Does This Turn You Off?

  • NyRuinz

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    Feb 15, 2016 10:56 PM GMT
    I'm not in to the whole circuit party, hanging with porn stars, rocking adidas high tops lifestyle, but I don't judge anyone who is. If that's your thing, it's cool. A friend comes in all shapes, sizes, colors and different backgrounds. I just hate when I meet guys who are in to that lifestyle, and they are embarrassed about it and try to hide it.

    I recently met a guy who has done various photo shoots for a popular gay fetish company, and the pictures were awesome. When I told him how cool I thought the photos were, he looked visibly uncomfortable and embarrassed. It's not like this is something he wanted to keep secret because the photos are all over his instagram.
    I don't know, I just feel like if you are embrassed about something maybe you should not be doing it. Am I the only one who get's turned off from people like this.
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    Feb 15, 2016 10:57 PM GMT
    You didn't offer money, did you.
  • interesting

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    Feb 16, 2016 4:28 AM GMT
    Did you ask him why he's visibly embarrass by them? Maybe he can explain his position without having what he thought was a "friend" judging him.
  • NyRuinz

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    Feb 16, 2016 4:57 AM GMT
    This is true ^
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 16, 2016 5:42 AM GMT
    Nope. You do NOT hang it all out on Instagram to get embarrassed over it if someone mentions it to you. You are promoting your skills, talents, looks, whatever.

    You have probably misread him. Or he has been thinking about reinventing himself into a new person who would not be showing such pix to the world.icon_question.gif

    Who Knows?

    Would this be a turn off. Yup. But not majorly!

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  • NyRuinz

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    Feb 16, 2016 7:43 AM GMT
    SilverRRCloud saidOr he has been thinking about reinventing himself into a new person who would not be showing such pix to the world.
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    I think you may be spot on with this. He may being trying to distance himself from that lifestyle and that's why he seemed a little uncomfortable.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Feb 16, 2016 8:01 AM GMT
    At least he's not all full of himself, holier than thou type. Some people are sincerely modest... Maybe he's worried things would change between the two of you after finding out what he does. Maybe he likes hanging with people who don't know and not having to worry if they are hanging with him cause of who he is or what he does
  • interestingch...

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    Feb 16, 2016 9:10 AM GMT
    I met Colby Jansen in London and struck up a conversation about rugby, I asked him what he did for a living in which he replied he did porn, the look on my face when he said that, wow, he looked embarrassed and left pretty quick because of the disgusted look I gave him, I don't know how anyone could do that, I certainly wouldn't no matter how broke I was or how much I was offered.
  • Littlebear777

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    Feb 16, 2016 9:59 AM GMT
    I agree with the guy that said he was probably trying to reinvent himself. He probably felt that what he was trying to do now, those pictures might tarnish his image in some way. But what's done is done I suppose, but not really a turn off, not to me anyway, just a little bump of regret he had. We all have our regrets and make mistakes, that's what makes up human~ Though I don't condone people for doing nude shoots and stuff similar like that. It's a job and it's their life, that's how I feel anyway.
  • NyRuinz

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    Feb 16, 2016 11:06 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidAt least he's not all full of himself, holier than thou type. Some people are sincerely modest... Maybe he's worried things would change between the two of you after finding out what he does. Maybe he likes hanging with people who don't know and not having to worry if they are hanging with him cause of who he is or what he does


    I think your right. I wasn't judging him, I just felt if you did it so what, own it.
    I just don't like people who's interests and personality change based on who they are around.
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    Feb 16, 2016 11:47 PM GMT
    interestingchap saidI met Colby Jansen in London and struck up a conversation about rugby, I asked him what he did for a living in which he replied he did porn, the look on my face when he said that, wow, he looked embarrassed and left pretty quick because of the disgusted look I gave him, I don't know how anyone could do that, I certainly wouldn't no matter how broke I was or how much I was offered.

    Why be disgusted? I would think it would provide interesting things to chat about, even if it totally turned you off to dating/fucking him.
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    Feb 16, 2016 11:49 PM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    interestingchap saidI met Colby Jansen in London and struck up a conversation about rugby, I asked him what he did for a living in which he replied he did porn, the look on my face when he said that, wow, he looked embarrassed and left pretty quick because of the disgusted look I gave him, I don't know how anyone could do that, I certainly wouldn't no matter how broke I was or how much I was offered.
    Why be disgusted? I would think it would provide interesting things to chat about, even if it totally turned you off to dating/fucking him.

    Oh please, it's much more fun to be judgemental.
  • badbug

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    Feb 17, 2016 12:10 AM GMT
    Oh please, it's much more fun to be judgemental


    Why would you say something like that? What is wrong with you?

  • buddycat

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    Feb 17, 2016 2:25 AM GMT
    Is there a coorelation between high top Adidas, porn stars, and the circuit? I didn't realize it.
  • NyRuinz

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    Feb 17, 2016 3:56 AM GMT
    buddycat saidIs there a coorelation between high top Adidas, porn stars, and the circuit? I didn't realize it.


    This seems to be the sneaker of choice for many in that lifestyle

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