What is your impression of a guy who sends a pic of his dick or another person's dick in his ass?

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    Apr 16, 2016 8:51 AM GMT
    ...assuming you're meeting and discussion dating or a relationship with someone and hooking up isn't the main cause of action.

    This seems to be a popular way for some guys to say they want to have sex with you. I mean, what the fuck? You tell me you want to fuck me by sending me a pic of someone you're fucking/getting fucked by? What is up with dudes these days. Or is this the iPhone era and sending that pic is simply a demonstration of their skills and desires for you?
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    Apr 16, 2016 12:58 PM GMT
    I welcome dirty pics. Sometimes I use them to make papier-mâché.
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    Apr 16, 2016 1:55 PM GMT
    it means you have a disconnect in your mind between your desire to hookup and or a relationship/marriage. This disconnect has caused you to not make your self clear.

    Separate the two and your internet dating experience will clarify.

    otherwise go with what you have:
    if you find a trick that looks like dating material ask him what would stop you two. Usually its along the lines he is in a relationship, not your type, in town on business, has a 24/7 work project just now...
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    Apr 16, 2016 6:00 PM GMT
    tacky as fuck.
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    Apr 16, 2016 6:23 PM GMT
    What?! You mean everyone doesn't do this?
  • BloodFlame

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    Apr 16, 2016 10:14 PM GMT
    Complete turnoff. I've gotten 3 of these on my OKCupid profile and they were unwarranted which makes it more annoying.

    I don't care much about size anyway so it does nothing for and I find it to be in very bad taste if they seriously think that's all it takes to strike interest. I don't bother responding to them.

  • Fireworkz

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    Apr 16, 2016 10:18 PM GMT
    Complete turn off.
    Naked pics are one thing.
    The fact that you would take a photo of you having sex and then share it unsolicited makes me wonder what kind of person you are.
  • Aldente

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    Apr 17, 2016 6:19 AM GMT
    Hot if I'm looking for hook ups, not if I'm seeking for a serious relationship!
  • venue35

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    Apr 17, 2016 2:05 PM GMT
    It's kind of trashy i think and screams "no strings attached".
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    Apr 17, 2016 2:23 PM GMT
    Uh I guess if you are specifically looking for a hook up otherwise it's a complete turn off
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Apr 21, 2016 5:17 PM GMT
    Both common sense and basic courtesy dictate that you do not send too graphic pix unsolicited.

    If the two dudes are talking, they do have means of asking for the pix of the tools in action if you will. To some guys, this matters a lot, and if they need to see it first, that's fine, too.

    But taking self-initiative here is not...


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    Apr 22, 2016 9:43 AM GMT
    Even for just a hook-up that is really off-putting. OK, you assume that the guy must have had sex before but you don't need to actually see it. It would be a huge turn off.
  • mcbrion

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    Apr 22, 2016 6:38 PM GMT
    pellaz saidit means you have a disconnect in your mind between your desire to hookup and or a relationship/marriage. This disconnect has caused you to not make your self clear.

    Separate the two and your internet dating experience will clarify.



    AMEN. It may also mean he can't separate Lovingness from Desire. If what you are talking about is Dating, Love, and Relationships, he's shown himself as someone who doesn't know the difference. He's gone immediately into sex, which means, for him, the basis for a relationship is sex. Sure, sex is important if you're both sexually charged guys, but that's something you discuss. And secondly, a photo of someone else's dick in someone else's ass?!?!? That is already speaking volumes to you just by what you say in your post. CLEARLY, he has no idea of how to to go about establishing a dating relationship or even how to court someone (yeah, real old fashioned word, guys), which, in my book (and I speak only for me), means his emotional abilities and emotional depth are pretty underdeveloped. I'd politely say, 'I don't think we're on the same page with this at all.'
  • Apparition

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    Apr 25, 2016 4:31 AM GMT
    I dont like surprises i want to see it
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    Apr 25, 2016 4:41 AM GMT
    Apparition saidI don't like surprises I want to see it.

    Even the dick in his ass? Well, I suppose it's nice to know if he's really loose.
  • cgr1

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    May 05, 2016 8:11 PM GMT
    Personally, I prefer to see the head of the man, with possibly the rest of the body.
    Certainly in many gay websites, in profile, there is provided a place to indicate if you are top, bottom, or versatile, both oral and anal.

    By cons, those who put pictures of their dicks or their asses with cock in it or not, want to confirm by pics, they really are top or bottom.

    In my case if I was putting such pictures, I would be uncomfortable, because I think I would say that I could have relations regardless of the partner. Only his ass or his cock would be important.

    I have no problem showing me naked in photos when they show me as everyone can see me when I am in a place nudist (beaches, campsites ...).

    Now, I appreciate that on this site, we can discuss freely among men, everything. Especially when everyone gives his views when someone asks the group for advice on how to approach certain acts of sexual activity. Without jargon. Without the others are shocked. Naturelly
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    May 06, 2016 8:45 PM GMT
    FuzzyPecs28 said...assuming you're meeting and discussion dating or a relationship with someone and hooking up isn't the main cause of action.

    This seems to be a popular way for some guys to say they want to have sex with you. I mean, what the fuck? You tell me you want to fuck me by sending me a pic of someone you're fucking/getting fucked by? What is up with dudes these days. Or is this the iPhone era and sending that pic is simply a demonstration of their skills and desires for you?


    Not only not someone I want to date romantically, but also not someone I would want to even associate with as a friend.