Do You And Your Guy Have Special (And Maybe Silly) Things You Say To Each Other?

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    May 01, 2016 8:29 PM GMT
    We do, that I've mentioned here before, last time perhaps a couple of years ago on RJ. We just now had one of our goofy exchanges. Not too goofy, though, we are 82 & 67 after all, but I think sufficient juvenile fun for guys our ages. Any more and we'd end up in a looney bin.

    So I said to him: "Did I tell you today how much I love you?"

    "No, but I know you've been busy all day." "Yeah, and my calendar's still totally blocked out for the rest of the day. And I think Monday's full-up, too. But I'll try to slip you in on Tuesday."

    ***SMACK*** "Get outta heah!" (In his Italian-Boston accent)

    We occasionally do that "Did I tell you today..." routine, with a different idiotic exchange each time.

    And it seems to have done no harm. A few minutes later he asked me if I wanted him to make Dungeness crab for supper, my favorite. Now I'll probably have to move up my schedule from Tuesday to tonight over dinner. icon_biggrin.gif

    Do you have any silly things you say with each other, that you wouldn't mind sharing here? I think maybe couples should.
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    May 02, 2016 12:36 AM GMT
    OK, we finished the Dungeness crab (Dungeness come from the US/Canadian Pacific Northwest, where I used to catch them), and he added a little lobster bisque on the side, maybe overdoing things with the shellfish. But still, he got passing marks. So I told him I'd rearrange my schedule, and give him his "I love you" tonight, along with a kiss, rather than Tuesday. icon_wink.gif

    But then I suddenly realized we're supposed to check-in at a gay guest house tomorrow for several days, right after lunch. I forgot all about it! But first we've gotta have lunch with friends who are driving, that the husband agreed to do. And this was intended to be relaxing for him! Because then we'll have to come right back here, turn around and go to check-in.

    At least it's very close to us. And while we haven't even packed yet, all we really need is our toiletries, some shirts and underwear. The entire place is clothing optional, with signs around the pool that actually say that's a clothing-prohibited zone. We can pack under 30 minutes tomorrow morning.
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    May 02, 2016 1:10 AM GMT
    ^
    In before Southbeach - I want your life. icon_wink.gif
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    May 02, 2016 1:24 AM GMT
    eagermuscle said^
    In before Southbeach - I want your life. icon_wink.gif

    Is southbeach back from wherever he went? What SB always failed to realize (probably by intent) was that much of what I post is done tongue-in-cheek, with a touch of exaggeration. Not untrue things, but presented in a way to hopefully generate a little humor.

    So my husband did get a kiss and an "I love you very much" tonight. In fact, if he behaves he may get another one at bedtime. icon_wink.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    May 02, 2016 3:39 PM GMT
    An exchange that started early, early, early in our romance, maybe the third week:

    You my guy.

    or

    You my guy?

    The response is: You my guy.

    I feel like a warm breeze has flowed over me every time, just simply happy.
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    May 02, 2016 3:48 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidAn exchange that started early, early, early in our romance, maybe the third week:

    You my guy.

    or

    You my guy?

    The response is: You my guy.

    I feel like a warm breeze has flowed over me every time, just simply happy.

    We've got a similar sentiment, but fewer words...

    "Mine?"

    "Mine!"
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    May 02, 2016 4:23 PM GMT
    Nice.
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    May 02, 2016 5:15 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said...
    So I said to him: "Did I tell you today how much I love you?"
    ...

    Walter Huston to Ruth Chatterton in Dodsworth. One of the great romantic lines of all time, and one my bud and I used to use all the time as well. Perhaps we will again ...
  • Aldente

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    May 02, 2016 10:11 PM GMT
    We do. icon_smile.gif
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    May 03, 2016 1:42 PM GMT
    He knows that Scott Pilgrim Vs The World is one of my favorite films so instead of a standard "I love you" he says:

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    May 03, 2016 2:17 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    eagermuscle said^
    In before Southbeach - I want your life. icon_wink.gif

    ...much of what I post is done tongue-in-cheek, with a touch of exaggeration. Not untrue things, but presented in a way to hopefully generate a little humor. ... icon_wink.gif


    Yes! I always got you. HUGE fan here.
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    May 03, 2016 2:25 PM GMT
    Some updates: we've been at the local gay guest house since yesterday. Instead of the signs that said "Clothing Prohibited" the signs now say "Nudity Preferred". Either way, I'm happy to oblige. icon_wink.gif

    The husband likes it a lot. He keeps saying: "This was a great idea I had." Meaning himself, not me, just to play with me. But I do see him relaxing a bit, as I had hoped, and that was the whole idea.

    I checked to see if I could extend our stay, but only 1 day more was unbooked. This little place always stays packed, except in the hottest part of summer. Just a block from Wilton Drive that you can walk, it's in the heart of Gay Central for South Florida.

    But the owner surprised me (whom we already knew) when I asked him how much more it would cost. He said: "Nothing, you're comped." That was a nice gift, which made it a deal I couldn't refuse. We owe him a favor.

    So we'll be here until Thursday. Occasionally online with the iPads, but not too much.