Your handsome.

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    Apr 18, 2016 5:30 PM GMT
    Your handsome! I hear that a lot, but only for hookups. Never get asked out for a date or get approached first. What also bothers me is that I constantly get nagged to provide more pictures of myself. Getting really tired of online dating. Anyone knows how that feels?
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    Apr 18, 2016 5:38 PM GMT
    they perceive you as piece of shit/meat and nothing more
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    Apr 18, 2016 6:07 PM GMT
    Most of us have been in your situation. A few things.
    1. Any guy who wants to date you is also going to likely want to hook up with you. Even if he wants to be friends with you, he's likely going to want to hook up with you or at least have a thought about it go through his head. This is all to say that your dating pool is going to come out of the guys who think you're good looking. So when guys tell you that you are handsome (and I agree that you are handsome)...

    2. Why not ask them out for a coffee, or beer or a walk? You can't control what other guys do... but you can definitely control what you do. Don't wait for the other guy. Even if you are a submissive person, if you can schedule dr appointment, buy a car, cancel a cable service, you can ask someone out for a drink. Maybe you already do this and are just frustrated and wondering why you always have to do it...

    3. Most guys know that they want to have sex with you before they know if they want to go out on a date with you. I have had "sex first" relationships where we initially agreed to just hook up and it turned into dating. In fact, 3 of my last 4 boyfriends were found that exact way. What I've done is after chatting with a guy online, I'd invite him over for a hookup. When he arrived I offered him a beer or water and then we sat down on the couch and talked, oftentimes for well over an hour. That was the date. Sometimes we got naked. Sometimes. Ofentimes it wasn't a match in any way and I told them that and we left each other without messing around. Just realize that when it comes to invitations for hookups...

    4. The dick may tell you who to hook up with, but it doesn't make you hook up nor does it tell you when you have to hook up. Use the attraction like a conversation. Flirt with each other, have a little fun, get to know each other and make that the date.

    That's my take. Good luck, handsome!
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Apr 18, 2016 6:25 PM GMT
    No body compartmentalize love and sex more than gay men and that's the reason why so many gay guys are single. well at least that's my “In my opinionation.icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 18, 2016 7:10 PM GMT
    *You're
  • mystery905

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    Apr 18, 2016 9:08 PM GMT
    Yes, you are handsome icon_smile.gif

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    Apr 18, 2016 11:13 PM GMT
    Gay men will say anything they think you want to hear just to get in your pants.
  • Allen

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    Apr 18, 2016 11:25 PM GMT
    One4u2c saidBeauty hurts and can be a curse at times.


    Where did you get that from? Did you read it somewhere?
  • mystery905

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    Apr 18, 2016 11:51 PM GMT
    Allen said
    One4u2c saidBeauty hurts and can be a curse at times.


    Where did you get that from? Did you read it somewhere?


    You crack me up icon_lol.gif
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Apr 19, 2016 12:45 AM GMT
    My handsome?
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    Apr 19, 2016 2:43 AM GMT
    CODY4U said*You're

    That's exactly what I thought of first too lol
  • interesting

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    Apr 19, 2016 2:46 AM GMT
    Allen said
    One4u2c saidBeauty hurts and can be a curse at times.


    Where did you get that from? Did you read it somewhere?


    Oh the shade! It's hilarious though.

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  • Allen

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    Apr 19, 2016 4:12 AM GMT
    One4u2c said
    Allen said
    One4u2c saidBeauty hurts and can be a curse at times.


    Where did you get that from? Did you read it somewhere?


    Definitely not from you, as your old dusty ass is too afraid to show your hideous mug on here. Thanks for sparing all the users from seeing such filth.

    #unbothered


    I THOUGHT you had me on ignore?!

    Do you honestly not see how fucking creepy you look in your picture? Not to mention just plain gross? I, on the other hand, look totally cool and hot as fuck! You're just jealous. And you should be.
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    Apr 19, 2016 1:23 PM GMT
    "you're"
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    Apr 19, 2016 4:40 PM GMT
    Maybe you are intimidating somehow? people always expect me to make the first move, I think it's their insecurity of thinking I wouldn't be into them. So I've gotten used to making the first move. then again this is IRL, internet dating can be very shady
  • leanandclean

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    Apr 19, 2016 9:22 PM GMT
    TO23 said"you're"


    Yup
  • Hugh_Jass

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    Apr 20, 2016 1:39 AM GMT
    I definitely used to know how that feels. Worst when people you actually have a really good connection, they 99,999 miles away.

    Number one pet peeve of online dating is when they ask for more pictures yet don't want to supply one single picture of themselves. Usually I ignore those people or put out smart-ass remarks...cause that I'm a low-key ass.

    It does get better, just be patient and be casual, like go out for coffee and put suggestions out there and don't put out if you looking for a date

  • Aldente

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    Apr 20, 2016 2:47 AM GMT
    It's just a 'polite' way to say, 'you are my fuck type, let's hookup' and nothing more.
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    Apr 20, 2016 5:31 AM GMT
    Color me incredulous.
  • jackp0t

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    Apr 20, 2016 6:38 AM GMT
    TO23 said"you're"
    Thank you.
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    Apr 20, 2016 9:25 AM GMT
    Hey it's better than being told you ugly, amiright?
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Apr 21, 2016 3:22 AM GMT
    CODY4U said*You're


    Thank you.