Do you introduce your boyfriends to your straight guy friends?

  • immortality

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    Feb 22, 2016 1:25 PM GMT
    Do you introduce your boyfriends to your straight guy friends? And do you show affection to your partner around your straight guy friends?
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    Feb 22, 2016 2:20 PM GMT
    introduce ? i woould do that if those guys are nice (and if i had a lover )...


    affection ? hell to the N-O ! even 'open and nice' majority of straight dudes are uncomfortable with girl-dude affections..let alone dude-dude.
  • charlitos666

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    Feb 22, 2016 3:50 PM GMT
    ya, i go like "YOU meet HUSBAND", "HUSBAND meet YOU"
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 22, 2016 6:18 PM GMT
    My str8 friends do not bother to introduce all of their gfs to me right away. Once they start going steady, yeah, they do.

    I mirror this. No one really wants to meet and get acquainted with every dude I hook up with. If we start getting steady, show up for social gatherings, I sure do introduce him to my friends, str8 and all the others, too.icon_biggrin.gif

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    Feb 22, 2016 6:48 PM GMT
    immortality saidDo you introduce your boyfriends to your straight guy friends? And do you show affection to your partner around your straight guy friends?
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    Feb 22, 2016 6:58 PM GMT
    Yeah because I'm an adult and they're my friends.
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    Feb 22, 2016 7:19 PM GMT
    Ckfeezy saidYeah because I'm an adult and they're my friends.

    This! Nothing more needs to be said on the subject.
  • Crisistunity

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    Feb 23, 2016 8:08 AM GMT
    Yes and yes.
  • somedaytoo

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    Feb 23, 2016 11:17 AM GMT
    When I get a BF, I'll let you know.
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    Feb 23, 2016 3:59 PM GMT
    Yeah! I can't see why not, but, I wouldn't be all over their faces with my boyfriend and show more affections than any normal person would take/handle...
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    Feb 23, 2016 5:51 PM GMT
    if they want to meet or if we're all planning on going somewhere together, but i wouldn't go out of my way to make a big deal about it. as far as public affection, only if i was trying to make them uncomfortable. even the most open-minded hetero guys still don't want to see it.
  • psustud

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    Feb 25, 2016 1:33 PM GMT
    I'll give u a pass since you're under 25, but common bud... You live in NYC and you're apprehensive about this?

    Quit that. No one has more insecurities than youes truly and even I am not apprehensive about introducing my BFs to str8 friends.
    I hate to sound so cliche but if you're out to them and they're really your friends there should be no issue here.
    I can understand if you're not out yet though and I won't say anything negative about that. Everyone needs to come out on their own one. I was not 100% out until 26 or 27.

    If you're not, let me tell Ya, what they say is true, life is shit tons better and easier once FULLY out.


    And affection, well, depends on the kind... I'm not eating my BFs face around str8 friends, but hugging our even standing side by side with arms around the waiste and/or shoulders... No problem. That mild and general affection should not be an issue.

    Be strong and be yourself. It's the most respectable way to be and a smart friend will admire your strength.
  • Gerard_Z

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    Feb 25, 2016 8:20 PM GMT
    I introduced my ex to my straight roommates. They were cool about it, but this was when we had been dating for more than 8 months.
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    Feb 25, 2016 8:44 PM GMT
    Duh. Of course. Are gay men really still that terrified of people's approval?
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    Feb 26, 2016 2:01 AM GMT
    Sure, why not, they introduce their female partners without concern. Haters can stand in line, besides, I have better weed.
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    Mar 04, 2016 11:43 PM GMT
    Only once it starts to get serious.
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    Mar 07, 2016 2:37 AM GMT
    Some of my straight friends are pretty cool, so yes, now I just need to find a cool great boyfriend to show him off. icon_redface.gificon_biggrin.gif