Why do gay men experiment with women?

  • Brock700xChar...

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    Mar 07, 2016 4:19 AM GMT
    Why do most gay men at one point in their life feel the need to try sex with women? if you're not attracted to women then why would you try it out? Unless you're bisexual you shouldn't have any experiences with women if you're gay. Also some gay men who try sex with women actually get off, which means most gay men are bi to a degree.
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    Mar 07, 2016 4:33 AM GMT
    Brock700 saidWhy do most gay men at one point in their life feel the need to try sex with women? if you're not attracted to women then why would you try it out?



    Please provide a study that backs up your claim. Otherwise, I'll just assume that you're saying this because "most" of your immediate friends have had sex with women....(which in no way represents all gay men.)

    Regardless of the percentages, there are many reasons why this happens. First of all, gay men know they will be ridiculed for being gay at a very young age. So some guys will try and force themselves into being straight by having sex with women. Some reject the idea that they're gay so hard that they are actually unaware they're gay because their subconscious mind has suppressed it so much. For some, it can take years or even decades for them to realize they've been hiding this from themselves. From my experience, very few gay men have sex with women after they accept their homosexuality.
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    Mar 07, 2016 4:39 AM GMT
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    Brock700 saidWhy do most gay men at one point in their life feel the need to try sex with women? if you're not attracted to women then why would you try it out?



    Please provide a study that backs up your claim. Otherwise, I'll just assume that you're saying this because "most" of your immediate friends have had sex with women....(which in no way represents all gay men.)

    Regardless of the percentages, there are many reasons why this happens. First of all, gay men know they will be ridiculed for being gay at a very young age. So some guys will try and force themselves into being straight by having sex with women. Some reject the idea that they're gay so hard that they are actually unaware they're gay because their subconscious mind has suppressed it so much. For some, it can take years or even decades for them to realize they've been hiding this from themselves. From my experience, very few gay men have sex with women after they accept their homosexuality.


    There are gay men who try sex with women they actually get off, there is no way a gay guy could enjoy sex with a woman to the point where they climax, it has to mean they are bisexual to a degree.
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    Mar 07, 2016 4:48 AM GMT
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    Brock700 saidWhy do most gay men at one point in their life feel the need to try sex with women? if you're not attracted to women then why would you try it out?



    Please provide a study that backs up your claim. Otherwise, I'll just assume that you're saying this because "most" of your immediate friends have had sex with women....(which in no way represents all gay men.)

    Regardless of the percentages, there are many reasons why this happens. First of all, gay men know they will be ridiculed for being gay at a very young age. So some guys will try and force themselves into being straight by having sex with women. Some reject the idea that they're gay so hard that they are actually unaware they're gay because their subconscious mind has suppressed it so much. For some, it can take years or even decades for them to realize they've been hiding this from themselves. From my experience, very few gay men have sex with women after they accept their homosexuality.


    There are gay men who try sex with women they actually get off, there is no way a gay guy could enjoy sex with a woman to the point where they climax, it has to mean they are bisexual to a degree.




    I don't think you realize the degree of delusion the trauma of being ridiculed can have on a person. Let me give you an example:

    One of my best friends who claims to be 100% gay used to tell me about his sex life in college before he came to grips with who he was. He said he used to fuck a different girl every night and got off almost every time, even though he was gay. He said he fucked them very rough and slapped them around, choked them out and was very brutal with them. (Probably out of anger of having to live a lie.) They would then go back and tell their girl friends about it, then their friends would approach him for sex. The guys on his football team would also hear about it and ask him for details. He said he was able to get off by fantasizing about the word getting back to his hot football jock friends and inadvertently turning them on.

    This may sound like quite a stretch for you and I but for someone who couldn't accept in a million years he was gay, this was his only outlet.
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    Mar 07, 2016 4:54 AM GMT
    Gay men get off with women. They may not enjoy the experience but that does not mean they are not capable. So many gay men have biological children from ex marriages.
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    Mar 07, 2016 9:14 AM GMT

    Most penises are bisexual. Or i guess pan sexual? I am not familiar with all the terms, but dudes have been known to fuck sheep. They even have a term for it, it's called Scottish.

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    Mar 07, 2016 1:28 PM GMT
    Men in general are not attracted to their hands, but those hands do wonders to get us off in time of need.
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    Mar 07, 2016 2:11 PM GMT
    Sounds like the OP is jealous of women, or perhaps feeling threatened that a woman might steal his man?

    gay men shouldn't do what again?

    I'm pretty sure gays can do whatever they want, as far as sexual experimentation goes, & as long as it entails mutual consent. & most gays don't need anyone to be telling them what they should or shouldn't do.

    I have an acquaintance who was gay all his life till he met this girl about 5 years ago, married her and they have children now. He appears to be happy with his decision.

    and lemme tell you, I am this close to start dating women. If my current relationship doesn't work, that's what I'll do. I am that fed up with gay people.
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    Mar 07, 2016 3:16 PM GMT
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    Most penises are bisexual. Or i guess pan sexual? I am not familiar with all the terms, but dudes have been known to fuck sheep. They even have a term for it, it's called Scottish.



    maybe not most, but i think there are a lot of guys that are just as sexually fluid as female millennials can be.
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    Mar 07, 2016 3:28 PM GMT
    patito saidSounds like the OP is jealous of women, or perhaps feeling threatened that a woman might steal his man?

    gay men shouldn't do what again?

