Sorry, how old are you? (profile pic accuracy)

  • Wendigo9

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    Apr 03, 2016 4:58 AM GMT
    I've met a few guys on here, they seem really nice and all, but some of them have the same problem. . . their picture! Please tell me I'm not the only guy on here who actually looks like (and updates) their profile pic, anyone else tired of guys who don't match it in person?
  • Allen

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    Apr 03, 2016 5:11 AM GMT
    For me, what you see is what you get (wagging tail!)
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    Apr 03, 2016 1:45 PM GMT
    So meet on a non sexual level in a public place before deciding you're going to click.
  • Wendigo9

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    Apr 03, 2016 1:59 PM GMT
    Allen saidFor me, what you see is what you get (wagging tail!)

    Camilla, you dog, lol
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    Apr 03, 2016 5:13 PM GMT
    I think it's hilarious how most of the old guys on here have at least one pic from their younger years to try and prove they were semi-hot once upon a time. icon_lol.gif

  • Ariodante83

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    Apr 03, 2016 5:20 PM GMT
    Some guys don't perceive they change so they think several years-old pictures still accurately depict them. Or you have guys who killed themselves to be competition-ready, had a photoshoot 3 days out, and forever used those as their pics icon_lol.gif

    Personally I keep my pics updated. I've met guys who clearly don't, however I've met some really great guys who just happened to not keep their pics updated. Like, several. Hell the last guy I met (who I'm seeing again next week) looked nothing like his pics because he looked so much hotter in person. It was like wow, thanks for being really un-photogenic! I don't meet anyone just based on physical perception though. If I'm meeting someone it's because there was a clear-cut personality based connection.
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    Apr 03, 2016 6:43 PM GMT
    speaking of profile pic accuracy, some of us do look younger, or much younger than our age.
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    Apr 04, 2016 12:42 AM GMT
    <-- I'm a sign.

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    <--- Immah black rabbit. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 04, 2016 12:53 AM GMT
    Wendigo9 saidI've met a few guys on here, they seem really nice and all, but some of them have the same problem. . . their picture! Please tell me I'm not the only guy on here who actually looks like (and updates) their profile pic, anyone else tired of guys who don't match it in person?


    ....and about those 19" arms on your profile!

    LOL

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  • Ariodante83

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    Apr 04, 2016 12:56 AM GMT
    timmm55 said
    ....and about those 19" arms on your profile!



    lol busted
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    Apr 04, 2016 12:59 AM GMT
    CODY4U saidI think it's hilarious how most of the old guys on here have at least one pic from their younger years to try and prove they were semi-hot once upon a time. icon_lol.gif



    For you it was downhill after 18. For others they are sexy at whatever age they, especially now.

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    I feel good about my progression. I'm happier now than at 27. Everyone is "hot" or "cute' at 25. It's a concerted effort as you get older, but a worthwhile one.
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    Apr 04, 2016 1:51 AM GMT
    [quote]

    I feel good about my progression. I'm happier now than at 27. Everyone is "hot" or "cute' at 25. It's a concerted effort as you get older, but a worthwhile one. [/quote]

    Nah. I've been messaged by very...veerrryy unattractive twentysomething guys on Grindr that I hadn't noticed so they can tell me I'm an "old fuck".

    But I agree that your efforts at the gym have paid off.
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    Apr 04, 2016 1:51 AM GMT
    CODY4U saidI think it's hilarious how most of the old guys on here have at least one pic from their younger years to try and prove they were semi-hot once upon a time. icon_lol.gif

    Yeah, I was one hot sperm cell.
  • Ariodante83

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    Apr 04, 2016 3:15 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Yeah, I was one hot sperm cell.


    Though contextually cooler than the rest of your body, as the position of the testicles away from the body is biologically designed to keep sperm at a lower temperature.
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    Apr 04, 2016 3:19 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    CODY4U saidI think it's hilarious how most of the old guys on here have at least one pic from their younger years to try and prove they were semi-hot once upon a time. icon_lol.gif

    Yeah, I was one hot sperm cell.

    And as you've probably already guessed, the other sperm cells were quite envious of my big tail.
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    Apr 04, 2016 3:31 AM GMT
    Dunno... Sometimes I perceive some great advancement in my physique and waste time finding some good light and taking a bunch of new pics. Then I load them up on the computer... Well shit. They look just like the old one. icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 04, 2016 3:37 AM GMT
    Yea I just put the month & year the pic was taken in the description
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    Apr 04, 2016 11:28 AM GMT
    I met a guy once who clearly had the photos from his profile taken a few years and several pounds ago. He was still sexy but it did take the shine off the encounter and although we had sex I didn't see him again!

    I think if you're intending to meet someone in real life, you have an obligation to use recent photos, by recent taken in the past couple of months max.
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    Apr 04, 2016 1:51 PM GMT
    timmm55 said
    CODY4U saidI think it's hilarious how most of the old guys on here have at least one pic from their younger years to try and prove they were semi-hot once upon a time. icon_lol.gif



    For you it was downhill after 18. For others they are sexy at whatever age they, especially now.

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    I feel good about my progression. I'm happier now than at 27. Everyone is "hot" or "cute' at 25. It's a concerted effort as you get older, but a worthwhile one.


    Which one is the "sexy" you, Timmy?
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    Apr 04, 2016 2:01 PM GMT
    realjock
    has more than its fare share of headless pics. What ever to be gained by this, the bad it promotes a culture of just not telling the truth bout how you are, what you look like.

    there are lots of interWeb options and the concept of a free forum for gay men is an old internet model. Mostly a senior crowd here outside of the fitness threads.

    My main pic is not a face pic but the 2nd pic is what me and my husband look like shopping at Argonaut Liquor Denver. Good or bad the pic matches what we look like today. Than again I am not looking but to me its extra nice to know who I am responding to is a real individual. Dosnt post for a professional organization, not on staff for an off shore underwear company, DNC, GOP...





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    Apr 04, 2016 2:12 PM GMT
    pellaz saidrealjock has more than its fare share of headless pics. What ever to be gained by this, the bad it promotes a culture of just not telling the truth bout how you are, what you look like.


    Very judgmental. I can't really tell what you look like by the picture of you kissing the other guy. There isn't even any indication of which one is you. icon_confused.gif
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    Apr 04, 2016 2:40 PM GMT
    we are one
    break it down for you; there is my husband on the left, me on the right. Outside of work we are ALWAYS together by choice. I would miss my husband if we drove separate cars. We are never apart, not a perfect world but just works for us.

    We are married, own property, band accounts, cars and have a household. Our relationship is no less important than the one our parents had have. Maybe dosnt work for most people, just an option these days you have and it works for us. Go figure.

    cheers.
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    Apr 04, 2016 5:27 PM GMT
    pellaz saidwe are one
    break it down for you; there is my husband on the left, me on the right. Outside of work we are ALWAYS together by choice. I would miss my husband if we drove separate cars. We are never apart, not a perfect world but just works for us.

    We are married, own property, band accounts, cars and have a household. Our relationship is no less important than the one our parents had have. Maybe dosnt work for most people, just an option these days you have and it works for us. Go figure.

    cheers.


    Didn't even ask all that. Your profile and pic of you hiding your face by kissing someone else really doesn't tell the truth about who you are or what you look like either. There are "headless" profiles on here that are actually much less vague than yours. You're not really in a position to judge.

    Cheers.
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    Apr 04, 2016 6:34 PM GMT
    ok you winicon_rolleyes.gif