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    Feb 16, 2016 3:08 PM GMT
    I see this all the time and wonder why on earth muscled up straight men with abs etc. can never get laid or find someone to date? Shouldn't they be getting the most attention?
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    Feb 16, 2016 5:08 PM GMT
    I am sure that they are getting more than their fair share of attention.icon_biggrin.gif

    Now, if there is an attitude issue/personal baggage or equipment malfunction, (to mention the few) there, abs & co. may not be able to do all the work.

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    Feb 16, 2016 5:11 PM GMT
    straight mothers to be have stadards
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    Feb 16, 2016 5:47 PM GMT
    Abs are always fun to look at and touch, but not always fun to talk to.
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    Feb 16, 2016 7:05 PM GMT
    Because ladies don't put out so easily, and when they do your six pack isn't the most important thing for them.
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    Feb 16, 2016 7:10 PM GMT
    pellaz saidstraight mothers to be have stadards

    __morphic__ saidBecause ladies don't put out so easily, and when they do your six pack isn't the most important thing for them.

    Exactly. A fat ugly lawyer will win hands down every time over a hot muscular guy who's a delivery truck driver. They want a good provider, not a hot fuck.
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    Feb 16, 2016 11:03 PM GMT
    ricky1987 saidI see this all the time and wonder why on earth muscled up straight men with abs etc. can never get laid or find someone to date? Shouldn't they be getting the most attention?


    I have encountered a lot of fit, muscular men (gay and straight) who have the worst personalities. A lot of them are morally corrupt and narcissistic. This may be why some of them are alone. I don't care how good you look, a shitty personality is an instant turn off for me.
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    Feb 17, 2016 2:39 AM GMT
    I would think it takes an awful lot of narcissism (or extreme focus on oneself) to maintain a bodybuilder physique - training, eating, supplements all revolve around maintaining the look. I can see where potential partners would feel like they are second fiddle.
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    Feb 17, 2016 4:04 AM GMT
    Oftentimes I notice the hottest, most muscular men in the gym bringing their fugly wives and girlfriends.

    I always thought this indicated that while gay men are presumed to be indiscriminate, straight men will fuck anything.

    This thread gives me pause. Do all the hot women go for fugly men of means?
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    Feb 17, 2016 4:09 AM GMT
    Because women are stupid. Women are infamous at trying to emasculate men. They will push a man to see how far they can push him, ie....painting his toenails, making him go shopping with her even though it's obvious he hates it. Then the moment he bends to her demands he's failed the test and she ditches him. Built guys aren't usually as easy to manipulate so women tend not to be interested in this type of guy. (Strictly personal observation.)
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    Feb 17, 2016 6:25 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidOftentimes I notice the hottest, most muscular men in the gym bringing their fugly wives and girlfriends.

    I always thought this indicated that while gay men are presumed to be indiscriminate, straight men will fuck anything.

    This thread gives me pause. Do all the hot women go for fugly men of means?


    Even though you may think they are hot, that does not necessarily mean they believe they are. A lot of them probably have self esteem issues and believe that is the best they can do.
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    Feb 17, 2016 6:32 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Radd saidBecause women are stupid. Women are infamous at trying to emasculate men. They will push a man to see how far they can push him, ie....painting his toenails, making him go shopping with her even though it's obvious he hates it. Then the moment he bends to her demands he's failed the test and she ditches him. Built guys aren't usually as easy to manipulate so women tend not to be interested in this type of guy. (Strictly personal observation.)


    My goodness, Scruffie.

    That's a bit harsh to make an all inclusive statement like that ("woman are stupid"). You sound like a misogynist.



    Don't feel excluded; I was including you in there when I was talking about women. Basically, you're the biggest cunt I know. And proof why you must make up imaginary boyfriends to make yourself feel better.

    It's great how you're so against generalizing about groups of people. Maybe you can go after all those racists threads on here next. Oh wait.....many of those threads were created by someone who looks a lot like you and has the same screen name. I hope you report that person immediately for stealing your identity.
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    Feb 17, 2016 10:42 AM GMT
    Radd saidBecause women are stupid. Women are infamous at trying to emasculate men. They will push a man to see how far they can push him, ie....painting his toenails, making him go shopping with her even though it's obvious he hates it. Then the moment he bends to her demands he's failed the test and she ditches him. Built guys aren't usually as easy to manipulate so women tend not to be interested in this type of guy. (Strictly personal observation.)


