Should I be nicer?

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    Feb 14, 2016 3:07 AM GMT
    I'm always nice.
  • badbug

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    Feb 14, 2016 3:37 AM GMT
    I think you are a troll or a deeply disturbed person. As a fairly disturbed person myself i am not really judging just pointing out that you should look into your own psyche a little, though it's dangerous to do so if you are truly satisfied with yourself and your life, i wouldn't chance it then. But if you do find things lacking, i would do some research into various mental disorders relating to ego, and whatever else you feel might make you different than others.


    Being nice has its advantages. I imagine you are nice when you around people that are threatening or people that have the ability to give you something you want. Maybe you can learn to be nice to people on the chance that they may in the future give you something you want or that the people around you will see you being nice and think better of you, giving you more options when it comes to dealing with them.

    Also, lastly, you can learn to enjoy being nice. See being nice as its own reward. That would truly be actually becoming nice. That seems like it might be a big step for you, but if you can do that you will get some benefits from it. People aren't nice cause they are nice, they are nice cause it feels good. It also happens to be good for you. Feeling a sense of belonging and connection to your surroundings, even if they are virtual strangers on the street or at the store, is good for you physically. Lowers cortisol and increase dopamine etc. etc.

    So really see it as something you are working on for yourself, not for others. The added benefit or cherry on top, is that it will probably make others feel good too.

  • badbug

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    Feb 14, 2016 4:59 AM GMT

    I said i thought you were a troll first. So don't pat yourself on the back too hard for your troll job working. icon_smile.gif


    Secondly, playing along because i am in a write-y kind of mood and am far too commitment phobic to attempt to write a novel or even a short story.... I think you have a large somewhat oblivious ego if you are infact a real person acting honestly. It's not a crime or anything but it could indicate that you have some quirks mentally.


    Do answer my question, are you happy with your life? And how do you feel about my advice on "niceness"?

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    Feb 14, 2016 5:25 AM GMT
    Oh Chulo.....the dog was much funnier. This is just lame. Try harder. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 14, 2016 5:29 AM GMT
    Although I do like the pic you chose from 1957 of the (non-gorgeous) guy who looks like he just shhh-farted himself.
  • SinfulWays

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    Feb 14, 2016 2:23 PM GMT
    Just be you!
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    Feb 15, 2016 5:22 AM GMT
    Honestly? Honestly, I get your technique and think you're hilarious. But I tend to like different people who beat off in March with a drummer. Um, wait a minute, did I say that right?
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    Feb 15, 2016 2:45 PM GMT
    treat people just a little better than you treat your self
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 15, 2016 4:15 PM GMT
    Radd saidOh Chulo.....the dog was much funnier. This is just lame. Try harder. icon_rolleyes.gif

    It's not Chulo. lol