Strange sexual encounter

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    May 08, 2016 4:24 PM GMT
    I met up with this really hot guy on Grindr who I found out was into barebacking.

    When I told him I wouldn't do it, he kept trying to convince me, saying he was "clean", that it had been months since he last hooked up, that he was a dentist ( that was random :lolicon_smile.gif

    Obviously, I know better than to listen to that stuff, I know I probably should have stopped then and there but he was really hot icon_redface.gif

    Anyway,he finally said ok to doing it with a condom, but as he was jerking me off, he discreetly took off the condom. Thankfully I realized it before anything happened.

    Then I told him that I wouldn't change my mind and that he was free to go if he wasn't interested in having sex with a condom, at which point he got really mad and left.

    Ever experienced anything like that ?
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    May 08, 2016 4:26 PM GMT
    Nope, but congrats on your persistence.
  • mystery905

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    May 08, 2016 4:49 PM GMT
    What a sick fuck trying to fool you like that.

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    May 08, 2016 5:14 PM GMT
    http://iblastinside.com/2012/06/top-10-stealthing-tips/
    If you think the article is shocking, just read the comments. icon_neutral.gif
  • christastic

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    May 08, 2016 5:17 PM GMT
    I simply don't deal with people who would be sketchy and selfish enough to try stealthing someone.
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    May 08, 2016 5:29 PM GMT
    You should've punched him in the nuts!
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    May 08, 2016 5:36 PM GMT
    Radd saidhttp://iblastinside.com/2012/06/top-10-stealthing-tips/
    If you think the article is shocking, just read the comments. icon_neutral.gif



    Wow , do these people just not realize that it's wrong ? or do they get off on the fact that it is ?
  • interestingch...

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    May 08, 2016 6:08 PM GMT
    He may have been infected with something and deliberately trying to give it to you, some people have no regard for others safety, he could well be bullshitting about not sleeping with anyone for a while and as with some diseases it can take up to 6 months to show up in your blood. I appreciate that sex without a condom feels much nicer however unless you have been with someone for some time and are completely monogamous and disease free then stick to you guns and end the relationship/hookup if anyone won't respect that.
    I haven't slept with many people but everyone I have has been very respectful of my boundaries and me of theirs.
    Good for you though.
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    May 08, 2016 7:19 PM GMT
    Saad22 said
    Radd saidhttp://iblastinside.com/2012/06/top-10-stealthing-tips/
    If you think the article is shocking, just read the comments. icon_neutral.gif



    Wow , do these people just not realize that it's wrong ? or do they get off on the fact that it is ?




    I tend to be overly sensitive to other's feelings so I can be kind of naive about these things. If I can't imagine doing something to another person, I assume no one else would either. But the world keeps reminding me that there are some truly evil people out there. But yes, there are people out there who are pissed off they have a disease and are desperately seeking to infect others to even the score so to speak. Then you have guys that don't have any diseases but are just too focused on what feels good right now to think about the concerns of anyone else. But the people on that website above are truly evil and deserve to die.
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    May 08, 2016 10:55 PM GMT
    Oh, sure I've been in that situation. And I can think of half a dozen times where some other kinky act (other than barebacking) was proposed. Just smile and tell him you're not into that, have a nice night,*ding,* next candidate please.

    I, um, may have even been on the opposite end of that exchange a time or two...

    Don't try to go part way anyhow, "because the guy is hot." You'll both be disappointed. And there are plenty of fish...
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    May 08, 2016 11:23 PM GMT
    Radd said
    Saad22 said
    Radd saidhttp://iblastinside.com/2012/06/top-10-stealthing-tips/
    If you think the article is shocking, just read the comments. icon_neutral.gif



    Wow , do these people just not realize that it's wrong ? or do they get off on the fact that it is ?




    I tend to be overly sensitive to other's feelings so I can be kind of naive about these things. If I can't imagine doing something to another person, I assume no one else would either. But the world keeps reminding me that there are some truly evil people out there. But yes, there are people out there who are pissed off they have a disease and are desperately seeking to infect others to even the score so to speak. Then you have guys that don't have any diseases but are just too focused on what feels good right now to think about the concerns of anyone else. But the people on that website above are truly evil and deserve to die.

    You wouldn't believe the story that I heard from this foreign exchange student that I know. He's from let's say some country in Asia, back then in early 2000s or late 1990s, the epidemic of HIV started there, and there were rumors people were pissed and that they wanted to infect other. It's not even about gays, just disease, gays and straight. The common method was using needle, by sticking them to others. since casual sex was not common in that conservative country. So when people went to see movies in theaters, they check the seats with their shoes to see if there was any needle inside hidden there. icon_eek.gif
    And by saying that I meant no disrespect to people with the disease though.
  • joeisawesome1

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    May 09, 2016 5:06 AM GMT
    Saad22 said
    Then I told him that I wouldn't change my mind and that he was free to go if he wasn't interested in having sex with a condom, at which point he got really mad and left.

