Shortage of Tops over 30?

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    Mar 10, 2016 12:57 AM GMT
    I've read in several places that in the over 30 Gay crowd there is a shortage of tops, or alternatively a surplus of bottoms.

    That said,being a top at my age I would expect to have lots of options. Sadly this does not seem to align with my experience.

    Actually,many online websites and apps seem to be exclusively full of tops.

    Do you think these are really Gay men or married "straight" men looking for a fling?

    Any thoughts?
    FloridaRugbyBear
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    Mar 10, 2016 4:17 PM GMT
    I think we need federal legislation to produce outcome equality in this matter. Or, at least an executive order.
  • ASHDOD

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    Mar 10, 2016 5:14 PM GMT
    Well, in Israel, its true.
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    Mar 10, 2016 6:28 PM GMT
    heteroflexible/trysexual = "don't even think about touching my ass" total top
    bisexual = vers, vers/top or top (that enjoys a finger during oral and loves being rimmed)
    gay = proud power bottoms and bottoms in denial.

    if you're financially well-off, I think younger (18-23), rainbow flag-waiving twinks would totally go for your type.
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    Mar 11, 2016 12:58 AM GMT
    There's a shortage of tops and over-abundance of bottoms, regardless of age. I don't see why that's bad news.
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    Mar 11, 2016 1:59 AM GMT
    FloridaRugbyBear saidI've read in several places that in the over 30 Gay crowd there is a shortage of tops, or alternatively a surplus of bottoms.

    That said,being a top at my age I would expect to have lots of options. Sadly this does not seem to align with my experience.

    Actually,many online websites and apps seem to be exclusively full of tops.

    Do you think these are really Gay men or married "straight" men looking for a fling?

    Any thoughts?
    FloridaRugbyBear


    I am interested in Versatile.
    I am also interested in neither Top nor Bottom nor Versatile.

    Tops are naked power plays. They don't love you.
  • bro4bro

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    Mar 11, 2016 2:11 AM GMT
    OP, I usually don't go out of my way to be brutal but there are way too many threads these days from desperate guys like you.

    No, there is not a shortage of tops over 30. There is a shortage of HOT tops. There is a difference.

    You remind me of a str8 guy I knew who was headed to Barcelona and expected to score big with the ladies because "blond hair isn't too common over there". The fact that he was overweight and unattractive, and the ladies he wanted were lean and beautiful, didn't seem to register with him.

    Bottom line (no pun) is that if you want to increase your options, you better have more going for you than a willingness to stick your dick in someone.

    That may sound harsh... but you do understand this is a fitness site, right?
  • cityguy39

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    Mar 11, 2016 2:39 AM GMT
    Believe it or not fellas, I prefer older bottoms versus younger ones!
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Mar 11, 2016 5:10 AM GMT
    DOMINUS saidThere's a shortage of tops and over-abundance of bottoms, regardless of age. I don't see why that's bad news.


    This!!!

    SC
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    Mar 11, 2016 5:32 AM GMT
    Honestly...all of these threads of "shortages of tops", "no bottoms available" blah blah blah... you're all just looking in the wrong fucking place for what you want. There's no shortage of anything, there's no surplus of anything, the only thing that there is that is a grandiose surplus, is the delusional scope that homosexual men on this site have towards life.
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    Mar 11, 2016 6:42 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]StephenOABC said

    Tops are naked power plays. They don't love you.
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    I can confirm this is absolutely true.

    You should cite your sources of this shortage versus surplus.

    I've also become jaded at all the tops our age on apps etc. Ya my ass is retired from active duty.

    Also sperm from men my age hasn't been a necessary goal for about 5-10 years now.

    I never wanted younger men.
    Remember when you were young.

    Coming out at early 20's socialized only with my age group.
    OTHERS DIDN'T SEEM TO EXIST TO ME, AS IT SHOULD BE.
    Leave young men alone to enjoy their own choices not the choices of an experienced manipulative coercive older man that should GROW UP.
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    Mar 11, 2016 6:51 AM GMT
    TO23 saidHonestly...all of these threads of "shortages of tops", "no bottoms available" blah blah blah... you're all just looking in the wrong fucking place for what you want. There's no shortage of anything, there's no surplus of anything, the only thing that there is that is a grandiose surplus, is the delusional scope that homosexual men on this site have towards life.


    THIS
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    Mar 11, 2016 1:08 PM GMT
    CODY4U said

    if you're financially well-off, I think younger (18-23), rainbow flag-waiving twinks would totally go for your type.


