Bar Room Brawl!!

  • Mikeylikesit

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    Feb 07, 2009 8:55 PM GMT
    So here the sinario. I went on a date last nite with this guy. He was there at the bar with his friends already. The two other couples there where"married". The one couples partner devulges to the other couples partner, "That my boy friend fools around with other guys, but I'm fine with it". All of a sudden the other guy Smacks the guy across the face & was freaking out. Oh The DRAMA.....LOL. As an innocent bystander. I was saying that it really was non of his business to get invloved with the other guys "open relationship". I think he stuck his nose where it should have never been..LOL. Being judgemental....ect. What are your thoughts?. Would you smack someone across the face in a public bar like that?? Just because their values where differant?...icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 07, 2009 9:42 PM GMT
    Gee that isn't about values, it is about behavior. It is about indiscretion in a public place and humiliating others, belittling their values - in a condescending way no less. Yeah, it is worth a smack.
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    Feb 07, 2009 9:44 PM GMT
    Me thinks something else was going on with that.
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    Feb 08, 2009 12:49 AM GMT
    First of all i dont smack unless its a butt....

    And if you dont agree with someone keep you're cool. I have come to blows with dudes in bars before but i never start it.
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    Feb 08, 2009 3:13 AM GMT
    theonslaught saidFirst of all i dont smack unless its a butt....

    And if you dont agree with someone keep you're cool. I have come to blows with dudes in bars before but i never start it.


    You can smack my butt anytime..........icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 08, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
    What I do in the bedroom is between me and my boyfriend. If he, in casual conversation, said "Hey, he really likes it when I..." that is a violation of our trust. That is worth a lot more than a smack.
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    Feb 08, 2009 6:06 AM GMT



    Neither of us would smack the other, but then neither of us would put the other through the heat of horror over violated privacy and trust to honour that privacy in public.

    It sure says a lot about their relationship.
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    Feb 08, 2009 6:13 AM GMT


    Ok now I've re-read this and see this, "I was saying that it really was non of his business to get invloved with the other guys "open relationship". I think he stuck his nose where it should have never been"

    ...so what does this mean -

    Couple A and couple B are talking.

    A guy from couple A tells a guy from couple B ,"my boy friend fools around with other guys, but I'm fine with it" and then what happened?

    GuyA's bf smacks guy A for being indiscreet? (which is what we thought had happened)

    Guy B's BF smacks guy A for some reason? Guy B smacks guy A?

    An orgy ensues? I give up. Help.


    -Doug
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    Feb 08, 2009 6:28 AM GMT
    OMG WTF, hell no!

    But I do know there are those here who would love to do me harm, because I don't stand on the same political side as they. Or accept what they may. But it's my right to be me!

    The slapper may well to be big on political correctness. I've seen it used as a weapon of war, a tool too justify violence? how dare you say that! Slap, and then the name calling too; hmmmm.
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    Feb 08, 2009 6:45 AM GMT
    I cant follow who struck whom and why. Can you clarify who is who in your story.
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    Feb 08, 2009 6:57 AM GMT
    Yeah, meninlove, I also couldn't really follow the story in the OP's post. "The other guy." Which one is the "other guy"? And who is "the guy"? And do all four guys hear the guy when he says, "My bf fools around with other guys and I'm OK with it"? Or does he say it just to one of the guys from the other couple?

    My guess is that a guy from couple A and a guy from couple B are talking to each other, while their respective partners are talking to each other. The guy from couple A says to the guy from couple B, ""My bf fools around with other guys and I'm OK with it." And the guy from couple B gets so angry when hears this that he smacks the other guy from couple A, the one who's fooling around with other guys.

    That was my guess, but I really couldn't tell.
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    Feb 08, 2009 7:12 AM GMT
    violence is never the answer, a biting inappropriate rebuttal would have been much more fun.