Blast from the past

  • Oioioi

    Posts: 1

    May 06, 2016 11:19 PM GMT
    Meet a guy some years ago where when we made eye contact to was total love. Fell hook line and sinker. But it could not be. Many years passed and now out of the blue i get a txt message making contact again. The feelngs are still there.

    And to top it all off he sent me a sound file of Adel's Hello.

    Talk about an emotional roller coaster.

    What to do???
  • OuterBoy

    Posts: 4

    May 07, 2016 1:34 AM GMT
    Oioioi saidMeet a guy some years ago where when we made eye contact to was total love. Fell hook line and sinker. But it could not be. Many years passed and now out of the blue i get a txt message making contact again. The feelngs are still there.

    And to top it all off he sent me a sound file of Adel's Hello.

    Talk about an emotional roller coaster.

    What to do???

    If you wish, you can try again by reacquainting yourself with him via dating again to see if you still truly have the feelings for him. If all goes well, you two can discuss the next step.
  • badbug

    Posts: 800

    May 07, 2016 3:56 AM GMT

    Oooh i like these, they are very common among my people.


    I would ask yourself if you want to go through that again? If you do, then go for it. If you can't, then don't.


    I would caution that life is short and regrets suck and all of that stuff, while adding that you don't have to feel the way you do about things. If this person is the cause of emotional distress again, you don't have to feel bad about it. Smile cause it happened,don't cry cause it is over type stuff, or existence is suffering Samsara type stuff....basically ready your emotional defences.


    But all that being said, if you are an easily depressed type who may kill themselves if things go wrong, (or may give away your bank account number etc.) then i would maybe avoid situations like this if you can't handle them. There is no shame in knowing your limitations and repeating mistakes of the past if you see them that way.


    Whatever you do, i wouldn't worry about it. Whatever is going to happen is going to happen.

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    May 07, 2016 2:39 PM GMT
    Oioioi saidMeet a guy some years ago where when we made eye contact to was total love. Fell hook line and sinker. But it could not be. Many years passed and now out of the blue i get a txt message making contact again. The feelngs are still there.

    And to top it all off he sent me a sound file of Adel's Hello.

    Talk about an emotional roller coaster.

    What to do???



    RUN..... ; )
  • leanandclean

    Posts: 281

    May 07, 2016 6:40 PM GMT
    Avoid drama.
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    May 07, 2016 7:31 PM GMT
    Oioioi saidAnd to top it all off he sent me a sound file of Adel's Hello.


    Send him a sound file of Adele's "Love in the Dark" from the same album.
  • oldfart

    Posts: 328

    May 07, 2016 10:09 PM GMT
    Oi, that's *lust* at first sight.

    What is this man made of? You could be diving head-first into the shallow end of the gene pool. Don't hurt yourself.

    Put away the poppers, have a cup of coffee, and breathe. Then think.

    This could be a great roll. But keep your parachute handy, and if that plane starts going down, don't be afraid to punch out, OK?

    Don't hurt yourself. Good luck, laugh & enjoy!
  • Allen

    Posts: 341

    May 08, 2016 9:11 AM GMT
    Ignore him.