I'm not here for Hookups! Ha

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    Feb 12, 2016 3:24 PM GMT
    How many times do you hear that on dating apps while the person is using semi-naked photos of themselves to advertise? Just had a guy on Scruff tell me that after I sent one message on how attractive he is. His picture is him shirtless hovering over the camera, literally the angle you'd see if he hovered over you on a bed. icon_wink.gif
  • monstapex

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    Feb 12, 2016 8:05 PM GMT
    Just like a lot guys who use the forum claim Realjock is not a dating/hookup site .
  • Fireworkz

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    Feb 12, 2016 8:08 PM GMT
    monstapex saidJust like a lot guys who use the forum claim Realjock is not a dating/hookup site .


    I've never dated or hooked up on here. Am I missing an opportunity?
  • Fireworkz

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    Feb 12, 2016 8:09 PM GMT
    wrestlervic saidHow many times do you hear that on dating apps while the person is using semi-naked photos of themselves to advertise? Just had a guy on Scruff tell me that after I sent one message on how attractive he is. His picture is him shirtless hovering over the camera, literally the angle you'd see if he hovered over you on a bed. icon_wink.gif


    Yes I love it when people who say they are looking for friends lead with a pic showing off their body and parts rather than their face.

    Also their freindship criteria looks similar to their hook up criteria.
  • monstapex

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    Feb 12, 2016 8:51 PM GMT
    Fireworkz said
    monstapex saidJust like a lot guys who use the forum claim Realjock is not a dating/hookup site .


    I've never dated or hooked up on here. Am I missing an opportunity?



    Have you tried ? Email the guys who don't participate in this circus called the forum.I'm sure you'll find alot nice guys on here.

  • HottJoe

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    Feb 12, 2016 9:11 PM GMT
    So, does this imply that some people might think they have a chance with Charlitos. Hahaha.

    No nudes for you!icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 12, 2016 9:12 PM GMT
    who gives a shit about charlitos
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 12, 2016 9:30 PM GMT
    Bonifacius saidwho gives a shit about charlitos

    I was going to use you as an example, but then I remembered that you and Ricky1987 were hookup buddies.
  • Fireworkz

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    Feb 12, 2016 9:32 PM GMT
    Who is Charlitos?
  • tazzari

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    Feb 12, 2016 9:40 PM GMT
    Fireworkz said
    monstapex saidJust like a lot guys who use the forum claim Realjock is not a dating/hookup site .


    I've never dated or hooked up on here. Am I missing an opportunity?


    Nor have I, but I've met and made a few good friends! In fact, I'm having dinner and a movie with one tonight. And no, it's not a "date." Just friends.

    And there are a few others I'd really like to meet.
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    Feb 12, 2016 9:53 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Bonifacius saidwho gives a shit about charlitos

    I was going to use you as an example, but then I remembered that you and Ricky1987 were hookup buddies.



    fucking hell shut the fuck up how I will erase this thought from my head now
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    Feb 13, 2016 6:17 PM GMT
    I don't understand why it's hard to believe. I am on all these dating apps, but I rarely hook up. I have even written it on my profile. My picture is not revealing, but I am not wearing any shirt. We all know that how superficial gay men are in terms of meeting/dating guys. As much as you can deny, people won't show interest in you, if they don't find you attractive enough, specially on these sites. It doesn't mean I am ready to jump in bed with you.

    For those who keep iterating that these apps are just for hook ups, please mind your own business. I can write a thesis on what you should or shouldn't be doing, but I don't go around telling people, especially online. As a gay men, meeting another gay men isn't that easy, especially if you are new in the city. So I choose whatever ways I can meet guys, except glory holes or orgies.
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    Feb 13, 2016 6:45 PM GMT
    Fireworkz saidWho is Charlitos?


    Charlitos is this fit eye-candy who post here in forums. *drools*
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    Feb 13, 2016 7:39 PM GMT
    Fireworkz saidAlso their freindship criteria looks similar to their hook up criteria.


    It can make sense to filter friends by looks. Looks are a capital and just like money they divide people. The things one struggles for is what another takes for granted and that can brew resentment.
  • SinfulWays

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    Feb 13, 2016 8:40 PM GMT
    Don't be fooled, these are definitely hookup sites! Sex is ALWAYS in the air! I've even traveled to different states to hookup with guys! Shit, Carpe Omnia!!!!
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    Feb 13, 2016 8:41 PM GMT
    I don't think it's hypocritical. I think such guys (and I include myself among them) are open to sex with guys who at least potentially are also interested in the possibility of a relationship. And are looking to meet someone for a date that might or might not lead to sex. I can distinguish that from someone who is looking simply to meet someone for nsa sex (not that there's anything wrong with that if that's what you're into).
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    Feb 14, 2016 5:07 AM GMT
    Or the profiles that say "looking for friends".

    And then at the very end of their profile, they casually mention that they are a top or bottom.

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    I think it's just as bad here on RJ. Since it's a "fitness" site, lots of guys say they're looking for workout buddies. But go into specific details about the the type of guys they want to fuck.. I mean.. workout with. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • charlitos666

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    Feb 14, 2016 7:30 PM GMT
    It's a fitness website, hence the half naked photos.
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    Feb 15, 2016 7:08 AM GMT
    My favorites are exclusive "tops" with tons of ass pics.
  • BloodFlame

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    Feb 16, 2016 12:08 AM GMT
    wrestlervic saidHow many times do you hear that on dating apps while the person is using semi-naked photos of themselves to advertise? Just had a guy on Scruff tell me that after I sent one message on how attractive he is. His picture is him shirtless hovering over the camera, literally the angle you'd see if he hovered over you on a bed. icon_wink.gif


    Yeah, I do laugh when I come across profiles like this but if the guy is just shirtless, I don't think too much of it because everyone likes to show off every now and then. But if the pics are of his butthole and dick pics, that's where I completely "lol" haha.
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    Feb 16, 2016 12:55 AM GMT
    I'm just looking for friends.....





    to play with my penis.