    That's witty :-)

    But it'snot really the sort of relationship for which most of us are looking.
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    Mar 11, 2016 1:13 PM GMT
    hairybeau said

    You should cite your sources of this shortage versus surplus.



    https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110318145923AAFKcurl
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    Mar 11, 2016 1:43 PM GMT
    bro4bro saidOP, I usually don't go out of my way to be brutal but there are way too many threads these days from desperate guys like you.

    .....

    Bottom line (no pun) is that if you want to increase your options, you better have more going for you than a willingness to stick your dick in someone.

    That may sound harsh... but you do understand this is a fitness site, right?


    I am here to read and discuss gay issues as well as diet and excercise. Fitnesss isn't just for models and professional athletes.

    The Internet can make people unhappy, and studies have shown that time spent on social media corresponds to increased incidence of depression. People online create unreal profiles that put their best feet forward, but which also make other people feel bad about themselves when the compare their actual lives againts heavily photoshoped pictures and Madison avenue style written profiles. Discussing real situations, issues, and realistic depictions is constructive and socially responsible since other people can relate and not feel bad about themselves.

    I am not desperate and I have a rather busy and rich personal as well as a great career. I'm just not sharing everything with strangers on the Internet.

    Sorry if this thread offends,
    FloridaRugbyBear

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    Mar 11, 2016 1:54 PM GMT
    robbaker saidno there's no shortage of tops over 30 it's just that most tops over 30 have age limit they prefer deflowering boys between the ages of 18-28 even top men in relationships prefer banging boys but they settle down with their older partner whether he's a top or bottom. I'ts a youth thing most older top men are trying to recapture their youth with these young boys showing off in front of their collegues pretending to be something they're noticon_rolleyes.gif you gays created this ageist messicon_rolleyes.gif


    I think this may be more true of people online.

    While younger people tend to be thinner and have better hair, personally I really don't like spending my free time around people under 25, and that number is creeping up as I age. Their tastes in books, music, etc. and their extreamist political views just don't mesh with mine.
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    Mar 11, 2016 2:03 PM GMT
    robbaker saidThis is full of disgusting crap ! Most gay men are defined by their sexualityicon_rolleyes.gif

    Spoken like someone who does not know most gay men.
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    Mar 11, 2016 3:09 PM GMT
    FloridaRugbyBear saidI've read in several places that in the over 30 Gay crowd there is a shortage of tops, or alternatively a surplus of bottoms.

    That said,being a top at my age I would expect to have lots of options. Sadly this does not seem to align with my experience.

    Actually,many online websites and apps seem to be exclusively full of tops.

    Do you think these are really Gay men or married "straight" men looking for a fling?

    Any thoughts?
    FloridaRugbyBear
    [b]BOLD TEXT GOES HERE[/b]

    Thought I said this, my experience is that apps and alot of sites are set up for sex and not relationships. These attract bisexual married men wanting a secret regular fling.
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    Mar 11, 2016 3:41 PM GMT
    robbaker saidThis is full of disgusting crap ! Most gay men are defined by their sexualityicon_rolleyes.gif


    Are you legit insane? Most of what you spout is complete bullshit.
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    Mar 11, 2016 10:36 PM GMT
    Sorry but are we in the same conversation?

    I asked about men over 30 specifically why it seems difficult to find bottoms over 30 even though lots of people say they are the majority.

    How does that translate into Gay senior cititizen hitting on or using and then dumping college aged men?
  • roadbikeRob

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    Mar 11, 2016 11:42 PM GMT
    robbaker saidThis is full of disgusting crap ! Most gay men are defined by their sexualityicon_rolleyes.gif
    Well you are defined by your utter stupidity.icon_mad.gif
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    Mar 12, 2016 12:20 AM GMT
    I thought the number in the thread title was referring to centimeters.
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    Mar 12, 2016 2:17 AM GMT
    League problems > too many bottom problems

    People confuse the two too often, like bro4bro explained.

    I never experienced shortage of tops in my life.
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    Mar 12, 2016 2:18 AM GMT
    Are you really 39, OP?
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    Mar 12, 2016 1:43 PM GMT
    bachian saidAre you really 39, OP?


    Wow it's all ad hominim on here.

    I am not offended but I take that to mean that you think I look older?

    I have not misrepresented myself.

    What do you think a 39 year old diabetic who works 70 plus hours a week in a stressful, sedentary job looks like?