jock202 saidEvery person has 1 or more fears of coming out. As a gay or bi man, what is your fear or fears of coming out? If u are out, what thing or things do u fear the most that hold u back from doing things because of your sexuality? Also, how do u think we can change this for the better?
One of my fears is that in my state i can be fired for being gay. We probably have many of the same fears.
Unfortunately, my fear has already come true. If you plan or have planned on a non typical gay career, such as a fire fighter for example, One piece of advise for anyone coming out, even today. Do not become a political activist for the "LGBTQI cause". Do not go to marches. Do not go to or be in pride parades. Do not try to "change your workplace" into diversity, Do not tell your family friends you are gay unless you are on your own and well established. Stay out of the spotlight at all cost.
Move out of the United States to a less religious country if you wish to do all these things I just said not to do
If I had to do it all over, yes, Id be outta here just like Tina Turner