Eli_jah saidI don't see how some guys can have four five six new guys a week plus three or four fuck buddies. It just seems exhausting. At the peak of my slut phase I had maybe 20 guys in a year. Yes, We Can!
Maybe we all plateau at some point. Thoughts?
And, yes, it can be exhausting. And, yes, after a while it does get boring, though it sure is a lot of fun till you reach that point.
I have observed that some guys simply have a very strong sexual drive. Some of them have an inclination towards being promiscuous, too. I imagine that this is something that is in your genes to one degree or the other.
Some guys have grown up in a sexually positive environment. Going out there and playing the field is what every healthy young man is supposed to do. Sure, people may tease you over it, but everyone will agree that you are doing the right thing. The prevailing attitude of such cultures is that unless you get it out of your system in your late teens and throughout your 20's and early 30's, it'll come to haunt you once you have your own family and once you should be focusing on other issues.
Yet another issue is that one of your actual work/lifestyle. A dude living in a small town tucked away in the middle of nowhere may be having loads of sex with one or both of his buddies but he is not very likely to win the promiscuity context by any stretch of imagination. On the other hand, a guy living in a major metro city, traveling extensively for both business and pleasure gets a lot more exposure, and usually benefits from being a 'new' face among your usual crowd. Living in various hotels as opposed to living in your well-known neighborhood is also conducive to NSA, totally casual hookups.
As always, life circumstances are what they are. You can try to change them, too. You can be offered various choices, and since it is your life, you call the shots...