Who does the lubing up? Top or bottom.

  • Apparition

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    May 22, 2016 6:27 AM GMT
    So whose job is it to lube the hole, and also who lubes the hard cock?

    a. Top does both
    B. Bottom does both
    C. Each does their own
    D. Bottom does dick, top does hole.


    I prefer bottom does both, but usually end up doing both as top.
  • rnch

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    May 22, 2016 2:51 PM GMT
    "All of the above" can be quite satisfying foreplay.


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    May 22, 2016 3:20 PM GMT
    rnch said"All of the above" can be quite satisfying foreplay.

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    Yeah, I've done all those variations. I always forget where I put the operator's manual.
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    May 22, 2016 5:23 PM GMT
    I think any of the options can work... depending on the position...

    when the bottom is on his hand and knees, ass-up, it's easier for the top to do himself and the hole he's about to plow...

    when the top is laying on his back and "topping from the bottom", then it's easier for the bottom to lube up himself and the pole he's about to ride...

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  • TombRaider

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    May 22, 2016 8:49 PM GMT
    D. All the way
  • Allen

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    May 23, 2016 3:47 AM GMT
    I'd say all/any of the above. But if I HAD to choose, I'd say B.
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    May 23, 2016 4:14 AM GMT
    Depends on who is more aggressive.
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    May 23, 2016 2:07 PM GMT
    What lube?
  • TombRaider

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    May 24, 2016 2:01 AM GMT
    ^ I second that! It's specially hot when the top is so wet you don't need any.icon_twisted.gif
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    May 24, 2016 10:27 AM GMT
    E None of the above.

    Just jam it in. It hurts at first but then it feels amazing and there is no loss of sensation that you get with lube
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    Jun 18, 2016 10:41 AM GMT
    Depends on how horny or what we're doing at the time ,,,,

    If I'm taking my time servicing his throbbing shaft I've use two lubed finger on my hole ,,

    If we're playing around some I let him penetrate me with his lubed fingers ,,,,

    Either way , we get to have fun...

  • Jun 18, 2016 11:34 AM GMT
    wait so precumming a lot is a good thing? sweet
  • rnch

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    Jun 18, 2016 2:09 PM GMT
    zoltar saidE None of the above.

    Just jam it in. It hurts at first but then it feels amazing and there is no loss of sensation that you get with lube






    You must be either a Total Top ..... and/or an anal virgin.





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    Jun 18, 2016 10:55 PM GMT
    rnch said
    zoltar saidE None of the above.

    Just jam it in. It hurts at first but then it feels amazing and there is no loss of sensation that you get with lube


    You must be either a Total Top ..... and/or an anal virgin.

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    Vers bottom. Maybe not dry but a little spit does the trick
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    Jun 19, 2016 2:20 AM GMT
    All four sound like a good time to me.

  • Jul 03, 2016 11:02 AM GMT
    D.

    When I top there's already been a few lubed up fingers in there to prep the bottom.

    Bottom should do the dick to ensure enough lube is being used so that he's comfortable, depending on what he prefers.
  • takashi

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    Jul 03, 2016 11:57 AM GMT
    i usually do the lubing.
    After I clean myself out, I also lube myself so I know I am ready.
    I suck my top so I know he is wet and also apply a small amount of lube.
    Not too much as it can get too slippery, but just enough so its comfortable.

    We bottoms do not have self lubricating vaginas, so we got to keep ourselves wet enough.
    if i do get a little dry i use spit, from my mouth to my fingers to his cock(moving in and out of me)
    Gosh, I want someone in my bed now...
  • SweatyMike

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    Jul 03, 2016 3:04 PM GMT
    Both, but mainly I would totally show off my butt for him for awhile. Get it all ready for him. Play with it with my fingers then if I had a dildo, I would fuck myself as the top watches, then he would get down and rim my butt for awhile so that would be a good start to get me lubed up.
  • rrazvy

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    Jul 25, 2016 2:11 PM GMT
    D. But if I am still moist inside from the last session then my man can just lube his dick; his cum can do the rest ;). Obviously, only appropriate in a monogamous relationship!
  • SweatyMike

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    Sep 13, 2016 2:31 PM GMT
    If I were to bottom, it;s my job to get his dick all wet hard and ready. I would then spread lube all over his condom covered dick and then bend over for him.. play with my butt for awhile to get him all horned up for my butt,, then its his job to rim me and get me all ready for his dick... and when he about to cum he pulls out and shoots all over my chest or butt. (abit more information added at the end.. but what the hell )
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    Sep 14, 2016 2:29 PM GMT
    I don't think it's anyone's job - it's fun, not work! I think it varies depending on position, or just what you feel like doing at the time - and how much lube you use! If I'm topping I usually prefer to lube my own cock, he or me lube his ass, if I'm bottoming I don't like a huge amount of lube so normally after being rimmed for a while I would just lube his cock and put it in like that, no additional lube for my ass. Which makes it sound like I have a bucket-butt, it's not it's tight as fuck I promise icon_cool.gif I just don't like too much lube. Just enough!
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    Sep 14, 2016 5:31 PM GMT
    PulseFit said.. it's tight as fuck I promise icon_cool.gif !

    Forgive me if i don't believe you... I shall have to experience it myself to determine the validity of that statement...

    Now bend over... icon_lol.gif