Splash - in San Jose, downtown at Post Street & Lightston is to me the best place to have a blast, dance , meet attractive guys and feel like you're IN the City (SF) without driving an hour to get to the City. Two floors, two bars, a great upstairs terrace overlooking the best parts of downtown SJ. Guys dancing in bikini underwear on elevated platforms, & everybody in good moods having fun, meeting other people. Some straight men & women blending in & it is great seeing everybody getting along socializing together. You're in Mountain View - about 15 minutes away. Maybe take Uber so you can drink without driving & parking problems. Wear whatever you look good in, and if you go alone, just get buzzed a bit & get out on one of 3 dance areas and blend in with other singles, couples and dance your ass off. Talk to people on the upstairs terrace & exchange contact information. Expect to have a blast!