Help me figure out this guy

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    Feb 18, 2016 4:44 AM GMT
    When I was a teenager, I, like all of you, had my reasonable amount of "straight crushes." After I came out and became more mature, I learned to stop falling for straight guys and I haven't had that problem anymore for about 6 years.

    That seemed to change as of lately. You know sometimes we have that sixth sense that someone is gay by the way they act around you, the things they say, the way they touch you and give you attention? Well, that's happening right now with this guy who's my classmate.

    I like him because he's very attractive and has such a fun and vibrant personality. He's the only one laughing at my jokes, he finds any reason to start a conversation with me, I catch him looking at me several times from across the room and we both laugh about it.

    Also, he finds any excuse to touch me, seriously. Even if whatever we're doing doesn't need touching, he does it. He's tried to sort of hold my hand sometimes. If we're comparing notes, sometimes he puts his arm on top of mine. Someone told me Turkish men are touchy-feely, but he doesn't do this stuff with others.

    We haven't hung out outside of the class, but I haven't asked him out because he's apparently straight. What's interesting about this is that he's Turkish (which is a homophobic country) and he's had the same girlfriend since he was 10 years old. They live together. He's also told me that he doesn't want to get married, even after all these years of being in a relationship.

    That's why I think this guy might like me, but he's so deep in the closet and afraid to come out. I feel like he hasn't had any gay experiences either.

    What do you guys think? Is this yet another forget about it, he's absolutely straight scenario?
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 18, 2016 5:52 AM GMT
    Look, you know the guy, rite? We do not! The chances are that you'll figure this one much better out than a crowd of possibly well-meaning guys reading your post.icon_idea.gif

    I would not focus on his being gay/bi or not. This is neither here nor there, and is really only his business.

    I'd focus here on the fact that he has been signaling on all the frequencies that he likes YOU.

    Why not give both him and you the opportunity to see where this hands-holding, touchy-feely thing may go in a totally private, discreet environment in which you do not discuss the big GAY thing but rather show to each other that, yeah, you like each other and some intimacy may be a good expression of it.

    SC
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    Feb 18, 2016 6:03 AM GMT
    ^^^^^Great advice above me here. That's just about exactly what I would suggest. It has worked for me in a few very good and similar situations.
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    Feb 18, 2016 11:29 AM GMT
    zoolanderz said
    We haven't hung out outside of the class, but I haven't asked him out because he's apparently straight.


    You've only had contact in a classroom?

    If you're really interested, why not see if he wants to do something together with you? Anything outside of class. Maybe you will actually get to know each other, and you will have a better idea as to the extent of his interest in you.

  • mystery905

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    Feb 18, 2016 10:56 PM GMT
    Just drop to your knees in front of him and see if he unzips....
  • DavidAllenCoe

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    Feb 18, 2016 11:59 PM GMT
    That is a recipe for disaster. Everything you described is straight guys hanging out with straight guys.

    If he wants to hang out, hang out. If it goes further, cool.
  • SinfulWays

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    Feb 19, 2016 12:14 AM GMT
    icon_twisted.gif My suggestion is that you manipulate the situation! If possible, try to get you and him in a situation where you have to undress in front of him. I mean all clothes off!!! If he looks and says nothing then that's an obvious sign that he might be straight... But if he looks at your naked body and can't stop looking, then he might have some hidden desires that you might want to answer! Some guys talk a good game and front like they are straight but once they see a Cock in all its glory they are like Vampires drawn to Blood!!!icon_twisted.gif
  • SinfulWays

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    Feb 19, 2016 12:45 AM GMT
    Justme99 said
    SinfulWays saidicon_twisted.gif My suggestion is that you manipulate the situation! If possible, try to get you and him in a situation where you have to undress in front of him. I mean all clothes off!!! If he looks and says nothing then that's an obvious sign that he might be straight... But if he looks at your naked body and can't stop looking, then he might have some hidden desires that you might want to answer! Some guys talk a good game and front like they are straight but once they see a Cock in all its glory they are like Vampires drawn to Blood!!!icon_twisted.gif


    that might be a bad idea because the other guy may wonder why he just randomly got naked?

    he should just get naked on here and show us how hot he is.

    sounds like a much better idea. ;)

    seriously, though, I would let the other guy make the first move because otherwise he may embarrass himself.
    It's all about the technique, I was thinking more on the line of him going to the gym or going swimming.... A situation in which it would be regular behavior to undress in front of him. Like when I was in a hotel room with my straight friend and I had to take a shower, I Just stripped all my clothes off and slowly went into the bathroom to Shoot... best believe he looked at me the whole time! Then he commented that I had a Very Beautiful body! Even though he claimed to be straight.... We sucked each others Cock a few times and it was Awesome! Now we are roommates but he still claims that he is 100% str8. My credo is "Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained" lol
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    Feb 21, 2016 6:08 PM GMT
    I asked him if he wanted to grab a beer with me sometime after school and he said yes. I'll keep you updated!