Longnight828 saidHappens alot more than most would think. I find older men hot. I like dominating them or obeying them. Something about an older grown man makes alot of fun.
^see, my point exactly.
I love older men too. it's just that im not into the whole "dominant" and "S&M" thing. i only enjoy receiving long oral-sex/getting sucked off and edged and pleasured by an older guy, but i like it to be slow and sensual and passionate. and i really want the guy to enjoy doing it too. and get off on doing it too.
i dont really like grabbing a guy and harming him during sex :/ even if it arouses him, i just don't like doing it at all :/ i just like it sensual and romantic. that's how i always thought sex was supposed to be, but to each their own.
But I'm pretty sure there's a young guy out there who would totally be up for that. but you did mention that every guy has a "price tag"...
by that, i'm assuming that you're trying to say that it cost you something to have sex with them? well an 18, 19, 20s year old isn't going to have nearly as much money as an older guy.
Yeah, they might need a ride back to your place and then a ride back home from you because they don't have a car,
or for you to get them a bottle of poppers to make them enjoy it more.
or they might want you to get the lube for your sex and everything, OR
even for you to get them a flight to california if they live out of state because they don't have money and can't afford that.
but you have to remember that guys that young guy aren't as financially stable. BUT
they want you to do that for them so they can enjoy it with you, not so they can just get that from you. (not sure if i worded that right but i hope that made sense...)
for an example, if you have a young guy who wants to spend time with you and to have hot passionate sex with you and you want to do the same with him, but he lives far away from California and he ask you for a roundtrip flight or bus ticket, he's only asking you for that so he can come to california and spend time with you and have sex with you... not because he just wants a free trip to california (hope that makes more sense now) BUT some guys are actually the other way unfortunately :/
don't get me wrong, if what you really mean by "price tag" is that they're telling you "i'm only gonna have sex with you if you pay me 100$" then you should ditch them then, but don't give up. plenty of fish in the sea.
if that's seriously a problem though, then why not try finding someone older but still young, like 30s or 40s. i've seen guys that age that still look like in there 20s. that might work out better for you.
hope that all made sense.
by the way, do u have any idea how often I get rejected by older guys?
I had one 45 year old guy who lived in florida who i tried starting a "father-son relationship" with and when he found out i was too broke for a bus ticket to florida,
he told me quote-on-quote "I already have enough young handsome guys here in florida for me to fuck and suck off. You can't even take it up the ass! and you're not even hot either!"
^that was an epic dis
kinda disappointed me really, BUT i didn't back down and give up on it, i just unfriended him and went looking for someone else. Same mindset you gotta have dude ;) and don't even get me started on the racist guys