zelon1 saidSince breaking up with my (now ex) boyfriend I've been in state of eternal sadness. Realizing that I will probably never find another guy that will be attracted to me. Truth is I'm a dark-skinned black man (I love my blackness, don't get me wrong) so I'm not particularly the ideal dating partner in the gay community, I'm at the very bottom. On apps like grindr and jack'd I get zero replies from black, white, Asian, Latino or whatever guys. I'm surprised my ex was even attracted to me but I guess he realized how ugly I am which is why he dumped me a week after valentines's day.
DUDE, NO ONE CAN LOVE YOU IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF. TRUE ENOUGH A LOT HAS TO DO PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS! !!! MOST OF US HAVE SOME INSECURITIES . I MAKE AN EFFORT AT MY APPEARANCE, BUT VERY COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN, NO PUN INTENDED . YES, PREFERENCES EXIST HOWEVER IT'S 2016 AND SURELY YOU AREN'T BEING SYSTEMATICALLY OPPRESSED BY EVERY GAY GUY ON THE PLANET!!! IN CASE YOU HAVEN'T HEARD IN SOME CIRCLES DARK IS IN!!! DUDE YOUR YOUNG STOP LOOKING AT WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE AND WHAT YOU DO. CHECK OUT THE LIVES OF PEOPLE IN OTHER COUNTRIES THAT DON'T HAVE TIME TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE AND WHO LIKES THEM (NO FOOD, SHELTER, ARMS ,LEGS EYES ,COUNTRY ) TRY WORKING OUT A LITTLE AND DOING THE BEST YOU CAN . I'M NOT A DOC, BUT IT'S SOMEWHAT SAFE TO SAY TO DON'T BELONG ON GRINDR (LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES ).DUDE SEEK OUT SOME HELP,ESPECIALLY TALK THERAPY MORE SO THAN PILLS. CHECK COLLEGE'S IN YOUR AREA FOR TRAINING COUNSELORS .BEST WISHES