What's more important to you?

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    Feb 07, 2009 4:11 PM GMT
    Hey dudes. I'm just curious to see what kind of opinions I'll see concerning this one question...

    What's more important to you? The Looks? The Personality? Or are they both equally important?

    Give me your answer and why you choose the answer. Halla icon_cool.gif


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    Feb 07, 2009 4:15 PM GMT


    pssst! (whisper) you're supposed to state what's important to you first...
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    Feb 07, 2009 4:24 PM GMT
    Ive had guys with looks... If all you're about the physical then it works.

    If you're like me and wants something serious, looks wont get you there. You have to have personality and a soul. Someones looks can all of a sudden be hot once you get to know who they are.
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    Feb 07, 2009 5:05 PM GMT
    way to go theonelaught i couldnt put it betta than that icon_wink.gif

    Add to that you need someone who can understand you and befor he could do that he should understand him self, care about you and your needs not just about how do they look or what they wants,hold you,kiss you ......... act
    i know that you well get the point
    but i mean some guys are not blesseds with the good look and some others are
    thats life i know
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    Feb 07, 2009 5:46 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    pssst! (whisper) you're supposed to state what's important to you first...


    I didn't forget icon_razz.gif No worries.

    Me? Looks aren't all important to me. If he cares for me and doesn't see me as another piece of meat to use at will, things will go well. I've seen many guys get hurt from guys that are "attractive" all because they dove into things headfirst without checking out the dude's attitude. Hence the term "Look before you leap"

    You can have the looks of God, but if you're heart is as cold as Ice, stay away from me. This dog has a nasty bite icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 5:48 PM GMT
    Personality. And beyond that, what I see in his heart.
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    Feb 07, 2009 6:01 PM GMT
    Personality. Enough of it then it won't matter what you look like.
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    Feb 07, 2009 6:32 PM GMT
    I think personality is more important. Peoples good/bad looks vary so much that you can never really bank on it. While good looks mean nothing without personality.. that isn't to say looks aren't important too. I'll explain..

    .. I like the way I look. I know that I'm no Adonis.. but I also am comfortable enough with myself (personality wise), to where I feel like it's understandable that I would WANT to find someone who takes care of their body, at least as much as I do. I'm not ashamed to admit that attractiveness is definitely something I consider as important criteria. Is it wrong to desire a partner who's physically attractive? No..

    I do believe it crosses a line when you start disregarding personality, on the basis of good looks alone.
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    Feb 07, 2009 6:37 PM GMT
    KentuckyTuss saidI think personality is more important. Peoples good/bad looks vary so much that you can never really bank on it. While good looks mean nothing without personality.. that isn't to say looks aren't important too. I'll explain..

    .. I like the way I look. I know that I'm no Adonis.. but I also am comfortable enough with myself (personality wise), to where I feel like it's understandable that I would WANT to find someone who takes care of their body, at least as much as I do. I'm not ashamed to admit that attractiveness is definitely something I consider as important criteria. Is it wrong to desire a partner who's physically attractive? No..

    I do believe it crosses a line when you start disregarding personality, on the basis of good looks alone.


    Oh yeah, I agree with you there. One thing I can't stand is when you walk up to a guy, start to talk to them. And they're like "Oh well you're not my type"

    I almost went to beat up a dude that did that to me icon_razz.gif It's so freakin immature when guys cut that deep ya know? Every rose has its thorns, but some are more thorny than others (aka the PRICKS) LMAO!
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    Feb 07, 2009 7:01 PM GMT
    Ive met guys that look great and as soon as they open their mouth its over, haha. But some guys might not look "hot" but once you get to know them...they become irresistable.....

