Social dilemma

  • kew1

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    May 10, 2016 5:33 PM GMT
    I've come across a profile on a gay website using photos of someone at my gym ( he has his own website ).
    Do I let him know?
  • interestingch...

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    May 10, 2016 5:51 PM GMT
    kew1 saidI've come across a profile on a gay website using photos of someone at my gym ( he has his own website ).
    Do I let him know?


    Totally depends on the context of the web site and why you were on it, also if he knows you are gay and if he is mentally stable, if it were me then I would want to know and I would do something about it, I have seen nude pics of someone I know on tumblr, I'm sure he knows they are there but when I see him next I will tell him, hope he takes it well, full frontal and erect in 2 of them, he's got a big one too but I have showered after sports with him anyway and knew that, its difficult to know what to do, he may well be embarrassed but I would want to know anyway if they were of me,
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    May 10, 2016 5:53 PM GMT
    Yes, might be his profile, might be someone using his photos for catfishing.

    Reminds me of a former roommate of mine. Accused me of stalking him when I mentioned I saw him on a gay dating site. Had to remind him, dur, that you had to register to see pictures, and he was my type, so, TA DA, he came up in my search.
  • kew1

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    May 10, 2016 6:25 PM GMT
    kzen64 saidYes, might be his profile, might be someone using his photos for catfishing.

    Reminds me of a former roommate of mine. Accused me of stalking him when I mentioned I saw him on a gay dating site. Had to remind him, dur, that you had to register to see pictures, and he was my type, so, TA DA, he came up in my search.


    The area he's listed in is wrong, I think the height is wrong,and I've met his girlfriend before. Not that the last means much.
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    May 10, 2016 6:35 PM GMT
    Doesn't sound like you know him very well. When in doubt, MYOB.
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    May 11, 2016 2:46 AM GMT
    kew1 said
    kzen64 saidYes, might be his profile, might be someone using his photos for catfishing.

    Reminds me of a former roommate of mine. Accused me of stalking him when I mentioned I saw him on a gay dating site. Had to remind him, dur, that you had to register to see pictures, and he was my type, so, TA DA, he came up in my search.


    The area he's listed in is wrong, I think the height is wrong,and I've met his girlfriend before. Not that the last means much.

    Are you friends with the guy? If no, don't mention it. Just report the profile to site administrator. Probably won't do anything without proof, but it's worth a shot.
  • kew1

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    May 11, 2016 11:51 AM GMT
    I let him know, he said it happens to him a lot & he's used to it.
    this guy
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  • dave85

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    May 11, 2016 7:06 PM GMT
    if he's hot
    that's an easy way to tell him u might b interested
    could b a problem if he's an angry homophobe though
  • Eli_jah

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    May 12, 2016 3:31 AM GMT
    This is hardly a "dilemma"... icon_rolleyes.gif