Tired of trans on a "gay" based site

• Wendigo9
  
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  Apr 25, 2016 5:26 AM GMT

  Yeah I know, hater's gonna hate, but despite all the news lately, I'm getting sick and tired of hearing/reading about trannies on RealJock. This site focuses primarily on gay men (topic "all things GAY), when signing up it points out no women/trans can join.
  
  I get that forums are endless with different topics/opinions, but can we please just STOP WITH THE TRANNIES? swear it like life's trying to force it down my throat, I'm happy being born (and still am) a male, no media or money will make me trade in my goods.

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  Apr 25, 2016 5:45 AM GMT

  I disagree somewhat, in that the original purpose of the site was to promote fitness and sports. The manufacture of more hot gay guys. It's all about transformation. I don't see why a trans man shouldn't be as welcome as any other noob.
  
  Most of the crepe presently on the forums, however, has no legitimate business on the site.

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  Apr 25, 2016 6:15 AM GMT

  You can stop reading about them any time you like.

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• Allen
  
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  Apr 25, 2016 6:40 AM GMT

  You can see the topic of each forum BEFORE you click it. If you don't like it, then don't click it. Problem solved.
  

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• tictactoe
  
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  Apr 25, 2016 8:07 AM GMT

  Pathetic. If you're that transphobic, go find a giant rock to hide under.

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  Apr 25, 2016 11:06 AM GMT

  Don't like it, piss off. The way you phrase your post just makes you come across as an asshole and any legitimate point you might be making is negated.

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  Apr 25, 2016 11:27 AM GMT

  I agree with those who said that you aren't obligated to read or participate in discussions on issues that you don't care about. In fact, there is a complete health and fitness section dedicated to posts just that. Perhaps, you should hangout there.

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• giodude
  
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  Apr 25, 2016 6:57 PM GMT

  We're part of a marginalized community
  
  Here's a great idea: Let's filter out people we don't want, even those that are suffering under the same system that oppresses us!
  
  But everybody else should include us and treat us equally though. If they don't they're ignorant bigoted homophobes who should just evolve already

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  Apr 25, 2016 8:25 PM GMT

  Oh buddy, the trans agenda is just beginning. Liberal media is going to inundate us with agenda like never before until peens can get in those ladies' rooms...and on and on indefinitely.

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• Wendigo9
  
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  Apr 25, 2016 8:46 PM GMT

  I'm not afraid of trannies (phobias are fears), just tired and ashamed of being seen in their light when someone finds out I'm gay. How would you feel if someone straight just found out you were gay (and didn't know before) and decided to shun or fire you because of that? The word GAY is being labelled as an embarrassment because of trannies in the organization, I want to make it clear NOT ALL GAYS ARE LIKE THEM.

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  Apr 25, 2016 9:29 PM GMT

  Could you be specific about what embarrasses you about Transsexuals? Their fight for equality? Them being marginalized? Them wearing pants or skirts? They not wanting to get fired for being transsexual?
  
  There are to many gays thinking "equal rights stops with me". We aren't there yet and mustn't throw others under the bus.

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  Apr 25, 2016 10:22 PM GMT

  bhp91126 saidCould you be specific about what embarrasses you about Transsexuals? Their fight for equality? Them being marginalized? Them wearing pants or skirts? They not wanting to get fired for being transsexual?
  
  There are to many gays thinking "equal rights stops with me". We aren't there yet and mustn't throw others under the bus.

  
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  Apr 25, 2016 11:58 PM GMT

  Trans people aren't fighting a similar fight, they are fighting the same fight. If the topic of trans rights abhors you then perhaps never participate in a discussion about trans people let alone start topic about it.

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• Allen
  
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  Apr 26, 2016 12:05 AM GMT

  Wendigo9 saidI'm not afraid of trannies (phobias are fears), just tired and ashamed of being seen in their light when someone finds out I'm gay. How would you feel if someone straight just found out you were gay (and didn't know before) and decided to shun or fire you because of that? The word GAY is being labelled as an embarrassment because of trannies in the organization, I want to make it clear NOT ALL GAYS ARE LIKE THEM.

  
  
  I'm completely out. And with just a couple exceptions, all of my friends and even acquaintances are straight. I've never ONCE had a single one of them confuse my being gay with someone who is transsexual. And it's never occurred to me that anyone would.
  
  Either you're hanging around some incredibly stupid and ignorant straight people, or you are at least somewhat effeminate and the straight people you meet are simply curious as to whether you're just gay or transsexual as well. Are you?
  
  My straight friends can't personally relate to my being gay, but they don't have to. They understand it on an intellectual level and totally have my back! And why I might not be able to personally relate to transgendered folks, I'm still able to understand it. And I sympathize with them and will have their back.
  

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• Wendigo9
  
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  Apr 26, 2016 12:21 AM GMT

  Look guys, I'd be all for and would like to join a gay/lesbien community, but what bothers me about trannies is how they think a gender suicide is how to make a new start. Do you regret being a male all your life? Would you tell your maker/parents "they made you all wrong"?
  
