U Dont Want To Chat ???

  • ClarkeBeebee

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    Feb 09, 2009 2:33 PM GMT
    A Little Confused . If The Guys In This Dont Like Chat ?

    I Find Its Sooooooooo Hard To Find Someone To Chat .

    And Someone Told Me He Is For Personal Site & This Forums .

    Ok , Maybe They Dont Want To Chat .

    But Who Can Tell Me --- Is This True ?

    There Are Some Reasons :

    ① We Have No Time To Chat

    ② Im So Handsome Or Sexy Or Cute , U Have No Chance Chat With Me

    ③ Though U R Nice But U R Not My Type Or I Dont Want To Chat With U

    ④ Wow , U R Ugly , I Dnot Want To Chat With U



    PS.Maybe The Site Named "RealJock" So There R So Many Strong Guys ? And If Im Ugly ? ^-^
  • OptimusMatt

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    Feb 09, 2009 6:33 PM GMT
    This is a pet peeve of mine actually.

    I come on here and go into the public chat. To chat with the general public. Getting 50 IM's from people who

    (a) all ask the same inane fucking questions (how r u? what're u up 2? what do u do? ad nauseam) and

    (b) just want to see my peepee - c'mon guys, I'm a LADY. I much prefer pretending I DON'T care that the entire room is looking at my shirtless hairy chest (when I really do, I mean c'mon who doesn't like feeling pretty? hehe) than jerkin my gherkin for some faceless fuck (who's 'at work' so he can't webcam back. Of course.)

    is NOT why I'm here to chat. I'm typically feeling somewhat lonely, so I log on to chat with a bunch of like-minded guys. Emphasis on the 'bunch'.
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    Feb 09, 2009 6:40 PM GMT
    Lol. Ain't that the truth? The classic: "Do you workout?"
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    Feb 09, 2009 6:43 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidLol. Ain't that the truth? The classic: "Do you workout?"


    My response has always been. "No, this is completely genetic. I've never even walked into a gym." or "This is what diet and pilates can do for you!"
  • OptimusMatt

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    Feb 09, 2009 6:45 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidLol. Ain't that the truth? The classic: "Do you workout?"


    buahahaha. Or when they come in the chatroom and ask if you've got a cam, when you're broadcasting away.

    ...

    *rolls eyes*
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    Feb 09, 2009 6:52 PM GMT
    Yes Bio, i love it when they ask if you have a cam while you are on cam in chat, haha.

    or when they IM and go over the usual:
    hey, whats up, how are you, ur cute.... umm, question... do you cam?

    and then there are always the drive-by-cammers (i didnt coin that term - nv7_ )
    who IM you, and they just have their cam on and are already getting busy, and sometimes just dont say anything... lol, always interesting
  • Rookz

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    Feb 09, 2009 7:07 PM GMT
    A good reason to turn off your IMs. I've received a few IMs with the IM smooches, asking me if I have naked pics (not for you), or if I would like to hook up with them, especially older menicon_exclaim.gificon_question.gif

    I have a man already, thank you.

    Two, I live in California, you live in Florida, I'm not going to fly over there for a 'quick' rump in the sack.
  • OptimusMatt

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    Feb 09, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
    haha MeOh just you wait - I'mma hit you like a mack truck

    hehehehe
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    Feb 09, 2009 7:12 PM GMT
    Yeah, that's why I don't chat much either, for reasons listed above. I like the forums better. Let's me find topics to write ridiculous shit on, or something substantive every once in a while...

    Plus I don't have a cam...
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    Feb 09, 2009 7:28 PM GMT
    GuerrillaSodomite said
    chuckystud saidLol. Ain't that the truth? The classic: "Do you workout?"


    My response has always been. "No, this is completely genetic. I've never even walked into a gym." or "This is what diet and pilates can do for you!"

