Mar 22, 2016 8:12 PM GMT
I'm a virgin gay man, hoping to bottom for the first time pretty soon. But the thought of things getting "messy" during it really has me worried. I bought a pretty big dildo to try and get myself ready/prep for the real thing. It felt amazing, but every time I pulled it out, there was at least a little bit of shit on it. Sometimes a fairly decent amount. It was kinda gross but didn't bother me too much. But if I were with a guy and that happened, I would be absolutely mortified and he would probably be grossed out by it. I have a fairly regular diet and pretty regular bowel movements. So I'm not sure what the issue is. I know it's normal to have a little poo here and there during anal, but there was quite a lot at times and it made me uncomfortable. Tips on how to get this to not happen??