    Ever experienced anything like that ?


    as someone said to you earlier, congratulations on your persistence! sex has to be consensual. no one should be talked or pressured into doing anything they don't want to do.

    as a Pillow Prince myself, (that means for a guy to only like being sucked off and pleasured and not reciprocate or do anything else during sex) that is the most important rule to learn.

    i have had guys who wanted to stick their cock up my ass or stick their cock in my mouth but i would never allow it and if the guy got upset about it, i would just have him take me back home.

    Although, one time i hooked up with a guy who took me back to his place and sucked on my cock for a bit and then expected me to reciprocate (despite the clear as day bio on my grindr profile saying I only like GETTING head and not giving)
    i said no (because i hate sucking cock, i only like getting mine sucked).

    so then he decided to force his cock into my mouth full of unwelcoming hostile razor sharp teeth

    BIG MISTAKE!

    he ended up realizing that the inside of my mouth was equivalent to a cheese grater, not to mention that he brought out 'the angry walking dead zombie' in me... he DID NOT enjoy it at all... but that's what he gets!

    and i ended up having to walk 5 miles to get home because he literally threw me out of his house because of that but i didn't care.. lol

    sex should not be 'transactional' at all, both partners should enjoy doing what they're ok with and feel comfortable with.

    and i guess that man will think twice about forcing another guy to do something he doesn't want to do icon_razz.gif or at least read the profile of the guy he's hooking up with more clearly icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2016 4:45 PM GMT
    I had one episode with a situation like this but it has been about 15 years ago.

    While traveling and working in DC I got out of the office late and was walking past a gay bar and decided to stop. Almost as soon as I got inside and grabbed a drink a really hot guy approached me and we began chatting leading to some very hot kissing and fondling.

    He told me that he lived almost across the street and we went to his house and in no time he had me naked and on his bed. I was really into it and could not wait to feel him inside me as he had my legs pushed back up over my shoulders and was licking me driving me wild. I had told him several times that I only played safe and he had agreed.

    I felt him push his cock against my ass and fortunately had the sense to feel his cock and realize he was trying to enter me bareback. I protested and he insisted still trying to push himself inside of me. With him almost on top of me he did penetrate me slightly before I could manage to get away. He then offered to put on a condom but I dressed and left. If he was that insensitive I really wanted nothing to do with him and figured once into it he would probably try to slip the condom off again.

    I really don't understand why people act like this. Fortunately you realized what this guy was trying to do and got out.
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    May 19, 2016 12:10 AM GMT
    I havent. I like your persistance. I hate when people wont except no for an answer. Next time you could just stick to other things and avoid fucking
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    May 19, 2016 12:14 AM GMT
    joeisawesome1 said
    Saad22 said
    Then I told him that I wouldn't change my mind and that he was free to go if he wasn't interested in having sex with a condom, at which point he got really mad and left.

    Ever experienced anything like that ?


    as someone said to you earlier, congratulations on your persistence! sex has to be consensual. no one should be talked or pressured into doing anything they don't want to do.

    as a Pillow Prince myself, (that means for a guy to only like being sucked off and pleasured and not reciprocate or do anything else during sex) that is the most important rule to learn.

    i have had guys who wanted to stick their cock up my ass or stick their cock in my mouth but i would never allow it and if the guy got upset about it, i would just have him take me back home.

    Although, one time i hooked up with a guy who took me back to his place and sucked on my cock for a bit and then expected me to reciprocate (despite the clear as day bio on my grindr profile saying I only like GETTING head and not giving)
    i said no (because i hate sucking cock, i only like getting mine sucked).

    so then he decided to force his cock into my mouth full of unwelcoming hostile razor sharp teeth

    BIG MISTAKE!

    he ended up realizing that the inside of my mouth was equivalent to a cheese grater, not to mention that he brought out 'the angry walking dead zombie' in me... he DID NOT enjoy it at all... but that's what he gets!

    and i ended up having to walk 5 miles to get home because he literally threw me out of his house because of that but i didn't care.. lol

    sex should not be 'transactional' at all, both partners should enjoy doing what they're ok with and feel comfortable with.

    and i guess that man will think twice about forcing another guy to do something he doesn't want to do icon_razz.gif or at least read the profile of the guy he's hooking up with more clearly icon_razz.gif


    Lol he got what he deserved. Good for youicon_biggrin.gif
  • SilverRRCloud

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    May 22, 2016 6:28 AM GMT
    The BB vs. condom issue tends to become the struggle of wills between two males. No doubt, the stakes are very high, too.

    I do not let this struggle develop at all. No matter how hot the dude may be, at the moment he indicates that he wants to bareback, I am out of there.

    True, I err on the side of safety, and feel good about it, too.

    SC
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    May 22, 2016 2:54 PM GMT
    I can't tell you how many times a day I get BB propositions from reckless bottoms on gay sex sites, many of whom are "discreet" (i.e., they're straight-curious, bi, or partnered but cheating). I've always been extremely careful because I know that some bottoms just love cum, and they will do anything to feel those warm juices in their love canal. I've heard of bottoms sabotaging safe sex mid-coitus, so I pay particular attention to what the bottoms are doing with their naughty fingers when I'm penetrating them. To be sure, I wouldn't be above strangling a bottom if I found out during the act that he'd deliberately put me at risk by surreptitiously screwing with the rubber.