this 18 year old.....

  • KM_AIR01

    Posts: 1

    Apr 15, 2016 6:47 AM GMT
    Hi everyone, this is my first time posting on this forum and I need some serious help regarding me having a crush on this real ly cute 18 year old that started working on my job 2 months ago, if you want to have an idea of what he looks like (I won't post pics because of privacy) he looks like he just blend in with one of One Direction members, or Justin Beiber, so yeah he has that look, he is from Italy and just moved to USA 6 months ago, he has a real cute accent and is eager to learn english as well; I am 8 years older than him.....

    Long story short, I don't work directly besides him throughout my shift but when the main supervisor is off duty or off property (we work in a condo btw) I go to his section just to hang out, and that's how it all started, the more I talk to him the more my crush gets bigger on him, he has this crazy green eyes that you can just get lost in them...the crazy part is that In the past I have had crushes on boys like that but I know from the get go they are straight, we hang out and talk but does not go anything beyond that. Now with this teen, recently he is always talking about Tinder app and since he is under the impression that im straight (which everyone in my job is under the impression too) and he comments on all the girls he hits on or he is currently talking too, he even seeks advise from him, and as of recently, whenever we are hella board and there's little activity going on in the condo, we start horse playing sometimes, meaning, he jumps in my back, I grab him by the neck and do a headlock or he starts to grab my nipples and squishes it, in all its fun, but until yesterday, after we stopped playing, he was telling me that he got very horny from looking at girls going swimming at the beach, 5 mins later he asked me If I wanted a kiss, I replied just with a laugh and left his area like an idiot because I don't know if he was trolling me or he was serious (he likes to joke a lot) but I'm like omg! what should I do? we also text each other very often and he talks about sex a lot (like any other horny teenager).

    should I pursuit this ? Im confused
  • Allen

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    Apr 15, 2016 8:39 AM GMT
    For now, keep playing it cool. Don't do or say anything to discourage him. As you guys continue to spend more time together, you'll become more comfortable with one another, and he'll make his intentions (if there are any) clearer. Once he's done that, or at least given you some stronger indication, then you can act on it. Just don't act too soon.

    You know, you're pretty fucking hot! Woof!
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    Apr 15, 2016 3:31 PM GMT
    It might be bi .
    Play safe , be his mate , horse around with him as you have done until now , and copy what he is doing to you . It might be just curious and experimenting , because he trusts you .
  • veenx0704

    Posts: 3

    May 13, 2016 5:14 AM GMT
    He might be gay.
    Just listening to your story, he sounds like he is gay and into

    Ask him like "what do u think about gay people"...and
    tell him that u have a big crush on him.
    Italian are nice people,don't be scared! Don't wait until it's too late.