    I'm pretty sure gays can do whatever they want, as far as sexual experimentation goes, & as long as it entails mutual consent. & most gays don't need anyone to be telling them what they should or shouldn't do.

    I have an acquaintance who was gay all his life till he met this girl about 5 years ago, married her and they have children now. He appears to be happy with his decision.

    and lemme tell you, I am this close to start dating women. If my current relationship doesn't work, that's what I'll do. I am that fed up with gay people.




    It sounds to me like he's just curious. It's a legit question and that's what public forums are for.

    And I HIGHLY doubt you're going to just decide one day to turn straight. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 07, 2016 4:32 PM GMT
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    It sounds to me like he's just curious. It's a legit question and that's what public forums are for.

    And I HIGHLY doubt you're going to just decide one day to turn straight. icon_rolleyes.gif


    well I don't think I ever talked about this on this board, but I've dated women before dating only guys. one was a long term gf & sorry if this offends any of you but we had a healthy sex life (like rabbits) for 3 years.

    I'm happy with my current male partner tho. just sayin' I wouldn't completely rule out THAT option.

    but that's me, to each his own
  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 07, 2016 4:44 PM GMT
    At a young age a guy, gay or straight, is so horny that he'll have sex with a tree if one is consenting. Later on, I think most of us initially want what we were raised in, a family. That can certainly happen with two gay men but it is a lot more difficult and a lot more expensive and usually achieved much later, though straight couples are delaying more now, too. So they experiment. Most gay men I've heard comment on it say they had to fantasize about men to get off with women.
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    Mar 07, 2016 5:23 PM GMT
    As a bi , i started with girls and then i was interested to find out how a cock tasted ..
    Now i am hooked to both sexes icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 07, 2016 5:43 PM GMT
    While I prefer men over women as friends, and as sexual partners, I did experiment with a few girls who went after me. There were several young women who sought sex with me, a couple suspected I was gay, but still wanted to try, and who am I to say no to a piece of ass. The very last fuck I enjoyed (age 35) with a woman was actually my cousins girlfriend, with whom the three of us got it on; his gf sat on my hard cock, and my cousin fucked up the butt, I grabbed his ass/legs for additional motivation. I have to admit this was probably one of my hottest three-ways. Early in my discussions with psychologist, I had a therapist who explained that most of us are sexual, however, society generally forces us to choose, and yet I have know some guys who simply remain sexual.
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    Mar 07, 2016 11:28 PM GMT
    patito said
    Radd said

    It sounds to me like he's just curious. It's a legit question and that's what public forums are for.

    And I HIGHLY doubt you're going to just decide one day to turn straight. icon_rolleyes.gif


    well I don't think I ever talked about this on this board, but I've dated women before dating only guys. one was a long term gf & sorry if this offends any of you but we had a healthy sex life (like rabbits) for 3 years.

    I'm happy with my current male partner tho. just sayin' I wouldn't completely rule out THAT option.

    but that's me, to each his own


    Dude you're definitely Bisexual, no gay guy would be fucking with a woman like rabbits, or have a sex life with a woman. You're bi.
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    Mar 07, 2016 11:33 PM GMT
    Brock700 said
    patito said
    Radd said

    It sounds to me like he's just curious. It's a legit question and that's what public forums are for.

    And I HIGHLY doubt you're going to just decide one day to turn straight. icon_rolleyes.gif


    well I don't think I ever talked about this on this board, but I've dated women before dating only guys. one was a long term gf & sorry if this offends any of you but we had a healthy sex life (like rabbits) for 3 years.

    I'm happy with my current male partner tho. just sayin' I wouldn't completely rule out THAT option.

    but that's me, to each his own


    Dude you're definitely Bisexual, no gay guy would be fucking with a woman like rabbits, or have a sex life with a woman. You're bi.


    You don't really understand sexuality. Most people aren't absolutely binary. I enjoyed occasional sex with women when younger, but in no way do I identify as bi. Google "Kinsey scale."
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    Mar 07, 2016 11:34 PM GMT
    Radd said
    Brock700 said
    Radd said
    Brock700 saidWhy do most gay men at one point in their life feel the need to try sex with women? if you're not attracted to women then why would you try it out?



    Please provide a study that backs up your claim. Otherwise, I'll just assume that you're saying this because "most" of your immediate friends have had sex with women....(which in no way represents all gay men.)

    Regardless of the percentages, there are many reasons why this happens. First of all, gay men know they will be ridiculed for being gay at a very young age. So some guys will try and force themselves into being straight by having sex with women. Some reject the idea that they're gay so hard that they are actually unaware they're gay because their subconscious mind has suppressed it so much. For some, it can take years or even decades for them to realize they've been hiding this from themselves. From my experience, very few gay men have sex with women after they accept their homosexuality.


    There are gay men who try sex with women they actually get off, there is no way a gay guy could enjoy sex with a woman to the point where they climax, it has to mean they are bisexual to a degree.




