Gay teenager need help to improve himself

  • jman6852

    Posts: 4

    May 22, 2016 5:14 PM GMT
    Hi,

    (My apologize but my English is poor, however I'm learning this language...)

    Firstly, I would like to introduce myself. I know, I am strange, but I'm trying to write down my real feelings. Please, try to understand my situation and don't be rude. It is really hard to write down my feelings, because I've got really so much wicked comments when I were a secondary school student. I believe there are some nice men (or girls) here who can help me.

    So, I'd like to introduce myself and my goals shortly. I am 21 years old IT student at a university in Eastern-Europe. I am 5"9' tall and 76 kg (~168 lbs). (Unfourtanetly, not muscular, I'm a bit fat... ) I have an average face, body type I think. I've registered on a date site a month ago, but nothing. I don'f follow fashion, I have a simple short hairstyle etc. So, shortly: Just a really simple and gray guy I am. Well, my goal is not concrete and hard to talk about it. (Yeah, partly because I don't speak English icon_biggrin.gif) But jokes aside, my goal is to be a bit better and find a partner.
    I've started to go to gym, but without any motivation, I stopped it. Now, I would like to start it again. Well, I don't have exact goals. I mean, I really love athletic bodytype, but also some bodybuilders looks so hot too...
    I would like to create a 'survey' if you are in. If you think that I'm not crazy, I would like to share my photos with those people who want to help me to improve my appearance. I mean, after I show my pics with you, I would like to know what you want to change on me. For example, I would like to know what do you think, what is the perfect bodytype to me? (Of course, not only bodytype. I would like to know everything, what you want to change on me.) I know, my English is really bad, but I hope you have some notions what I'd like to ask you. I would like to discuss with you my goals/future. Of course, this is only the first part what I'd like to ask you... The second part is that I hope some of you can help me to reach my goals. Like bodybuilders, cool guys who can understand me and know, how I can reach my goals. I hope some of you can help me to build my body, to be hotter etc. Shortly, I hope, I can find some guys to chat with them. So I'd like to find some people who can obey me. "Would you like as big muscles as mine than do this and that etc...". I hope, I can find some guys who can give me workouts send motivation pics etc. (Or more hotter things... icon_biggrin.gif) I know, it is a strange ask, but to tell the truth, when I've started training at the first time, I lost all of my motivations. I hope, some of you can understand my feelings and can help me to reach my/our goals together. If I can find some really nice people here, I would love to create a forum about my progression to show you how I turned from a geek into a beast XD. I hope, some of you can give me your own notions, workout programs, diet and lot of other things.
    I have some notions about my perfect body type, but I don't know how can I reach that goal... Ohh, one more thing: I've read about exercises to increase my height and give me a bit more masculine/muscular face. I know, I can't add + 5" to my height or have as masculine face as those really hot models. However, I believe there are some exercise I can be taller with 1 or perhaps 2 inch(es) and to burn fat on my face to look a bit more masculine. So, I hope you can also help me in these things to me

    I really appreciate if somebody can help me. I would really love to share my progress and results all of you in the future. I hope, I can make some really good friends here too. This would be a really great honor for me if you guys and girls -who are so perfect- can give me some advice. And I also hope you will also have a good feeling to see how you helped a guy.

    P.S.: To tell the truth, when I've started to write this topic, I had so much other ideas in my mind. I wanted to formulate a completely different way this topic, but I can't, because of my poor English. (I should really learn much more this language). How I reread my sentences... I'm really said, because it seems like I am a stupid guy who knows nothing... Anyway, I hope you can experience my feelings and don't say "Aww, just another idiot" and you leave this topic. I feel really terrible myself because I can't tell you what I really want. Maybe my last sentence to those people who thinks about to help a random guy: "I hope, we can reach our goals together."
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    May 22, 2016 5:22 PM GMT
    Your English is fine. Not perfect but better than most. Oh, by the way, if you're 21 years old you aren't a teenager.
  • jman6852

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    May 22, 2016 5:24 PM GMT
    Not4u saidYour English is fine. Not perfect but better than most.

    Thank youicon_smile.gif I hope, I can find some people here. Please send me a private message if you wanticon_smile.gif
  • Crisistunity

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    May 22, 2016 6:00 PM GMT
    The thing you should change first is your own self-esteem.

    It may be contradictory, but don't let others decide what you should change in your life.

    If you want to look better, start working out, you don't have to decide what kind of body suits you best, because you already have a body and working it out will make it look healthy and fit.
  • jman6852

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    May 22, 2016 6:06 PM GMT
    Crisistunity saidThe thing you should change first is your own self-esteem.

    It may be contradictory, but don't let others decide what you should change in your life.

    If you want to look better, start working out, you don't have to decide what kind of body suits you best, because you already have a body and working it out will make it look healthy and fit.


    Of course, I will decide this thing. I just want to know what other people thinks. (Sorry, If I was not clear) + Much more important to find some people who can help me to reach my goals.icon_smile.gif Like a trainer...icon_biggrin.gif It's really important to find a guy who really wants to help me to grow...:/
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    May 22, 2016 8:51 PM GMT
    It's a common fantasy and desire of gay men who want to build muscle to be shown the ropes by muscular gay men.

    I'M still waiting for a muscle mentor.

    You may find help, but your problem is threefold:

    1) you have a LOT of competition

    2) most gay men do the research and put in the work themselves, AND know (by definition since you're online) that you have internet access to countless fitness websites and YouTube trainers, so they lack the inclination to help aside from perhaps directing you to same

    3) most muscular men who put in the time and the work DON'T have the time to help even if they wanted to
  • jman6852

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    May 23, 2016 7:55 AM GMT
    Well, I founded many workouts and plans. I would love to find only a guy who can motivate me. Who wants to 'teach' me and maybe talk with him about these things. I haven't too much time too. But I believe I can find a really nice guy who wants to help me and watch my progres. (I don't know how but I will be thankfulicon_smile.gif)
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    May 25, 2016 11:14 PM GMT
    Look in a mirror if you're looking for someone to motivate you. He's really the only one.