  In a medical standpoint, most trans-gender patients have been severely mentally harmed as a child. They've become so mixed up with their identity becsuse of their influences, that they decided to take physical changes to extreme measures, thinking that's who/what they should have been all along.
  
  Back to the main topic, can we PLEASE just STOP with the TRANNIES on here? RealJock is based on gay men well as fitness advice, and the name says REALjock, not fakedrag.

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  Apr 26, 2016 12:54 AM GMT

  Wendigo9 saidLook guys, I'd be all for and would like to join a gay/lesbien community, but what bothers me about trannies is how they think a gender suicide is how to make a new start. Do you regret being a male all your life? Would you tell your maker/parents "they made you all wrong"?
  
  In a medical standpoint, most trans-gender patients have been severely mentally harmed as a child. They've become so mixed up with their identity becsuse of their influences, that they decided to take physical changes to extreme measures, thinking that's who/what they should have been all along.
  
  Back to the main topic, can we PLEASE just STOP with the TRANNIES on here? RealJock is based on gay men well as fitness advice, and the name says REALjock, not fakedrag.

  
  Ouch, until now I only assumed you are an ignorant ass, now you've proven it without a single doubt.
  
  As others already mentioned, you are under no obligation to be in threads about transsexuals, don't read them, don't reply to them and just ignore them. As ignorant as you are, ignoring those threads should come easy to you.
  
  Also, we're gay men here, by next week
  Oh, something shiny!

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  Apr 26, 2016 4:11 AM GMT

  bhp91126 said

  Wendigo9 saidLook guys, I'd be all for and would like to join a gay/lesbien community, but what bothers me about trannies is how they think a gender suicide is how to make a new start. Do you regret being a male all your life? Would you tell your maker/parents "they made you all wrong"?
  In a medical standpoint, most trans-gender patients have been severely mentally harmed as a child. They've become so mixed up with their identity becsuse of their influences, that they decided to take physical changes to extreme measures, thinking that's who/what they should have been all along.
  Back to the main topic, can we PLEASE just STOP with the TRANNIES on here? RealJock is based on gay men well as fitness advice, and the name says REALjock, not fakedrag.

  
  Ouch, until now I only assumed you are an ignorant ass, now you've proven it without a single doubt.
  As others already mentioned, you are under no obligation to be in threads about transsexuals, don't read them, don't reply to them and just ignore them. As ignorant as you are, ignoring those threads should come easy to you.
  Also, we're gay men here, by next week
  Oh, something shiny!

  
  How am I ignorant if I've done my research on the topic years ago? not like you have a medical degree in psychology and human behaviour. . . which I do.

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• Allen
  
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  Apr 26, 2016 5:18 AM GMT

  Wendigo9 said

  bhp91126 said

  Wendigo9 saidLook guys, I'd be all for and would like to join a gay/lesbien community, but what bothers me about trannies is how they think a gender suicide is how to make a new start. Do you regret being a male all your life? Would you tell your maker/parents "they made you all wrong"?
  In a medical standpoint, most trans-gender patients have been severely mentally harmed as a child. They've become so mixed up with their identity becsuse of their influences, that they decided to take physical changes to extreme measures, thinking that's who/what they should have been all along.
  Back to the main topic, can we PLEASE just STOP with the TRANNIES on here? RealJock is based on gay men well as fitness advice, and the name says REALjock, not fakedrag.

  
  Ouch, until now I only assumed you are an ignorant ass, now you've proven it without a single doubt.
  As others already mentioned, you are under no obligation to be in threads about transsexuals, don't read them, don't reply to them and just ignore them. As ignorant as you are, ignoring those threads should come easy to you.
  Also, we're gay men here, by next week
  Oh, something shiny!

  
  How am I ignorant if I've done my research on the topic years ago? not like you have a medical degree in psychology and human behaviour. . . which I do.

  
  
  Wendigo9, I don't believe for a second you have a college degree in anything, let alone a degree in Psychology or Human Beahvior. And if you do indeed have a degree, you should demand a full refund because somehow your college education has made you more stupid than someone without a college degree. And speaking of this degree, was it an online degree from Kmart?
  
  

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  Apr 26, 2016 6:23 AM GMT

  Wendigo9> I'm not afraid of trannies (phobias are fears)
  
  How is that different from homophobes who claim they aren't scared of gays?
  Words don't mean the sum of their parts.
  (We drive on park-ways and park on drive-ways....)
  
  
  Wendigo9> just tired and ashamed of being seen in their light when someone finds out I'm gay.
  
  How is that different from straight male gymnasts (I'm told there are some) or figure skaters wanting to kick gays out of gymnastics/skating because they're "just tired and ashamed of being seen in their light [gay] when someone finds out they're a gymnast"?
  
  
  Wendigo9> How would you feel if someone straight just found out you were gay (and didn't know before) and decided to shun or fire you because of that?
  
