There is a guy...

  • reverse__

    Posts: 2

    May 12, 2016 8:52 PM GMT
    Hi

    Here is the thing, there is a guy that I've been seeing for 4 mounts now. Everything is okei, but i know for a fact(I mean there is internet), that hes NAME is now what he say it is. And my question is do I tell him that i know or should i wait for him to tell me.?

    He is a nice guy, everything that he said about him is true, except the name thing...

    I have talk about that subject whit him (about names, how people don't tell there names..), but nothing icon_biggrin.gif....

    I understand the fact that you want to hide you're identity for like 1-2 even third date, but its been four mounts.


    So do i tell him and if i do how to TELL him?
  • TombRaider

    Posts: 94

    May 13, 2016 2:19 AM GMT
    How positive are you that it's him? (Online that is) if you know for a fact, bring it up to him. You have a right to know if you are both wanting a relationship together and lying from the start only shows how he will be down the road. I say go ahead and tell him why. Other possibility is someone's else is using his photos (if you found him on FB)
  • reverse__

    Posts: 2

    May 13, 2016 6:47 AM GMT
    Well I'm 100% sure, because he is a surgeon and i work as a Cyber Security firm, so no mistake there...

    He did not lie about anything else (his specialty, family age birth place...everything checks out) except the name...witch is very wired, because he know what I work.....

    Also if I tell him I don't know if he will get offended he might say I invited his privacy and stuff....

    Also he makes mistakes like, we ware in his place and he was showing me something n google and in the top right corner another confirmation....and I don't know if he is playing like that with me or he just think that i'm stupid or something....

  • TombRaider

    Posts: 94

    May 13, 2016 11:51 AM GMT
    In that case, I think you should have the right to know the truth. It maybe a small lie but it's not the way to start of a relationship. Maybe he had his name changed legally or he's not out yet.
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    May 13, 2016 2:12 PM GMT
    OP; you know you can re enter your posts on this site and edit out grammar errors. Not a big for me but makes things more believable.

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    May 13, 2016 3:06 PM GMT
    Next time you meet in person, call him by his "real" name and see his reaction. You can go from there.
  • Twozera12

    Posts: 13

    May 16, 2016 8:49 PM GMT
    A lot of people have nicknames they go by so maybe he isn't lying...