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  • brickboy1966

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    May 31, 2016 10:31 PM GMT
    Can we as adults talk about anything serious on here or is this just a pickup site?
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    May 31, 2016 10:35 PM GMT
    brickboy1966 saidCan we as adults talk about anything serious on here or is this just a pickup site?


    I think it's part pickup, part muscle-worship/porn, part social banter. There's serious topics but it's the Internet. Your job is to ignore all the crap (and the crappy people, too).
  • okaces91

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    May 31, 2016 10:38 PM GMT
    Hopefully, we can. I've been trying to be a bit more open in regards to getting involved in discussions, and it's been pretty good for the most part - I've talked to some really great people! A lot of it has to do with mindset, I suppose.
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    Jun 01, 2016 3:16 AM GMT
    brickboy1966 saidCan we as adults talk about anything serious on here or is this just a pickup site?


    You had better hope so. I've seen your adult pics. No chance you'll be picked up.
  • Allen

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    Jun 01, 2016 5:16 AM GMT
    Not4u said
    brickboy1966 saidCan we as adults talk about anything serious on here or is this just a pickup site?


    You had better hope so. I've seen your adult pics. No chance you'll be picked up.


    Man ... you are a nasty little bitch.
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    Jun 01, 2016 5:58 AM GMT
    But this is not a pick-up site - at least not the forums, where you want to talk about something "serious." Most of the "meeting" of potential dates/hook-ups occurs through PMs to other guys who happen to be online, by guys who do not participate in the forums.
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    Jun 01, 2016 6:03 AM GMT
    HikerSkier saidBut this is not a pick-up site - at least not the forums, where you want to talk about something "serious." Most of the "meeting" of potential dates/hook-ups occurs through PMs to other guys who happen to be online, by guys who do not participate in the forums.


    This is true in my experience.
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    Jun 01, 2016 4:13 PM GMT
    Not4u said
    brickboy1966 saidCan we as adults talk about anything serious on here or is this just a pickup site?


    You had better hope so. I've seen your adult pics. No chance you'll be picked up.


    You are such a rude galah !!
    Why so much venom in your mouth , does it make you feel better to insult someone ?
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 01, 2016 4:23 PM GMT
    Kind of a negative way to introduce yourself, by starting with the implication that there's something wrong with us. All you have to do is read the forums and decide for yourself. RJ isn't a hookup site though it can be a dating site.
  • nice_chap

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    Jun 01, 2016 5:28 PM GMT
    I can have a serious conversation.

    As in there are many seriously hot and sexy blokes on this site.
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    Jun 01, 2016 5:55 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidKind of a negative way to introduce yourself, by starting with the implication that there's something wrong with us. All you have to do is read the forums and decide for yourself. RJ isn't a hookup site though it can be a dating site.


    At least someone else knows when he's been insulted.
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    Jun 02, 2016 1:11 AM GMT
    Perhaps he just has more tact in how the question was expressed. perhaps you could learn from this because your reply was rude, inconsiderate and immature. Your kind of response is not needed here to establish a community of friends and comrades. Perhaps you should reconsider your choice of sites to post.
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    Jun 02, 2016 1:25 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidPerhaps he just has more tact in how the question was expressed. perhaps you could learn from this because your reply was rude, inconsiderate and immature. Your kind of response is not needed here to establish a community of friends and comrades. Perhaps you should reconsider your choice of sites to post.

    I'm willing to bet money that Not4u is the former aristoshark/jprichva.
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    Jun 02, 2016 3:50 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidPerhaps he just has more tact in how the question was expressed. perhaps you could learn from this because your reply was rude, inconsiderate and immature. Your kind of response is not needed here to establish a community of friends and comrades. Perhaps you should reconsider your choice of sites to post.


    Tact?! Tact?! He insults us by questioning our ability to have serious dialogue and then wonders if this is just a pick up site. I just pointed out to him there was really nothing for him to worry about when it came to that ever happening. He just needed a reality check. I hate to see someone walk around deluding himself in thinking someone would want to hook up with him. THAT would be cruel.

    As for you, I have no need of your friendship comaraderie or anyone else's for that matter. Perhaps you should go fuck yourself.
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    Jun 03, 2016 2:53 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    eb925guy saidPerhaps he just has more tact in how the question was expressed. perhaps you could learn from this because your reply was rude, inconsiderate and immature. Your kind of response is not needed here to establish a community of friends and comrades. Perhaps you should reconsider your choice of sites to post.

    I'm willing to bet money that Not4u is the former aristoshark/jprichva.


    No way - Aristoshark has wit. And if insulted someone, it wasn't on the basis of looks. Aristoshark is not back - there is no one here that would interest him anymore.
  • badbug

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    Jun 03, 2016 9:53 PM GMT
    Aristoshark is not back - there is no one here that would interest him anymore


    I wonder in what sense do you say something like this?

    It just seems like an oddly timed comment in a thread about mass insults.

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    Jun 03, 2016 10:14 PM GMT
    badbug saidAristoshark is not back - there is no one here that would interest him anymore


    I wonder in what sense do you say something like this?

    It just seems like an oddly timed comment in a thread about mass insults.



    Read? It was a direct response to someone else's (off topic) remark about whether not4u was in fact aristoshark.
  • Allen

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    Jun 04, 2016 6:15 AM GMT
    Not4u said
    eb925guy saidPerhaps he just has more tact in how the question was expressed. perhaps you could learn from this because your reply was rude, inconsiderate and immature. Your kind of response is not needed here to establish a community of friends and comrades. Perhaps you should reconsider your choice of sites to post.


    Tact?! Tact?! He insults us by questioning our ability to have serious dialogue and then wonders if this is just a pick up site. I just pointed out to him there was really nothing for him to worry about when it came to that ever happening. He just needed a reality check. I hate to see someone walk around deluding himself in thinking someone would want to hook up with him. THAT would be cruel.

    As for you, I have no need of your friendship comaraderie or anyone else's for that matter. Perhaps you should go fuck yourself.


    Tisk, tisk ... you're so bitchy and angry! You're just lashing out at and being a dick to everyone here because you don't have any real friends. It's always those who can't get and keep friends who are the quickest to claim they don't need them.
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    Jun 04, 2016 7:41 AM GMT
    You seem to want to be my friend. You stalk my every post like a lost, lovesick puppy.
  • Allen

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    Jun 05, 2016 6:26 AM GMT
    Not4u saidYou seem to want to be my friend. You stalk my every post like a lost, lovesick puppy.


    LOL ... just when I thought you couldn't be more clueless, you manage to outdo yourself! icon_lol.gif

    I do pity you though, just not enough to be your only friend. Sorry.
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    Jun 05, 2016 7:15 AM GMT
    Lol. You can't control yourself. Poor little lovesick puppy. Hahahahahaha. Come little puppy. Follow me sum more. #thisishowyoupullajackasswithoutarope
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    Jun 05, 2016 4:46 PM GMT
    JackTX said
    brickboy1966 saidCan we as adults talk about anything serious on here or is this just a pickup site?


    I think it's part pickup, part muscle-worship/porn, part social banter. There's serious topics but it's the Internet. Your job is to ignore all the crap (and the crappy people, too).


    Is that not the gay community in a nutshell? Haha