    I don't think you realize the degree of delusion the trauma of being ridiculed can have on a person. Let me give you an example:

    One of my best friends who claims to be 100% gay used to tell me about his sex life in college before he came to grips with who he was. He said he used to fuck a different girl every night and got off almost every time, even though he was gay. He said he fucked them very rough and slapped them around, choked them out and was very brutal with them. (Probably out of anger of having to live a lie.) They would then go back and tell their girl friends about it, then their friends would approach him for sex. The guys on his football team would also hear about it and ask him for details. He said he was able to get off by fantasizing about the word getting back to his hot football jock friends and inadvertently turning them on.

    This may sound like quite a stretch for you and I but for someone who couldn't accept in a million years he was gay, this was his only outlet.


    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.
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    Mar 08, 2016 12:32 AM GMT
    Speaking from my own experience: curiosity. Probably the same sort of thing that happens when straight guys try out same-sex sex. They're not actually gay, anymore than I was straight when I dated a girl when I was 21.

    I dated girls throughout high school and then realized I was into dudes (more specifically: one particular dude) during my senior year in high school. I had two boyfriends (one for two years), but then there was a girl who was really persistent when I was single and so I figured: why the hell not? She knew I was primarily into guys (she even sat around once while I was flirting with guys on gay.com (this was back in the early 2000s) but I guess she enjoyed the challenge.

    I realized I was just not that into girls after my curiosity was sated and returned to dating guys exclusively.
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    Mar 08, 2016 1:30 AM GMT
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    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 08, 2016 3:01 AM GMT
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    Brock700 said
    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif

    Well the vagina isn't a tight hole so I'm sure it's not going to stimulate your cock to ejaculate.
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    Mar 08, 2016 4:21 AM GMT
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    polfsky said
    Brock700 said
    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif

    Well the vagina isn't a tight hole so I'm sure it's not going to stimulate your cock to ejaculate.


    Gay men are perfectly capable of impregnating women with their sperm. If you dry hump your damn couch good enough you can ejaculate.
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    Mar 08, 2016 4:23 AM GMT
    BP201 said
    Brock700 said
    polfsky said
    Brock700 said
    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif

    Well the vagina isn't a tight hole so I'm sure it's not going to stimulate your cock to ejaculate.


    Gay men are perfectly capable of impregnating women with their sperm. If you dry hump your damn couch good enough you can ejaculate.

    But a gay guy would never want to impregnate a woman through sex, unless he's bi to a degree.
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    Mar 08, 2016 4:31 AM GMT
    Brock700 said
    BP201 said
    Brock700 said
    polfsky said
    Brock700 said
    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif

    Well the vagina isn't a tight hole so I'm sure it's not going to stimulate your cock to ejaculate.


    Gay men are perfectly capable of impregnating women with their sperm. If you dry hump your damn couch good enough you can ejaculate.

    But a gay guy would never want to impregnate a woman through sex, unless he's bi to a degree.


    He could be bi
    He could just want a kid because he can't afford a surrogate
    He could be suppressed and closeted
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    Mar 08, 2016 4:38 AM GMT
    BP201 said
    Brock700 said
    BP201 said
    Brock700 said
    polfsky said
    Brock700 said
    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif

    Well the vagina isn't a tight hole so I'm sure it's not going to stimulate your cock to ejaculate.


    Gay men are perfectly capable of impregnating women with their sperm. If you dry hump your damn couch good enough you can ejaculate.

    But a gay guy would never want to impregnate a woman through sex, unless he's bi to a degree.


    He could be bi
    He could just want a kid because he can't afford a surrogate
    He could be suppressed and closeted


    Having sex with a woman to an out 100%gay guy would be gross, and too weird to go through for any reason and situation, A gay guy wanting a child wouldn't lead him to go through with having sex with a woman and pounding a vagina, Unless he's bisexual.
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    Mar 08, 2016 5:13 AM GMT
    Brock700 said
    BP201 said
    Brock700 said
    BP201 said
    Brock700 said
    polfsky said
    Brock700 said
    Sorry, A gay guy's dick is not going to feel good inside a vagina, and vaginal sex is certainly not going to make him climax either.


    I'm not at all attracted to women and even feel repulsed by vaginas, but I'm sure the sensation of pumping my cock in and out of something soft would eventually get me off. icon_confused.gif

    Well the vagina isn't a tight hole so I'm sure it's not going to stimulate your cock to ejaculate.


    Gay men are perfectly capable of impregnating women with their sperm. If you dry hump your damn couch good enough you can ejaculate.

    But a gay guy would never want to impregnate a woman through sex, unless he's bi to a degree.


    He could be bi
    He could just want a kid because he can't afford a surrogate
    He could be suppressed and closeted


    Having sex with a woman to an out 100%gay guy would be gross, and too weird to go through for any reason and situation, A gay guy wanting a child wouldn't lead him to go through with having sex with a woman and pounding a vagina, Unless he's bisexual.


    A straight man will fuck a transwomen but does that actually mean they're bi even though they would never fuck a gay man that wants to fuck a straight man?