Where can I experience something like this?

  • sexy_dad_67

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    May 05, 2016 3:41 AM GMT
    In porn, sometimes I see older bear-types getting hot young guys to do things to them. Does this ever play out in real life? Or am I just not hanging in the right circles?
  • theonewhoknoc...

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    May 05, 2016 3:42 AM GMT
    The more undesirable the job the more the porn actor get paid. Simple.

    Porn reflects the preferences of the demographic that generally pays for it, the ones who need to watch it in lieu of real sex
  • sexy_dad_67

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    May 05, 2016 3:43 AM GMT
    I mean something like this:

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    May 05, 2016 3:46 AM GMT
    I vote you're not hanging in the right circles.
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    May 05, 2016 3:47 AM GMT
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  • Leftswiper

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    May 05, 2016 4:02 AM GMT
    theonewhoknocks saidPorn reflects the preferences of the demographic that generally pays for it, the ones who need to watch it in lieu of real sex


    lol harsh
  • badbug

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    May 05, 2016 4:10 AM GMT

    Lucid Dreaming. Google it. icon_razz.gif
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    May 05, 2016 4:31 AM GMT
  • joeisawesome1

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    May 05, 2016 8:03 AM GMT
    ok... i totally see why you lost interest in me now (I really don't blame you at all to be honest)

    i definitely think it's possible for you to find a young guy who would like you to fuck him in the ass like the pics. i've heard of young twink guys being into that.

    personally, i only love playing with older men, and im actually only attracted to older men for many reasons. BUT i only like for them to suck me off and/or edge & tease me for long hours (I'm a Pillow Prince hence the crown in my profile pic. I can't stand having anything in my ass or shoved in my mouth. (I don't let anyone put anything in my ass or mouth either... trust me, you definitely would never want to either...)

    BUT some other young twinks definitely are turned on by being dominated by older men. i've read it online many times and even seen twinks looking for it on grindr and craigslist.

    if you're looking for this, just try looking on grindr, or hornet, or adam4adam (yes.. guys still use it) or craigslist, okcupid, jack'd, guyspuy, tindr, or even men seeking men groups on facebook.

    it's all about finding a match, including finding a guy you get along with and are sexually compatible with icon_smile.gif
    You're an older guy who likes younger guys who like being penetrated
    so you just have to find a younger guy who likes older guys and who wants to be penetrated icon_smile.gif

    don't be shy or self conscious either about it either.
    You gotta give it time, but you'll find it ;) icon_smile.gif

    especially in a place like California! icon_razz.gificon_razz.gif lol
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    May 05, 2016 8:18 AM GMT
    I have had sex with 50+ men since the age of 19-20. It is very common.
  • sexy_dad_67

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    May 05, 2016 11:21 PM GMT
    I keep hearing about that on this forum, but it never plays out like that on grindr or jackd or whatever. Actually I want to be dominated by a young guy more than the other way around. Have him call me pig, slut, make me beg, etc
  • joeisawesome1

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    May 06, 2016 12:49 AM GMT
    sexy_dad_67 saidActually I want to be dominated by a young guy more than the other way around. Have him call me pig, slut, make me beg, etc


    well that just makes it a wholee lot easier for you then. try the men seeking men section of craigslist. you should be able to find a young guy there who's into to that. just be a bit careful though, you dont want to find a young guy who goes too far with that stuff... a lot guys in their 20s can be a bit reckless and whack sometimes. icon_sad.gif that's actually another reason why i only like older
  • sexy_dad_67

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    May 06, 2016 1:26 AM GMT
    Believe me, Craigslist was the first thing I tried, long before any app was available. Every young guy I emailed from there eventually had a price tag.
  • joeisawesome1

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    May 06, 2016 5:51 AM GMT
    sexy_dad_67 saidBelieve me, Craigslist was the first thing I tried, long before any app was available. Every young guy I emailed from there eventually had a price tag.


    they were all asking you for money in exchange for sex?? icon_sad.gif

    and you could just keep trying it. there's always different guys on there. that's how it is where i live. and especially in California.
  • Longnight828

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    May 06, 2016 6:28 AM GMT
    Happens alot more than most would think. I find older men hot. I like dominating them or obeying them. Something about an older grown man makes alot of fun.
  • joeisawesome1

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    May 06, 2016 7:18 AM GMT
    Longnight828 saidHappens alot more than most would think. I find older men hot. I like dominating them or obeying them. Something about an older grown man makes alot of fun.


