themselves having sex. Do they think they are that great? Do they use them to look for how to improve their love making? Training videos? icon_rolleyes.gif

    Well, I made the mistake of taking some digital snaps of myself naked with a hardon. It was at the request of my BF in 2001. He was away doing work in NYC for 6 weeks, and wanted some of my images to "stimulate" him, shall we say. He even told me how he wanted them posed. I figured better they be of me rather than of someone else.

    And I took the precaution of not including my face. Plus I asked him to absolutely swear to me he wouldn't share them with anyone else, ever, nor even show them. And then I emailed them to him.

    After about 7 months later when he had returned home, but we were hardly seeing each other anymore, I went to a gay porno site. And there were my pictures online! They had no captions, fortunately, or at least the ones I saw on that particular site didn't.

    I immediately phoned him. He contended that he hadn't broken his promise to me. I asked then how did my pics get online. He said another guy he gave my photos when back in NYC must have done it. Well, then you DID break your promise, I answered.

    No, he said, because he had made THAT guy also promise to keep them private. So it was this OTHER guy who was at fault, not himself. icon_eek.gif

    And I couldn't get him to back down from that total illogic and admit his mistake. Well, I suppose I shared some fault myself for ever having put that kind of unguarded material in someone else's control in the first place. Now I don't send dick pics to anyone. And as others here have advised, you guys probably shouldn't, either.
  • Buddha

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    Feb 11, 2016 6:00 PM GMT
    But WHERE IS THE VIDEO?
  • Buddha

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    Feb 11, 2016 6:29 PM GMT
    Whenever a sextape leaks, I can never find it. I need to up my google-game.
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    Feb 11, 2016 7:02 PM GMT
    Honestly, I think the real shame is that people apologize for doing nothing wrong in many of these leaks. Yes, you should be careful with your privacy these days if you're in a position where public knowledge might have consequences. Its a reason why I no longer am active in church. I can definitely see why this would be seen as a distraction at the school with the video being broadcasted there. But let's be honest, sex is the reason why there is a school... because those kids are all living, breathing proof that sex happened between two people.

    To me the focus and energy should be on finding and prosecuting the hacker who intentionally invaded someone's privacy and then sought to hurt him.
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    Feb 11, 2016 7:09 PM GMT
    Well I donated, it's kinda fucked up someone with that much malice would go thru all the trouble of hacking him and ruining his life

    It's probably a closeted homophobe
  • rdberg1957

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    Feb 11, 2016 7:52 PM GMT

    I have a feeling that people will eventually yawn at these types of scandals. I think the internet has proven that prudes are the exception rather than the rule.[/quote]

    Unfortunately that time has not yet come as high school students are being prosecuted in various jurisdictions for child pornography when they send revealing selfies which come to the attention of authorities.
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:08 PM GMT
    It sounds odd. Whenever I change passwords or even use a different device Facebook and others notify me. The hacker had to know his screen name and password. There's no monetary gain, or espionage. So it was personal and was a lot of work for that. An ex perhaps?

    It's kind of stupid for a teacher to make a sex video. Saving it to your computer is one thing, but to a storage site?

    I've made a few but I always pixilated face shots.....mine and theirs. I don't see a problem with making a video or pix. The second use of any new tech seems to be porn! VHS video camera or Skype....sex follows soon after.

    I'm not blaming him, but there were errors in logic. If he was a porn "star" then fine.
  • cemego

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    Feb 11, 2016 8:10 PM GMT
    ummm... who cares... people get a life. find something to do.
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:12 PM GMT
    There is a video of I having sex with this guy online. He made the video, without our face, only my butt and his cock are visible. I think he shot well. We have a 5 star rating on xvideos. LOL.
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:28 PM GMT
    robbaker saidso ricky post your video on here for all them queens to see you in action . perhaps you'll become the next man of the day icon_rolleyes.gif


    I am shy. LOLOLOL.
  • Sincityfan

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    Feb 11, 2016 10:39 PM GMT
    I want to see the sex tape. he's kind of attractive. icon_redface.gif
  • interesting

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    Feb 11, 2016 10:50 PM GMT
    Sincityfan saidI want to see the sex tape. he's kind of attractive. icon_redface.gif


    AMEN!!

    My first thought on the situation was how sad that someone would do this to him, no matter where he stored it, someone had to gall to do this to someone else, like how much do you hate him to do this? May Karma come after you hard!

    But then my second thought (with my penis) is where can I find this sex tape because he is a very good looking guy, ugh I feel perverted now icon_cry.gif
  • Athletic1

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    Feb 11, 2016 10:57 PM GMT
    What kind of a dumb-ass school would blindly allow random people to upload random items on to their website?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 11, 2016 11:50 PM GMT
    Despite being encouraged, I'd never do a video, just not wise, you never know who is going to view it and how it will haunt you.
  • onelousymick

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    Feb 12, 2016 6:50 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidDo not photograph, video, commit to paper, or store electronically anything you wouldn't want your momma to see. Yeah I've sent pics of my junk to guys on Grindr and Scruff but my face is NEVER in any. I've also had to tell hookups that no they couldn't video our encounter.



    Fuck that. We're all naked underneath our clothes and all want sex. Anyone who says anything else is a hypocrite.

    Human nature isn't going to change. Techbology isnt going to stop evolving. It's our attitudes that need changing.
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    Feb 12, 2016 7:54 AM GMT
    Well you know, if he never made such a thing.......
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    Feb 12, 2016 9:46 AM GMT
    robbaker saidthat;s what you get for having gay sex . i've bet you it was one of his gay students . well you gays wanted marriage and all this other stuff with it comes consequencesicon_rolleyes.gif


    Are you on drugs? Genuine question. You seem legit insane.
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    Feb 12, 2016 10:28 AM GMT
    why is everyone bitching against making a sex tape?

    you guys remind me of conservative nuns who do it behind closed doors anyway.

    there's nothing wrong with wanting an intimate portrait of your copulation practices.

    it will look good 40 years from now when your ass is all flaccid and wrinkled.

    you can watch it and get all sentimental.

    "aw look at me fornicating all horny, i used to be so so horny, oh shit is that an erection i'm feeling in my pants? my goodness that's the first one this month, i guess we'll have to do something about it"

    & then you have the people with porn actor fantasies.

    it's not about vanity.

    & it's a sexy and fun activity to have with your bird.

    & heck if i were as good looking as Mr. Brian teacher, i'd do it too
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    Feb 12, 2016 11:57 AM GMT
    What sucks to me as I read this... All this hacking stuff happened while he was home sick. To me, I read into that as some student got onto the teacher's computer in the classroom while the substitute teacher did nothing.
    I know I'm making a lot of assumptions there, but having been a teacher, I can see this happening. If and when the student who hacked the teacher's stuff is ever discovered, there should be a certain amount of culpability placed on whoever allowed the student access to the teacher's computer.
    And while I understand his reason for leaving - lack of respect from students and staff - there is NO reason he should have been dismissed for being a consenting adult having sex with a consenting adult. recording or otherwise.