Small Penis

  • umutlarim

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    Apr 04, 2016 9:08 PM GMT
    Hi!
    I am 18.I am versalite gay.But I am virgin.My country is so closed about LGBTI.So LGBTI people usually don't say I am LGBTI.
    I will change country, I hope. But after 4 years :/ icon_biggrin.gif Because I am in university.

    I am man of love.I think sexuality is tasteful but first priority love, I said.

    And I have a problem.important or not important ı dont know. but important for me.

    I said, I am versalite.I havent got taboo.I can bottom, no problem.I can top, no problem for me!Because I have only 11 cm penis icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif

    I feel insufficient.Please do not mock.I am searching surgery. I went urologie doctor.He said; you havent fot problem, it is enough, all women have not big vagina!! He think I am heterosexsual icon_biggrin.gif

    If I will find a boyfriend, he will leave me? Or Example You are my boyfriend.You leave? and 11 cm is not enough for anal?

    Please dont say; you should be always bottom etc. I am really serious and I need help. Thank you for all and sorry for my english.

    Finally, please use simple english icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 04, 2016 9:25 PM GMT
    11 cm (about 4.5 inches in the US) is not very small.
  • umutlarim

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    Apr 04, 2016 9:35 PM GMT
    really small, look porn video icon_sad.gif and on the net all men have 15+ cm penis.
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    Apr 04, 2016 9:41 PM GMT
    Nah, 5 inches, 12.5 cm is about the norm. Those few centimeters aren't going to make a big difference. If a guy likes you he'll still like you regardless of those few centimeters you think you're missing.
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    Apr 04, 2016 9:43 PM GMT
    I too am a man of love. Love trumps everything for me, especially penis size. If you were my boyfriend and we loved each and connected on a higher plane I would not leave you just because of your penis size.

    Does this mean you will not run across guys who are penis size obsessed? Of course not. Do not let that negatively affect your self worth. You are more than a penis.

    If you remain a member of this site you will quickly learn how difficult it is to find gay men of decent character - liars, players, cheaters abound in the gay community. Be a gay man of good character - loving, faithful, honest and there will be many guys looking to have you as a boyfriend, partner, husband who will not care about your cock size.
  • umutlarim

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    Apr 04, 2016 9:57 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal, thank you so much.

    UndercoverMan, you are right.But I think gay men usually only think sex. Love, life are not important their.

    And I am from Turkey.and sexuality is taboo in here.LGBTI are
    Unacceptable.So people usually so hungry! It is really bad.No love no romantizm.

    Here, ıf you are top; you are not gay, you are fucker.
    ıf you are bottom; you are gay, you are fagot.

    This impressed me very much.I'm fighting with myself.I said, I am virgin.Example; in dream I am top, no problem. but in dream I am bottom, I feel same the shit! It is so bad for me.


    I want to leave here.If I will find surgery, really I can.Porn and ethernet are so effective in psychology.

    This gives me a lot of pain but it hurts me too .
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    Apr 04, 2016 10:03 PM GMT
    Stop watching porn. As you already know it is fucking with your head. Porn is fantasy. Part of that fantasy is big dicks. Know why? Because very few men are running around with ten inch cocks. That's why it is fantasy.
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    Apr 04, 2016 10:13 PM GMT
    Do not use porn as a measurement of men's normal penis size. Those men are picked to be in porn because they are well endowed, most of them. If you want to see the "norm" size, you can look for video of those hidden cam locker room stuff.
    There are these videos, illegally, capturing male college wrestlers in mid 1990s, they're nude. they re there on internet. Google them.
    It's quite pervy and creepy, but maybe it will do you some good. You will see that those men, all hunky and fit, and almost like 80% of them have very average size penises. Granted they're all flaccid. And 's totally fine.
    Your size is not very small. Do not sweat it. There are things that you can improve instead of surgery. Your character, your career, your body (work out and gain muscle would be good), your skin. There are lots of things that you can do to make yourself desirable.
    Even maybe you can learn how to be good at sex. Anal intercourse is not the only available option for gay men. You can learn those tricks from porn too. icon_cool.gif
    Good luck.
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    Apr 04, 2016 11:34 PM GMT
    1. You are not "very small." You might be just smaller than average, world wide. Does it not get bigger when it gets hard? Try looking at the Greek statues - or Michalengelo's - (for example, The David). None of them have really large penises, and these men were supposed to be the ideal.