    ^see, my point exactly.

    I love older men too. it's just that im not into the whole "dominant" and "S&M" thing. i only enjoy receiving long oral-sex/getting sucked off and edged and pleasured by an older guy, but i like it to be slow and sensual and passionate. and i really want the guy to enjoy doing it too. and get off on doing it too.

    i dont really like grabbing a guy and harming him during sex :/ even if it arouses him, i just don't like doing it at all :/ i just like it sensual and romantic. that's how i always thought sex was supposed to be, but to each their own.

    But I'm pretty sure there's a young guy out there who would totally be up for that. but you did mention that every guy has a "price tag"...

    by that, i'm assuming that you're trying to say that it cost you something to have sex with them? well an 18, 19, 20s year old isn't going to have nearly as much money as an older guy.

    Yeah, they might need a ride back to your place and then a ride back home from you because they don't have a car,
    or for you to get them a bottle of poppers to make them enjoy it more.
    or they might want you to get the lube for your sex and everything,
    OR even for you to get them a flight to california if they live out of state because they don't have money and can't afford that.
    but you have to remember that guys that young guy aren't as financially stable. BUT they want you to do that for them so they can enjoy it with you, not so they can just get that from you. (not sure if i worded that right but i hope that made sense...)

    for an example, if you have a young guy who wants to spend time with you and to have hot passionate sex with you and you want to do the same with him, but he lives far away from California and he ask you for a roundtrip flight or bus ticket, he's only asking you for that so he can come to california and spend time with you and have sex with you... not because he just wants a free trip to california (hope that makes more sense now) BUT some guys are actually the other way unfortunately :/

    don't get me wrong, if what you really mean by "price tag" is that they're telling you "i'm only gonna have sex with you if you pay me 100$" then you should ditch them then, but don't give up. plenty of fish in the sea.

    if that's seriously a problem though, then why not try finding someone older but still young, like 30s or 40s. i've seen guys that age that still look like in there 20s. that might work out better for you.

    hope that all made sense.



    by the way, do u have any idea how often I get rejected by older guys? icon_razz.gif seriously.
    I had one 45 year old guy who lived in florida who i tried starting a "father-son relationship" with and when he found out i was too broke for a bus ticket to florida,
    he told me quote-on-quote "I already have enough young handsome guys here in florida for me to fuck and suck off. You can't even take it up the ass! and you're not even hot either!"

    ^that was an epic dis icon_razz.gif kinda disappointed me really, BUT i didn't back down and give up on it, i just unfriended him and went looking for someone else. Same mindset you gotta have dude ;)

    and don't even get me started on the racist guys
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    May 06, 2016 8:57 PM GMT
    Are you ask jacked as the muscle bear in the pic you posted? If not, good luck...
  • joeisawesome1

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    May 06, 2016 9:20 PM GMT
    jackedgamer saidAre you ask jacked as the muscle bear in the pic you posted? If not, good luck...


    ^that doesn't always matter to every young guy.
    For me, all i care about is if the guy loves giving head and is good at or wants to be good at it.

    and @Sexy_dad_67
    if it makes you feel any better, i just got rejected by another older guy from grindr (he was older than you too, but not nearly as good looking as you are icon_wink.gif )

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    BUT the point is, EVERYONE gets rejected. that shouldn't stop you from looking though. I had some really fucked up stuff said to me on grindr by guys who i approached who didn't prefer me at all. but it doesn't stop me icon_smile.gif just keep looking for someone else, that's what i always have to do ;) icon_smile.gif

    and also, if I was into dominating a guy and fucking his ass and giving him rough sex every single night, i would be more than happy to do it for you ;) icon_smile.gif
    just being honest icon_smile.gif
  • you_know_Its_...

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    May 08, 2016 1:50 AM GMT
    to OP... it's called having mountains of cash
  • AMoonHawk

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    May 08, 2016 2:44 AM GMT
    ya .... it totally happens ... you're just hangin out in the wrong places icon_biggrin.gif