    Yea right
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  • badbug

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    Feb 18, 2016 5:13 AM GMT
    A lot of them probably have self esteem issues and believe that is the best they can do


    I've dated a few women that were less attractive than me in society's eyes. Certainly it was partly because i had abandonment issues or totally. I didn't think about it consciously per se but it made sense that i would choose partners that i thought would be less likely to leave me, since leaving me was a result i thought/feared unavoidable. I also did many things to drive them away.....kind of shitty when i could of been fucking hotter chicks if i was going to chase them away anyways!! lol

    But yeah for sure, bodybuilding and self-esteem issues go fucking hand in hand.
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    Feb 18, 2016 5:32 AM GMT
    Oh so now I created racist threads?


    I always thought of Radd as a bit racist. Radd, Undercoverman and there was a third dude, appeared to be a little nouveau racist for my taste. Not overtly but sort of that modern "we have a black president therefore racism is over" type of racist. Mild flavour racists, not your grandfather's racist!


    Exactly. A fat ugly lawyer will win hands down every time over a hot muscular guy who's a delivery truck driver. They want a good provider, not a hot fuck

    Not if he knows how to talk. Women want to be enertained above anything else and nothing entertains them like hearing plausible inventive compliments.

    Think of how many women date losers who abuse them. Drama makes them feel special. You can sell drama by stumbling into it, (being an asshole, meeting a woman who craves assholes) or you create drama by creating and then threatening intimacy.

    Do all the hot women go for fugly men of means?

    Nope. Especially if you get them young and/or emotionally unstable. Plenty of women make horrendous choices, as much as men.

    A person i know, i would say friend but he's a dick, has a bloody super model quality ex wife and a current pretty damn hot wife. He's 300lbs, fat, and is pretty broke a lot of the time. He's a piece of shit but some women just are drawn to him and stay for god knows why. I honestly don't understand it when i see it, it does not make much sense. But he just had these women in his social circle and they stuck to him.

    I imagine if he had approached them in a bar, they would of just laughed at him. But he managed to worm his way into their consciousness through hanging out a few times at parties and that was all he needed to get the craving his emotional outbursts and bravado.

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    Feb 19, 2016 4:30 AM GMT
    ricky1987 saidI see this all the time and wonder why on earth muscled up straight men with abs etc. can never get laid or find someone to date? Shouldn't they be getting the most attention?

    No. All that tren kills the libido. No chick wants to be with a guy with a limp dick. And skinny legs. icon_lol.gif

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    Feb 19, 2016 1:21 PM GMT
    Geez, some of these answers really are... Something... :l

    Anyway, to answer the OP's original question. I remember my brother had a friend who was dating a bodybuilder type (straight guy, friend was straight girl). She broke up with him twice and when I asked her why, she said it was because she found him kinda boring. She admitted she found him attractive but just boring as all he would talk about was working out at the gym. I just chalk it up to "it just wasn't meant to be" but I've came across stories about this far too often.

    I feel that there are 3 reasons why this happens with men whom you think would have women flocking to them.

    -He's more into working out than having a girlfriend or dating. Usually, they are too dedicated to their gains and feel they don't have time to throw on girls.

    -He has a bad attitude or comes off as boring.

    -He's very shy and doesn't know how to approach girls.

    And the other factor is that women tend to be more emotional. They do have physical likes as well but if you can't stimulate her mind, most of the time she'll either won't be interested in a boring or pretentious hot guy.

    And on the guys talking about hot guys with "fugly" girlfriends, I know that it may not be expected but what if the guy actually liked her? I remember stumbling across forum of some gym rat looking guy who said he pretty didn't want to date "hot" girls anymore because he noticed a pattern of them being generally undesirable personality-wise so he switched and tried a more average looking girl and ended up marrying her. Of course, this is the internet so maybe he was lying but I feel that something like this can happen with people considered "hot" who at first seek out other "Hot" people only to be disappointed. So it's not that weird that they would try to date someone different.
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    Feb 19, 2016 1:29 PM GMT
    I think it comes down to options. The more attractive you are the more options you have. Even after finding someone of interest the advances don't stop. There are many studies that show it's much easier to remain in a long term relationship if both individuals in the relationship are generally classified as unattractive.