    2. As long as it gets hard, you can fuck.

    3. As someone else said, guys in porn films are chosen just because they have much bigger than average penises. Don't compare yourself to those men.

    4. Most men won't care how big your penis is, as long as it works. There are some gay men who will have sex only with guys with very large penises (in America, we call them "size queens.")- So those guys are not for you.

    5. What you have is what you will always have - There is no surgery that can make it bigger - and trying it could mess up your life forever.

    7. Will a boyfriend leave you? Quite possibly - most relationships do not last forever. But he won't be leaving you because you have a small penis. It will because you no longer "get along" with each other, or because he has fallen in love with someone else.

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    Apr 05, 2016 1:03 AM GMT
    I always thought porn penises are generally pretty average-sized. They always say "7 inches", but look closer to 6"
  • Allen

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    Apr 05, 2016 6:17 AM GMT
    Ronar2 saidDo not use porn as a measurement of men's normal penis size. Those men are picked to be in porn because they are well endowed, most of them. If you want to see the "norm" size, you can look for video of those hidden cam locker room stuff.
    There are these videos, illegally, capturing male college wrestlers in mid 1990s, they're nude. they re there on internet. Google them.
    It's quite pervy and creepy, but maybe it will do you some good. You will see that those men, all hunky and fit, and almost like 80% of them have very average size penises. Granted they're all flaccid. And 's totally fine.
    Your size is not very small. Do not sweat it. There are things that you can improve instead of surgery. Your character, your career, your body (work out and gain muscle would be good), your skin. There are lots of things that you can do to make yourself desirable.
    Even maybe you can learn how to be good at sex. Anal intercourse is not the only available option for gay men. You can learn those tricks from porn too. icon_cool.gif
    Good luck.


    Absolutely this ^. And you're being way too hard on yourself. You are fine. Will some guys reject you because you're not endowed enough? Sure. But plan on getting rejected by guys for a lot of different reasons -- too short, too heavy, too skinny. too something that is important to them. Don't sweat it. You'll find plenty of guys to date (and fuck) who won't give a second thought to your cock size.
  • umutlarim

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    Apr 05, 2016 8:42 AM GMT
    Sorry, I was sleeping.

    UndercoverMan, You are right, I should stop it.

    Ronar2, Thank you for reply.Correct what you said.Personality is than important.But nowadays, people think only sex.Good luck too, icon_lol.gif


    HikerSkier, Thank you!! You writed trues.I agree with you.
    I hope he will not fall in love with someone else; non- darling. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

    Hentailover, jaja yes.They are lier icon_cool.gif


    Allen, icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif thank you! Criterions change.I am fine!! lolicon_twisted.gif


    Thanks again to all of you...
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    Apr 05, 2016 12:57 PM GMT
    Well, here's a dose of reality: many, but not all, gay men love big dicks. Why? Because men, in general, are visual and tactile. As men, we like to see and feel big things. Straight men in general like big boobs; gay men in general like big cocks. Also, many of us are superficial. That aside, there are gay men who look beyond the size of one's penis. Pray that you meet those. Truth be told, however, you're more likely to be successful finding a "top" who doesn't care about dick size than finding a similar "bottom".
  • umutlarim

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    Apr 05, 2016 3:50 PM GMT
    Dominus, you want say you should be only bottom?
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    Apr 05, 2016 4:47 PM GMT
    Don't worry about your penis size if you are looking for love .
    Your personality , your kindness , your loyalty are what counts , a penis is a penis , they are all different , size doesn't make them better or worse .
  • umutlarim

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    Apr 05, 2016 5:23 PM GMT
    THANK YOU neffa!
  • Edepic

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    Apr 05, 2016 10:56 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidI too am a man of love. Love trumps everything for me, especially penis size. If you were my boyfriend and we loved each and connected on a higher plane I would not leave you just because of your penis size.

    Does this mean you will not run across guys who are penis size obsessed? Of course not. Do not let that negatively affect your self worth. You are more than a penis.

