Can we have an "Interesting" list, in addition to hotties? Please, Realjock?

  • Tritimium

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    Feb 07, 2009 1:26 AM GMT
    There are loads of guys on here that seem to be hugely interesting, and I'd love to acknowledge that in a list of some sort besides my Hotlist, which is really intended for physical hotness. Anyone agree?
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    Feb 07, 2009 1:48 AM GMT
    Great idea.
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    Feb 07, 2009 1:49 AM GMT
    Makes sense to me.
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    Feb 07, 2009 1:51 AM GMT
    that would be three lists to put Tritimium on icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    It's called buddylist. icon_neutral.gif If a person interests you that much, email him. It's not like he'll get offended if you don't find him hot and just find him interesting.
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:19 AM GMT
    Excellent idea!!!!

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  • Delivis

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:19 AM GMT
    Sedative saidIt's called buddylist. icon_neutral.gif If a person interests you that much, email him. It's not like he'll get offended if you don't find him hot and just find him interesting.


    Just interesting?

    Interesting>hot

    OR Interesting=hot

    either way..icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:25 AM GMT
    Yeah. So why make a new category? It's either you find him hot or you don't. Unless you're afraid that hotlisting or buddylisting someone will make them take it the wrong way. icon_razz.gif Dunno really though. Depends on what your idea of the use of the hotlist/buddylist is for.
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:26 AM GMT
    Sedative saidIt's called buddylist. icon_neutral.gif If a person interests you that much, email him. It's not like he'll get offended if you don't find him hot and just find him interesting.

    I find the buddy list confusing and I think an "Interesting List" would help clear up the confusion.

    A buddy to me is someone you know and are friends with. But I get Buddy-listed all the time by guys I have never seen on the site or exchanged a word with. I think they are trying to express just what an "Interesting List" would do, that is, say that your profile makes you sound like an interesting person.

    I used to turn buddy requests down with my explanation, if I didnt know the person. But I have given up on that. It got to be too many. If complete strangers want to hotlist me and buddy list, fine. I just go with it.

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:28 AM GMT
    According to lilTanker, things like this are not important for the webmaster, he has better things to do. Also creating a new list could provoke the server to explode and this website would be so slow that everyone would go somewhere else to find something faster. Finally realjock would have to change the strategy and start selling clothing for lesbians in order to survive. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:31 AM GMT
    Caslon8000 said
    Sedative saidIt's called buddylist. icon_neutral.gif If a person interests you that much, email him. It's not like he'll get offended if you don't find him hot and just find him interesting.

    I find the buddy list confusing and I think an "Interesting List" would help clear up the confusion.

    A buddy to me is someone you know and are friends with. But I get Buddy-listed all the time by guys I have never seen on the site or exchanged a word with. I think they are trying to express just what an "Interesting List" would do, that is, say that your profile makes you sound like an interesting person.

    I used to turn buddy requests down with my explanation, if I didnt know the person. But I have given up on that. It got to be too many. If complete strangers want to hotlist me and buddy list, fine. I just go with it.


    See? Depends on the interpretation. Adding yet another category.... I dunno. If someone 'interesting' lists you, what would be your response? icon_razz.gif

    Though an interesting list would really be something more along the lines of a hotlist since it wouldn't necessitate a reciprocation. But then again, why not just shoot the guy an email?

    Sounds like another reason for guys to just random interesting list you just to see if you'll pipe up and respond. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:33 AM GMT
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    Caslon8000 said
    Sedative saidIt's called buddylist. icon_neutral.gif If a person interests you that much, email him. It's not like he'll get offended if you don't find him hot and just find him interesting.

    I find the buddy list confusing and I think an "Interesting List" would help clear up the confusion.

    A buddy to me is someone you know and are friends with. But I get Buddy-listed all the time by guys I have never seen on the site or exchanged a word with. I think they are trying to express just what an "Interesting List" would do, that is, say that your profile makes you sound like an interesting person.

    I used to turn buddy requests down with my explanation, if I didnt know the person. But I have given up on that. It got to be too many. If complete strangers want to hotlist me and buddy list, fine. I just go with it.


    See? Depends on the interpretation. Adding yet another category.... I dunno. If someone 'interesting' lists you, what would be your response? icon_razz.gif

    Though an interesting list would really be something more along the lines of a hotlist since it wouldn't necessitate a reciprocation. But then again, why not just shoot the guy an email?