  So it's ok if they shun/fire a trannie, but not a gay?
  
  The answer is ENDA (the Federal Employee Non-Discrimination Act), and it should protect both gays and trannies, right?
  
  
  Wendigo9> The word GAY is being labelled as an embarrassment because of trannies in the organization, I want to make it clear NOT ALL GAYS ARE LIKE THEM.
  
  How is that different from saying that rednecks, serial killers or the KKK is an embarrassment to whites?
  Would anyone other than a racist make such an assumption?
  (Not that being Trans is analogous other than as an outgroup.)
  
  What about effeminate straight men?
  Are they also not an embarrassment to gays because certain people simply assume they are gay?
  Don't you want to make it clear that not all gays are like them effeminate heteros?
  
  
  Wendigo9> what bothers me about trannies is how they think a gender suicide is how to make a new start. Do you regret being a male all your life? Would you tell your maker/parents "they made you all wrong"?
  
  Some might say that gays are committing "sex suicide" and if everyone were gay, even cause extinction of the species. Obviously, to them, gays are just as "made wrong" ("biological error") as trannies.
  
  
  Wendigo9> most trans-gender patients have been severely mentally harmed as a child. They've become so mixed up with their identity becsuse of their influences
  
  I'm guessing that is as unfounded as the false notion that "most gays were sexually abused as children" and are thus "so mixed up with their [sexual] identity".
  
  
  Wendigo9> the name says REALjock
  
  IF this site were limited to real jocks, 99% of the profiles should be deleted.
  
  I'm guessing it's mostly the politics and news categories that have these threads, so if you wish to avoid them (if ignoring them is so difficult) you can focus on just the health/fitness areas.
  

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  Apr 26, 2016 10:01 AM GMT

  Wendigo9 saidI'm not afraid of trannies (phobias are fears), just tired and ashamed of being seen in their light when someone finds out I'm gay. How would you feel if someone straight just found out you were gay (and didn't know before) and decided to shun or fire you because of that? The word GAY is being labelled as an embarrassment because of trannies in the organization, I want to make it clear NOT ALL GAYS ARE LIKE THEM.

  
  
  You seem unable to form a cohesive argument. Gay and transgender are not the same, but that doesn't mean that gay men don't have compassion and empathy for trans people who are also an oppressed minority.
  
  No one is labelling gay as 'an embarrassment' due to trans people but I'm pretty sure that you're one. I'd like to make it very clear not all gays are like you. I disassociate myself from people like you, utterly.

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  Apr 26, 2016 10:03 AM GMT

  bhp91126 said
  There are to many gays thinking "equal rights stops with me". We aren't there yet and mustn't throw others under the bus.

  
  
  Very true. Equal rights for everyone, not just your own selfish self. If you don't stand in solidarity with people who are having their rights stolen and eroded, as others have stood and fought on your behalf, then what are you going to do when they come for you? You might realise you don't have any allies left.

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  Apr 26, 2016 10:05 AM GMT

  Wendigo9 said
  Back to the main topic, can we PLEASE just STOP with the TRANNIES on here? RealJock is based on gay men well as fitness advice, and the name says REALjock, not fakedrag.

  
  
  Cutting out all the rest of your bullshit you posted with no verifiable facts to back it up, you've just signed your own exit with this comment - you're right, it's REALJOCK and you are nothing like a jock - so you shouldn't be on this site by your own logic. Girl bye.

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  Apr 26, 2016 12:11 PM GMT

  Wendigo9 saidHow would you feel if someone straight just found out you were gay (and didn't know before) and decided to shun or fire you because of that?

  
  
  
  How would I feel? I would feel like I really didn't miss out on anything. I don't need the approval of bigots. I also won't throw another vulnerable minority under the bus for my own betterment. My life view isn't "Hooray for me! Fuck you!". That just isn't who I am.
  
  

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  Apr 27, 2016 3:54 AM GMT

  Wendigo9 saidLook guys, I'd be all for and would like to join a gay/lesbien community, but what bothers me about trannies is how they think a gender suicide is how to make a new start. Do you regret being a male all your life? Would you tell your maker/parents "they made you all wrong"?
  
  In a medical standpoint, most trans-gender patients have been severely mentally harmed as a child. They've become so mixed up with their identity becsuse of their influences, that they decided to take physical changes to extreme measures, thinking that's who/what they should have been all along.
  
  Back to the main topic, can we PLEASE just STOP with the TRANNIES on here? RealJock is based on gay men well as fitness advice, and the name says REALjock, not fakedrag.

  Thank you
  +2,000,000

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  Allen saidwendigo9, I don't believe for a second you have a college degree in anything, let alone a degree in Psychology or Human Beahvior. And if you do indeed have a degree, you should demand a full refund because somehow your college education has made you more stupid than someone without a college degree. And speaking of this degree, was it an online degree from Kmart?

  
  
  He went to Trump University

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