    If you remain a member of this site you will quickly learn how difficult it is to find gay men of decent character - liars, players, cheaters abound in the gay community. Be a gay man of good character - loving, faithful, honest and there will be many guys looking to have you as a boyfriend, partner, husband who will not care about your cock size.


    There is much wisdom in this quote.
    All small boys want their penis to grow. The bigger the better. The cock becomes an erotic object that symbolizes masculinity , gratification and power. Of course, the reality, proven by experience, gives the lie to this childish belief. Many big cocked men have the opposite traits to those attributed to them.
    The size of the pen does not determine the power of its message.
  • Wendigo9

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    Apr 13, 2016 9:37 AM GMT
    Not me, just came here to laugh at the teenie weenie club, lmao. Friends and users I've unlocked to know I'm a legit 7in thick, though consider myself average in this day and age.
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    Apr 13, 2016 10:33 PM GMT
    A dick is a dick. You get one, no exchanges, no refunds. Love it and love with it. Yours looks small because you're looking down to see it. The effect is called foreshortening. He will be looking across to see yours. It will look bigger to him than it looks to you.
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    Apr 13, 2016 11:00 PM GMT
    jimib saidA dick is a dick. You get one, no exchanges, no refunds. Love it and love with it. Yours looks small because you're looking down to see it. The effect is called foreshortening. He will be looking across to see yours. It will look bigger to him than it looks to you.

    Good reply! I agree!

    And I myself like a smaller penis. I may be in the minority, but I do.

    I call them "bite-size" in US American terms. I can do a lot more with a small one in my mouth than with a giant "jaw breaker".

    Plus a small one goes up my ass a lot easier than a monster cock, and pleasures me a lot better. No, give me a smaller cock any time, as long as it's hard.

    No, scratch that, I've got a husband now (SB alert). And I don't need to look further than our bed. icon_biggrin.gif

    But do consider the smaller guys, often overlooked with this size craze. It was Benjamin Franklin who wrote that young men should consider having sex with older women, because they're "ever so grateful".

    Maybe that same advice would transfer to the gay world with the little dick guys. Do consider it.
  • takashi

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    Apr 16, 2016 7:12 PM GMT
    I am a bottom and I have had 'small' and 'large' penises come in me and usually I enjoy them all! But one time I was with two men and one man had a relatively long penis but kinda soft, half erect, no matter how much I sucked him he would not get any harder(could be he just was not turned on). We shared our bodies and it was nice. Then another man with a much smaller penis shared his body. I was at first kinda disappointed with the size but as I sucked him I noticed he was rock hard, really like a piece of wood! And when he entered me Oh my gosh! It was amazing!! So I will take hardness above size!
    You are what you are, if you find someone that appreciates you, you will be happy. Just because you are large does not make you a happy person. We all are looking for something, it really never ends.
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    Apr 28, 2016 6:01 PM GMT
    Believe it or not but there are guys (like me) that are not turned on by a huge penis. I prefer a smaller penis size (U.S. 6 inches or less) You sound perfect for me! I know I can not be the only person in the world that prefers a "smaller" penis if you will. Sooner or later you will find someone that appreciates you and will love you for WHO you are and will not worry about your size.
  • BambiBoy98

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    Aug 03, 2016 4:19 PM GMT
    Size doesn't really matter to me. I'd prefer to be able to walk the next day.icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 03, 2016 6:09 PM GMT
    a bottom who loves you won't care, He thinks like a girl, and just wants you to be his man. a grindr bottom / thot might choose to seek a larger cock to fill his holes.

    most guys seem to be bottoms, so the fact that you have an obvious desire to top trumps your cock size in this demographic.

    so don't worry I have faith u will get plenty of ass in ur life bro.
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    Aug 03, 2016 6:41 PM GMT
    Also, are you sure it is 11cm bone pressed?

    how to measurePosition the ruler or measuring tape at the base of your penis (where it attaches to your body - make sure to press into the pubic bone as far as you can because fat can actually hide the length of your penis). Measure your penis length by marking how long it is from the base, all the way to the end of the tip.


    Bone pressed measurements indicates exactly how deep you have the potential of going depending on the position, such as when someone is riding you and they are pressing into your pubic bone.