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  • beefyg2

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    Feb 28, 2016 6:20 PM GMT
    Greetings..
    I am enjoying the men on this site for sure. Sure does make a guy want to be lean and fit - so thank you to you all who inspire me.
    I recently had a bad experience with a guy who I had been just emailing with. It turns out he gave a false address as an American - he actually lives in Nigeria. I had only sent 4 emails and he was suddenly getting his visa to come to me.. WTF. I have tried to look him back up on this site but he has already deleted his profile.

    I know we should all be careful to whom we message with.
    I sent him 2 messages back telling him to STOP contacting me and I was NOT interested in anything he wants from me.
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    Feb 28, 2016 6:42 PM GMT
    beefyg2 saidGreetings..
    I am enjoying the men on this site for sure. Sure does make a guy want to be lean and fit - so thank you to you all who inspire me.
    I recently had a bad experience with a guy who I had been just emailing with. It turns out he gave a false address as an American - he actually lives in Nigeria. I had only sent 4 emails and he was suddenly getting his visa to come to me.. WTF. I have tried to look him back up on this site but he has already deleted his profile.

    I know we should all be careful to whom we message with.
    I sent him 2 messages back telling him to STOP contacting me and I was NOT interested in anything he wants from me.

    I get some of these unsolicited RJ emails. I check their profile, and if they're brand new here, and I mean often having joined the very same day as their note, and they list a foreign country in their profile, I won't respond. Even if it claims USA I may not answer.

    Another tip off is that they're immediately going into how they like hot men, or want to meet guys, etc. Well, first of all dear, I'm 67. What attraction could I possibly offer you, unless you're more interested in the wallet bulge in the rear of my pants than the bulge in the front?

    Second, my eager friend, you apparently haven't ready my own rather complete RJ Profile. In which I clearly state I'm in a 100% monogamous relationship, and never cheat. Which remains true. And I also state that if I think you're trying to hit on me I'll block your mail, and may report you to Admin.

    Yet still I get these annoying emails. Apparently never from the same guy, new each time, but largely from African countries. Nigeria, like you did, and Uganda being another popular place.

    My suggestion: don't reply to these emails at all, they're toxic. As you've apparently learned yourself.
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    Feb 28, 2016 6:58 PM GMT
    What's the worst that can happen? You exchange a few messages, by which time it becomes obvious he's not who he's claiming to be. Happens all the time in the News & Politics Forum.
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    Feb 29, 2016 2:05 AM GMT
    Yeah, unfortunately sock accounts are really popular here. I recently rejoined after being away for about 2 years. Shortly after, I received an email from a guy claiming he was in Texarkana, TX, and wanted to meet me. He started giving me a story about his grandmother being sick, and then he slipped and said that he was looking at returning to the US soon. What was funny is that he wasn't verified, and his profile pics didn't match his description. I challenged him to verify himself and never heard from him again! It was fun to listen to the stories he made up as I asked queries.

    Like ArtDeco says, if they want to meet immediately, or on first post to me, state how much they're attracted to me, and to email them outside of the forum, that's an instant deletion.

    Welcome to the forum though. You find a lot of wealthy information, but please note, you do find a lot of cattiness as well. icon_smile.gif


    Cheers,

    Sean
  • sexy_dad_67

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    Feb 29, 2016 3:07 AM GMT
    I get this all the time. I was initially encouraged by this website, because friends told me it was supportive of daddies, and I got a number of messages from younger guys, but one by one all of those conversations turned out to be requests for money, favors, visas, etc. Such a waste of time! icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 29, 2016 6:43 AM GMT
    GTPSean said
    Like ArtDeco says, if they want to meet immediately, or on first post to me, state how much they're attracted to me, and to email them outside of the forum, that's an instant deletion.

    Yeah, I forgot that additional indicator - the request to contact them at an account outside RJ. No, for one thing because I don't want them to have my private email addy. **CLICK**