    Sounds like another reason for guys to just random interesting list you just to see if you'll pipe up and respond. icon_razz.gif


    An Interesting List can let you show that you find the person interesting for something besides his "hotness" and dont want to lose track of him. It may signal that you would like to get to this person better on some other level than physical, and yet not be presumptuous and leap to Buddy status.

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:40 AM GMT
    i think people are too superficial these days, they look at someone and if they dont have the type of body they are looking for or the type of face that they want, they ignore you and move on. Um what are you going to do with someone who messages you from London and you live in NYC???? I believe in making friends and truly getting to know someone, that's why I'm here and to find mr. right hahahaha, yeah I know! icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:41 AM GMT
    Well, maybe we can just get rid of the 'buddy' list and call it the 'cool' list.

    That way you can 'collect' guys that you want to remember for email conversations or because you thought they were funny or intelligent - without calling them 'hot' as they may be good looking just not your type or 'buddy' which says that you and they are chums.

    Plus I think a 'hot' list and a 'cool' list is neato.

    Then when a guy 'cool' lists you, you get an email saying 'dudeonRJ thinks you are cool'.

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:52 AM GMT
    OHhiker saidWell, maybe we can just get rid of the 'buddy' list and call it the 'cool' list.

    That way you can 'collect' guys that you want to remember for email conversations or because you thought they were funny or intelligent - without calling them 'hot' as they may be good looking just not your type or 'buddy' which says that you and they are chums.

    Plus I think a 'hot' list and a 'cool' list is neato.

    Then when a guy 'cool' lists you, you get an email saying 'dudeonRJ thinks you are cool'.



    LOL!

    'Cool' being the opposite of 'Hot', that would actually be misconstrued as an 'Ugly' list. icon_lol.gif

    Just sayin. icon_razz.gif

    Anywho, ya, I'm split on this. It would be nice to have another list that doesn't have sexual connotations, but neither the presumption of intimacy of a 'buddy list'. Still it does seem yet another category to pigeonhole someone into.

    If you get an 'interesting' list, what would your reaction be?" Um thanks for not finding me hot enough nor interesting enough to actually get you to talk to me?" icon_confused.gif
  • oxdr

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    Feb 07, 2009 2:55 AM GMT
    Awsome idea.
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    Feb 07, 2009 2:58 AM GMT
    Sedative saidIf you get an 'interesting' list, what would your reaction be?" Um thanks for not finding me hot enough nor interesting enough to actually get you to talk to me?" icon_confused.gif

    Did you land on your head when you were cannonized today? ... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:02 AM GMT
    Caslon8000 said
    Did you land on your head when you were cannonized today? ... icon_rolleyes.gif


    Well... no. But I missed Mars again. And the methane kinda gets into your head here in Jupiter. imslow.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:08 AM GMT
    i'm surprised that an idea like this hasn't come up in the forums before... surely it's something that everyone's thought on at least once?

    Tritimium saidAnyone agree?

    agreed. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:20 AM GMT
    my hot list doesnt mean they are physically hot
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:23 AM GMT
    theonslaught saidmy hot list doesnt mean they are physically hot


    So which ones are ugly then?

    Coz they all look pretty hot to me
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:25 AM GMT
    Ok, I just got hot listed onto a "discerning" list of 855 other guys! ... OMFG! .... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
    Tritimium saidThere are loads of guys on here that seem to be hugely interesting, and I'd love to acknowledge that in a list of some sort besides my Hotlist, which is really intended for physical hotness. Anyone agree?

    I think hotness can be both physical and not physical. But I think you're right. A "hot list" can be interpreted different ways. And I think most guys here assume that if someone hot lists you, they want to fuck or whatever.

    Other sites have ways to give props without the sexual innuendo.. hearts, flowers, gold stars, cookies, waffles. I dunno why RJ doesn't have something similar.
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:28 AM GMT
    AMT87 said
    theonslaught saidmy hot list doesnt mean they are physically hot


    So which ones are ugly then?

    Coz they all look pretty hot to me



    I dont care nothing for looks..... for the most part

    Those guys arent hot for their looks most look like girly men anyways but nice guys.
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    Feb 07, 2009 3:32 AM GMT
    Wow you just digging on a deeper hole...