alexander7 saidThe worse thing about being gay for me is the expectation that straight people have that I should fit into some ridiculous stereotype so the second best thing about being gay is being able to not fit into that stereotype. The best thing is too obvious to mention.
It used to be that being gay was making an almost revolutionary statement, that is, not going along with the norms of society and therefore being your own man. I still feel that way, but I think that most gay men now seem to want to "fit in".
i really don't see what's so revolutionary about sucking cock. j/k We are in a revolution because we want to be equal. Not to become some weird alterative. It's time to buy in if we want to be respected.
I believe in the future we are gonna reach that goal. Gays are more visable than ever. If we try to sepreate ourselves we only will be hurting ourselves. Recently my newfew was telling me about gay guys. He's only 12 years old but he wasn't negative about them at all. Thank God for MTV!
I know you maybe coming from a time and place when the gay lifestyle was so fun and free.Thinks change that's life. Now I'm happy that I don't have to go out to a club just to meet gay guys. I think life for us is getting so much better.
Things haven't changed more, You can still go to a nightclub,park,bathhouse, to pick up guys if you desire. I just say it's time to move forward. So if your sick and tired of straight coming into gay clubs or things changing just deal with it. It is only gonna get more mixed. Thank God!