Going beyond Hell to find True Love

  • Saffron69

    Posts: 121

    Apr 18, 2016 12:21 PM GMT
    https://vimeo.com/158820350

    Found this video a while back and it got me thinking how much worse dating has become for those of who are looking for serious relationships when sex. I'm reconsidering getting back into the dating game after being out of it for so long. Is this what awaits me? Any advise on this will be greatly appreciated
  • TombRaider

    Posts: 94

    Apr 24, 2016 7:21 PM GMT
    Dating is what you make of it. Let your partner know what you expect from the start and he should too. If he is looking for a simple hookup he should at least tell you. Just be yourself and stick to what you know you want.
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    Apr 24, 2016 9:20 PM GMT
    TombRaider said
    Dating is what you make of it. Let your partner know what you expect from the start and he should too. If he is looking for a simple hookup he should at least tell you. Just be yourself and stick to what you know you want.

    Great advice. One of the worst things you can do is approach each date like it's gonna produce your life partner. That kinda pressure & expectation is a great formula for failure.

    Approach a date for a date's sake - to have a nice time. Maybe you'll make a good friend. The chances for instant true love are not so good, you're bucking the odds. But out of many dates, yeah, your odds begin to increase. So do your dating skills, which also helps.

    But I pity these guys who expect to find Mr. Right after just a couple of dates. And when they don't, which is no surprise, they get all discouraged and wanna give up.