Jock Strap Night at Bar

  • helloandgoodb...

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    Mar 29, 2016 12:08 PM GMT
    I'm thinking of checkout out a bar for my first "jock night". Any tips? suggestions? I'm trying to push myself and try new things, but the fear of the unknown always gets me...
  • Destinharbor

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    Mar 29, 2016 4:34 PM GMT
    Spend an hour at the gym before going... Just think of it as a costume party and you'll be fine.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Mar 29, 2016 5:21 PM GMT
    helloandgoodbi saidI'm thinking of checkout out a bar for my first "jock night". Any tips? suggestions? I'm trying to push myself and try new things, but the fear of the unknown always gets me...

    What have you got to lose? Entrance/cover fee and the transportation cost?

    If you like it, well, enjoy, stay safe and have fun.

    If you don't? Move on and write it off as something that you wanted to do...

  • SilverRRCloud

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    Mar 29, 2016 8:01 PM GMT
    The bar/club you are going probably has some sort of basic protocol that they have posted on their website.

    Usually, if it is Jocks Night Only, they will want all the people who enter after a specific time to be wearing jocks only (or be fully naked?). They also may want to insist that you may wear only flip-flops or only white/black sneakers.

    They may also want to ban flashing any phone lights, etc., perfumes, etc.

    So, it only makes sense to go their web page and see what is it that they claim is their protocol for the night, and show up accordingly.

    Do not take any valuables with you. Make sure that they provide condoms and lube and/or take some with you.

    Be prepared that some clubs tend to be too picky over their protocols. Rules are fine in my books, but hairsplitting ain't.

    I was wearing a light black leather aviator jacket with no fur inset or anything at one of the regular nights at one of the popular SoMa clubs, only to be told at the gate that they only wanted the folks to have one layer of clothes on them? Sure, more power to them.

    I just walked over to the next club where the guys at the gate were happy to see me, and give me a free entrance, too. So, respect the rules, but do not let them go over the top either.

  • GoodPup

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    Aug 26, 2016 7:16 AM GMT
    I assume by now you've done it. How was it? About a month ago I did it for the first time... it was, anticlimactic. Like I thought the reveal would have people staring and me uncomfortable and it was like, normal. And then on some corner I saw guys fully naked having sex and realized even though I was feeling nervous about being practically naked it was just another guy at the bar in the dress code.
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    Aug 26, 2016 12:54 PM GMT
    Would recommend Nasty Pig jockstraps icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
  • GoodPup

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    Aug 28, 2016 2:25 AM GMT
    Nasty Pig... just personal preference? Or better for a bar night for another reason?
  • Ekho

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    Aug 28, 2016 3:02 AM GMT
    there's slot of people u don't want touching you at a bar or club an being scantly clad at a gay bar in such a way is asking for random people to be touching you or at least don't be surprised if that does happen.
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    Aug 28, 2016 12:06 PM GMT
    Late, but make sure you have something to hold your money. Get a wrist wallet or wear socks long enough to shove it in there.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Aug 30, 2016 12:22 PM GMT
    Thanks for all the encouragement. Sorry I never followed up with a here it is:

    I got there a a little after midnight. I was soooo nervous and excited. I took the advice above to work out first, so I felt pumped. I picked my favorite strap to show off. I walk it and it is...lame. The place is dead. Of the people there, no one is in their jocks. There area a couple old guys making out in the corner and some really overweight guys lurking. A pair of guys playing pool. That's it. I'm ready to bolt. Bartender tells me how "this place will be hopping at 1am". I do not really believe him, but I have nothing to lose. I have a drink and try to relax. I chat with the bartender. One guy approaches me. He seems cool at first but clearly trashed and desperate so it fizzles. By then, it's a little busier and a hot guy has settled in on the other side of me, a few stools away. When I look in his direction he smiles. We chat about how lame it is and how I can not believe no one is wearing a jock.

    He says he is just waiting for someone else to strip first. We agree to both do it. We place our clothes in a bag that the bartender takes. I leave on my boots and slip my wallet into my sock. I start to feel comfortable pretty quickly. He laughs at me about how nervous I was when it's "more clothes than a locker room". He is wearing sexy neon underwear with the ass crack revealed. Looks amazing, but I tease him about it not really being a jock strap. I am glad there is an attraction to personality as well as looks. My new friend looks even better without clothes so we make a pretty hot pair. Looking around, I can see that we have captured attention in the room and a couple other guys strip down too. We chat more and eventually make out a little at the bar.

    He says "lets dance". So we go out on the dance floor. We are the only ones there but and it's very hot watching each other move and knowing we are being watched. We dance close and can feel each other's hard-ons growing. A couple guys grope us on the dance floor but I don't mind it.

    By now, it's busier but still quiet. Maybe 8-10 guys in jocks and it's almost like a neighborhood casual bar feel. We go in the corner and make out a little more. Play with each other. We get a taste of each other's cocks in the bathroom. He's bigger than he looks in the jock and our time in the bathroom seals the deal. I took an uber to get to the bar and he has a car, so he drives me back to my hotel for a great night of naked fun. The details of that make it a porn story, but my night at the jock bar taught me that good things come to those who push their comfort zone. such a unique and fun night. Thanks for the encouragement everyone. I will do it again.
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    Aug 30, 2016 1:28 PM GMT
    To the OP: my experiences with jock and also underwear nights have been the same regarding them being slow at first in most clubs. Oddly enough I found the least shy & reluctant groups were in the Upper Midwest.

    But then these were the same places where you'd see all the men, straight & gay, more relaxed and casual about nudity in the gym. No problem with open gang showers, nude hot tubs, saunas and steam rooms, no towel dances in the locker room.

    So it didn't surprise me that the gay guys tended to more readily strip down in a gay club in those States. But then you're still wearing a jock or underwear, not like you're totally naked. You often wear little more in public at a beach or pool with a swimsuit, except for your bare ass in a jock, of course.

    It just FEELS strange to be in a different environment dressed that way. But I always rationalize that I'd be naked alongside these same guys in a locker room, this just has the added features of drinks and a DJ. LOL!

    Glad you had a great night. For a first-timer sounds like you showed the other guys how it's done. And scored with a take-home, as well. Can't do better than that. Congrats!
  • PghTom

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    Sep 13, 2016 1:25 PM GMT
    Absolutely. The older and more worn the jock the better.