    Wait, you mean the coke diet is out?
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    Feb 09, 2009 8:23 PM GMT
    i think all the answers so far, have been redonded.

    theres too many facts in why they might not like to chat, like they not like you, you have no way to hook em into the chat, or they just busy,

    about the face lees i dont know cause am one of them, and i do not cam almost ever, for me is just a personal choice not a reason, i have none!!!
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Feb 09, 2009 8:40 PM GMT
    I usually have my CHAT function turned off because I just don't have the time or patience for IMs. If someone wants to talk to me, I'd rather they send me an email that I can respond to when I can, and then maybe we can chat later.
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    Feb 09, 2009 9:27 PM GMT

    Soree, hanz buzy.
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    Feb 09, 2009 9:29 PM GMT
    HotToddy said
    GuerrillaSodomite said
    chuckystud saidLol. Ain't that the truth? The classic: "Do you workout?"


    My response has always been. "No, this is completely genetic. I've never even walked into a gym." or "This is what diet and pilates can do for you!"

    Wait, you mean the coke diet is out?


    Coke, schmoke. All the cool kids are doing meth and intentionally infecting themselves with intestinal parasites these days.
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    Feb 09, 2009 9:31 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    Soree, hanz buzy.


    Careful, you might have to start buying replacement keyboards in bulk. And quit spooging on the USB ports!!
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    Feb 09, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    The last time I was in chat, after a very exciting time, I discovered the "man" I was chatting with was really none other than
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    Ernestine!
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    Feb 09, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
    I prefer the forums, then dealing with individual RJ members through instant messaging. Just my preference. If I want to converse with a particular member in more detail I will send him an e-mail asking him how he is doing.

  • NJ_ITGuy

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    Feb 09, 2009 10:11 PM GMT
    And then there are those of us who just read the forums with little to contribute (yet!) icon_redface.gif
  • UncleverName

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    Feb 09, 2009 10:16 PM GMT
    GuerrillaSodomite saidMy response has always been. "No, this is completely genetic. I've never even walked into a gym." or "This is what diet and pilates can do for you!"


    The diet and pilates one is the best. Not even just for the chat room, but for anyone who half-heartedly asks what you do to stay in shape.
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    Feb 09, 2009 10:18 PM GMT
    BioMatty saidThis is a pet peeve of mine actually.

    I come on here and go into the public chat. To chat with the general public. Getting 50 IM's from people who

    (a) all ask the same inane fucking questions (how r u? what're u up 2? what do u do? ad nauseam) and

    (b) just want to see my peepee - c'mon guys, I'm a LADY. I much prefer pretending I DON'T care that the entire room is looking at my shirtless hairy chest (when I really do, I mean c'mon who doesn't like feeling pretty? hehe) than jerkin my gherkin for some faceless fuck (who's 'at work' so he can't webcam back. Of course.)

    is NOT why I'm here to chat. I'm typically feeling somewhat lonely, so I log on to chat with a bunch of like-minded guys. Emphasis on the 'bunch'.



    I couldn't have said it better!
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    Feb 09, 2009 10:21 PM GMT
    Hehe... last night I got one from a (picture-less) guy who said that he is actually moving to a nearby town next month. Then wanted to know if I'd be his "Daddy" and spank him every day. It got weirder from there.

    Suddenly, the safety of anonymous long-distance contacts seems rather appealing.

  • Feb 09, 2009 10:23 PM GMT
    McGay saidThe last time I was in chat, after a very exciting time, I discovered the "man" I was chatting with was really none other than
    ernestine.jpg
    Ernestine!


    Are you sure it wasn't Vito? He certainly is tireless. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 10, 2009 12:26 AM GMT
    BioMatty saidhaha MeOh just you wait - I'mma hit you like a mack truck

    hehehehe


    like a mack truck, eh?

    well, i suppose some things arent entirely UNwanted... i guess it depends on who is doing it icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 10, 2009 1:09 AM GMT
    I think the IM feature is pretty neat. It works well. And it's handy for those who don't want to give out their AIM, YIM, or MSN screen names, or don't have one at all.

    But I have to agree with BioMatty, regarding the typical chat inquiries. So I turned mine off.

    Besides, I prefer the intellectual word orgy that takes place in the forums anyways. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 10, 2009 1:11 AM GMT
    I didn't even know there was a chat room.