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    Feb 10, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    Is it just me that always likes guys who wont even talk to me or does this happen to everyone ?
    I mean like it happens all the time.
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    Feb 10, 2009 4:12 AM GMT
    Welcome to the club. icon_lol.gif
  • Tiller66

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    Feb 10, 2009 4:31 AM GMT
    Yes the club is bigger then you think eye candy is good to look at but usually not worth the trouble if your lucky you might conect with one or two. When it happens enjoy
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    Feb 10, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    Mrod79 saidIs it just me that always likes guys who wont even talk to me or does this happen to everyone ?
    I mean like it happens all the time.


    Um. Ridiculously hot dude, with no shirtless pic. Put up a shirtless pic to get the attention of the shallow fools you're trying to chat with.
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    Feb 10, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
    i dont really every initiate any convo's in life or online cuz of my fear of rejection, but i have the same feeling (ish) i feel that all the guys that do talk to me or that do approach me at school are all wrong for me.

    why cant life be easy? icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 10, 2009 6:17 AM GMT
    I don't initiate conversations online because most guys are looking for someone or something specific. If you don't fit their criteria, they don't want to talk to you.

    I think the forums are a better outlet for general conversation.
  • hartfan

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    Feb 10, 2009 6:39 AM GMT
    Mrod79 saidIs it just me that always likes guys who wont even talk to me or does this happen to everyone ?
    I mean like it happens all the time.


    Tell me about it. I guess you just have to try and try again, and be prepared to fail all the time.

    But in my opinion, I think those guys are missing out for not talking to you. At first glance you could easily be one of those guys you are talking about. I do think you're a nice person though.
  • Delivis

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    Feb 10, 2009 6:42 AM GMT
    Remember, there are many fish in the ocean .
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Feb 10, 2009 6:46 AM GMT
    But beware of sharks icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 10, 2009 7:48 AM GMT
    Delivis saidRemember, there are many fish in the ocean .


    i agree 100% delives
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    Feb 10, 2009 7:50 AM GMT
    LongThinCock4u said
    Delivis saidRemember, there are many fish in the ocean .


    i agree 100% delives


    sorry on miss spell of your name delivis
  • Delivis

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    Feb 10, 2009 7:56 AM GMT
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    Feb 10, 2009 7:58 AM GMT
    are you talking about on here or in real life? On here, I think the rules are different. Online behavior definitely gives guys the chance to totally ignore somebody without feeling any responsibility. Plus you never know why they might not reply to you online. Maybe they're busy doing something else or don't really want to get caught up in a chat. In real life encounter, like at the gym, it's probably more about their insecurities than about you.

    In either case, I wouldn't take it personally. You're a really good looking guy.
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    Feb 10, 2009 7:59 AM GMT
    Delivis said




    Oh really? I never knew that!!!!
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    Feb 10, 2009 11:09 AM GMT
    metafor said
    msldup saidYou're a really good looking guy.


    Really? Why do you find him attractive?


    I think he's attractive, too.

    That's a nasty, prick-ish thing to type. At least he has cojones to post pics of himself.
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    Feb 10, 2009 3:30 PM GMT
    Mrod79 saidMy friends say it's because im so serious looking.

    Well, there ya go...
    s1052627565_303833_1361.jpgIt doesn't hurt to verify (online) and smile (online and offline), you know... icon_razz.gificon_wink.gificon_cool.gif
  • Timbales

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    Feb 10, 2009 3:33 PM GMT
    Oh, see the wrong guys I used to go for would take to me, then string me along, emotionally and financially use me then drop me. I was too stupid/naive/needy to know otherwise.
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    Feb 10, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
    "Well you're a real tuff cookie with a long history
    of breakin' lil' hearts like the one in me..."


    How ironic this was song was playing as I read this.




    Guys suck, women have said it for years. There's the club you've joined icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 10, 2009 3:47 PM GMT
    Mrod79, it's us..... here...*gives big hug*...now you just get back in that saddle.

    Here's something I read once: My Grand-dad was always falling off his bike, and Grand-ma would always give him this advice..."Pedal, ya dern fool!" heheheh

    I'd suggest doing what I did all those years ago. I went out almost every night for 5 years til I met Bill. My rule was to talk to any human being for 10 minutes. Gender, age, looks, none of that mattered. Many nights I'd be home within 1/2 hour of going out! It was great. Then one day I met my Bill. Was I nervous? Nope, not by then. It showed. How did I know he was the guy for me? Likely after thousands of conversations I started with people and learning about people helped.

    Hang in!

    -Doug


    PS ignore the troll that asks others why they find you attractive. You're attractive. Get out there!
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    Feb 10, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
    meninlove said Mrod79, it's us..... here...*gives big hug*...now you just get back in that saddle.

    Here's something I read once: My Grand-dad was always falling off his bike, and Grand-ma would always give him this advice..."Pedal, ya dern fool!" heheheh

    I'd suggest doing what I did all those years ago. I went out almost every night for 5 years til I met Bill. My rule was to talk to any human being for 10 minutes. Gender, age, looks, none of that mattered. Many nights I'd be home within 1/2 hour of going out! It was great. Then one day I met my Bill. Was I nervous? Nope, not by then. It showed. How did I know he was the guy for me? Likely after thousands of conversations I started with people and learning about people helped.

    Hang in!

    -Doug


    PS ignore the troll that asks others why they find you attractive. You're attractive. Get out there!



    Thanks
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 10, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
    The issue isn't a "response back", but it can be focused on sex and not on something deeper... fortunately RJ is filled with a number of guys who appreciate quality friendships.
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    Jul 09, 2009 10:09 PM GMT
    I only initiate conversation online in person I am way too shy for my own good.
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    Jul 09, 2009 11:18 PM GMT
    Justmi saidI only initiate conversation online in person I am way too shy for my own good.



    Ditto. My shyness has caused me to miss out on a lot quite a few times. Nothing worse than finding out mr right would have said yes if i had asked. arggggg....Now Im too old for 99% of em. They all want young guys. Of course the poz thing doesnt help either. I say keep on trying. The worse thing they can do is say no. Good luck man. Lots of fishies in the sea.
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    Jul 09, 2009 11:22 PM GMT
    Hell no.. why on earth would I be interested in a guy who wont talk to me???

    gawd.. no.. if they don't wana talk I'll move on to the next guy who will and he'll be hotter then the last..

    What I really hate is the guys who play that whole "shy to talk" shit.. I'm fine with that for only so long, I'll do everything to get'em talking but if they wont.. fuck'em.. I've had a few get hurt when I just give up but I got better things to do then play games!

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    Jul 09, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    I am shy about saying hi and starting a conversation, but not about talking with a guy.