    But I have to admit I am a sucker for a muscular, hairy masculine guy. Guess it depends on if you want a one nighter or a relationship.
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    Feb 07, 2009 7:29 PM GMT
    They are equally important

    .... But in WHAT ORDER? icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 7:44 PM GMT
    His BODY is the most important.
    Looks, personality and intelligence are nice, but a little overrated.
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    Feb 07, 2009 7:53 PM GMT
    I try to not hierarchically rank my importances. Both are important.
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    Feb 07, 2009 7:57 PM GMT
    Both are important equally to mw. They show balance. Mind, body and spirirt bro :-)
  • ClarkeBeebee

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    Feb 09, 2009 10:19 AM GMT
    i like anyone are the same .

    when u want to see the guys' facei think looks are more important

    but when u want to know more about the guys then Personality are more important
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    Feb 09, 2009 11:21 AM GMT
    Personality. Looks are fleeting.
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    Feb 09, 2009 2:43 PM GMT
    His personality is far more important to me. We could work on other areas if need be, but it would be difficult if not impossible to clean up personality disorders.

    With that being said though, I can't imagine myself having anything in common with anyone who doesn't take care of himself - like a smoker, druggy, glutton, or some guy who would be a couch potatoe (I spell it like Dan Quayle!).
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    Feb 09, 2009 2:45 PM GMT
    honestly its the looks that attract me and the personality that keeps me there, but im not superficial i dont mind if my man has a lil meat on him i just think if i work hard to stay healthy and im working hard to get fit i dont wanna be sum1 who eats junk 24/7 even if theyre skinny as hell it wouldnt work for me.
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    Feb 09, 2009 2:59 PM GMT
    Tapper saidPersonality. Looks are fleeting.



    methinks the lady doth talk crap! icon_lol.gif

    for someone who describes themselves as 'truly ripped', you're telling me personality comes first? icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 09, 2009 3:02 PM GMT
    sundayswim saidHis BODY is the most important.
    Looks, personality and intelligence are nice, but a little overrated.

    Can we say "Shallow"?icon_rolleyes.gif
  • jungleq

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    Feb 09, 2009 3:15 PM GMT
    Definitely the personality. Living in the Ft. Lauderdale, Miami area for over 20 years. surrouned by beautiful people everywhere. A high percentage of which cannot carry on a literate sentence, let alone add two and two together. A good personality goes much farther with me. Sure waking up to a good looking man is wonderful, but it much nicer to have a good conversation over coffee than spending an hour in the bathroom just to look good. Just my opinion. icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 09, 2009 3:23 PM GMT
    I'll be totally honest and say that looks are most important (though not a deal breaker) in the first 5 minutes. After that, it's personality and everything else.

    I'm assuming that we're talking about a potential partner as opposed to friend (where looks is irrelevant) or hookup (where personality is far less relevant - though not entirely irrelevant).

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    Feb 09, 2009 4:57 PM GMT
    equally important to me... I am drawn to someone by their looks, but stick around 'cuz of their personality.
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    Feb 09, 2009 5:10 PM GMT
    What do you do first? Read a profile or look at a pictureicon_eek.gif
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    Feb 09, 2009 7:21 PM GMT
    KentuckyTuss saidI think personality is more important. Peoples good/bad looks vary so much that you can never really bank on it. While good looks mean nothing without personality.. that isn't to say looks aren't important too. I'll explain..

    .. I like the way I look. I know that I'm no Adonis.. but I also am comfortable enough with myself (personality wise), to where I feel like it's understandable that I would WANT to find someone who takes care of their body, at least as much as I do. I'm not ashamed to admit that attractiveness is definitely something I consider as important criteria. Is it wrong to desire a partner who's physically attractive? No..

    I do believe it crosses a line when you start disregarding personality, on the basis of good looks alone.


    Pretty spot on, to elaborate on this matter I would say that no matter who you are or how good you look right now, looks...over time.... will eventually fade and then all you have left is your personality. If you looking for a quick fling, then sure, looks are the primary concern; but if it's long term that you want, looks can tend take the back burner for other things. Just keep in mind that Attraction and the way someone looks are two different things. Someone could be hot as hell, but if you find them to be self centered, dim witted, or you just plain don't get along then it probably wont work. Everybody's different though so it's important to make sure that you both are on the same page.icon_smile.gif