gudgelcl saidIf you're over 18, and still that stupid faceless torso pic, then...you need to read The Kinsey Studies, and this article.
You're your own worst enemy if you don't like yourself / are ashamed of who you are.
Nothing is a bigger turnoff, than a face-less, that sneaks around thinking it's o.k. to be creepy.
It's not o.k.
Get a face; a handshake; a a full name; and a smile...then...folks will regard you as normal because you are.
The absolute worst thing we can do is to act as enablers to such self destructive behavior. If you're a pictureless, or a faceless, or a no pic...it's your creepy behavior and lack of confidence that's getting you rejected; not your sexuality.
Put your big boy pants on, and lead your life. It's just that very simple.
There is absolutely nothing creepy about a faceless pic. Some of these guys live in states that still don't protect gays and lesbians from discrimination in employment and housing so these guys have to be cautious while on-line. Several more of these guys live in countries that are ignorant and intolerant of gays and lesbians, places like Russia, Iran, Zimbabwe, etc. So don't be so unreasonable in demanding a face pic because in several circumstances it is not a workable or safe alternative. It is o.k. and it is not creepy like you falsely believe. Get off your high horse bunky.
You live in ultra conservative, oppressive Texas where it is perfectly legal to discriminate against gays and lesbians in housing and employment. So how can you be so cold hearted and so stupid, I guess being cold hearted and stupid is a naturally inborn trait of all Texans. Go figure.